1. Think like a wise man; But when you speak, you should act like an ordinary person. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

2. People fail not because they don't have faith, but because they can't put faith into action and stick to it. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

3. The saddest person in the world is one who has no merits to show off, but disguises his poor sense of inferiority with annoying arrogance and boasting. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

4. If you want to succeed, you must have the following conditions: use your desire to enhance your enthusiasm, use your perseverance to smooth the mountain, and at the same time believe that you will succeed. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

5. If you are unhappy, then the only way to become happy is to sit up straight happily and pretend to be happy to speak and act. If your behavior exudes happiness, it is impossible to remain depressed psychologically. This little basic truth can bring miracles to our lives. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

6. The process of spiritual maturity is a process of continuous self-discovery and self-exploration. Unless we know ourselves first, it is difficult for us to know others. -Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

7. Fear is mostly caused by ignorance and uncertainty. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

8. Lincoln said, "A man who has achieved great things can't care about others everywhere and spend his time arguing with others. Unnecessary arguments will not only damage his temperament, but also lose his self-control. Be humble to people whenever possible. Instead of arguing with a dog, let the dog go first. If you are bitten by a dog, even if you kill the dog, you can't cure your wound. " -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

9. One of human nature is that people will not accept criticism from others, always think that they are always right, and like to find various excuses to defend themselves. -Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

1. Many people can't be good communicators, mainly because they only talk about things that interest them, but these things make others feel bored. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

11. If you are criticized, please remember that it is because criticizing you will give him a sense of importance, and it also shows that you are accomplished and attractive. Many people get satisfaction by accusing people who are more accomplished than themselves. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

12. Where your interests lie, that is, where your abilities lie. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

13. For those immature people, they can always find some excuses to cover up their own shortcomings or misfortunes. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

14. Try to get close to those who know you, trust you and encourage you, which will have a great influence on your future success. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

15. Many lonely people do this because they don't understand that love and friendship are not gifts from the sky. If one wants to be welcomed or accepted by others, one must pay a lot of efforts and costs. If one wants others to like it, we really need to do our best to love, friendship or happy time, which is not stipulated in a paper contract.

Let's face it, whether the husband is dead or the wife is dead or alive, people have the right to live happily again. However, they must understand that happiness is not given by others, but by themselves to win the needs and love of others. -Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

16. If you don't agree with others' opinions, you may want to stop them, but you'd better not. It won't work. If you want to make enemies, you are better than your friends; But if you want to get friends, let your friends get ahead of you.

There is a German saying: "The purest happiness is the happiness we get from other people's difficulties". Yes, some friends may get more satisfaction from your difficulties than from your victory. So don't always exaggerate your achievements to others, we should be humble, so that people will always like it. We should be humble, because you and I are nothing. -Dale Carnegie's The Complete Works of Human Weaknesses.

17. The most important thing is not whether others love us, but whether we are worthy of being loved. -Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

18. In the complicated modern society, only those who can keep their inner peace will not become mental derangement. People who don't know how to resist anxiety will have a shorter life span. Nothing ruins a woman's appearance by making her age faster than worry.

What makes you relaxed and happy most is sound faith, sleep, music and laughter. Have confidence in the future, sleep well, and look at life health and happiness from the funny side is yours. -Dale Carnegie's The Complete Works of Human Weaknesses.

19. Being kind to others is not a responsibility, but a pleasure, because it can improve your health and happiness. When you are kind to others, you are also kind to yourself. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

2. Gratitude is a highly educated product. You can't get it from ordinary people. It is human nature to forget or not thank. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

21. Everyone I meet has something better than me, and I should learn from them in this respect. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

22. Willie James: "In human nature, the deepest nature is the desire to be valued by others." -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

23. The saddest thing in human nature is that all of us put off living, dreaming of a wonderful rose garden on the horizon, and can't appreciate the roses blooming outside our window today. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

24. Accepting the fait accompli is the first step to overcome any misfortune that comes with it. Accepting the worst can help you develop your new abilities psychologically. The biggest disadvantage of worry is to destroy our ability to concentrate. Once worry occurs, our thoughts will wander around and lose our ability to make decisions. -Dale Carnegie's The Complete Works of Human Weaknesses.

25. No matter what, keep your true colors and be unique. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

26. The first step for a person to mature should be to dare to take responsibility. When we live in the world, we have to face many responsibilities in life. For those immature people, they can always find some reasons to get rid of some of their own shortcomings or misfortunes.

it is important to transform people's lives into better ones, not to indulge in the abyss of self-pity. Take the consequences of your actions and be responsible for your actions, not just kicking the chair! -Dale Carnegie's The Complete Works of Human Weaknesses.

27. Save the face of others! What an important question this is! And we seldom consider this problem. Even if others make mistakes and we are right, if we don't save face for others, we will ruin a person. -Dale Carnegie's The Complete Works of Human Weaknesses.

28. It seems that people who can develop the ability to listen well are less common than anyone with a good personality. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

29. The concept is extremely simple, but unfortunately, it is very complicated and difficult to implement. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

3. "Unwilling to be mediocre, advocating struggle" The value of life needs to be realized by hard work. From the moment we step into this world, we are endowed with an invisible responsibility, light or heavy, and we have interpreted different lives. Everyone has his own life track, and we watch from the sidelines, watching the joy or sorrow of others.

Life is so long, we can't immerse ourselves in other people's colorful stage, and we still have our own stage to perform with our heart. "Self-improvement, morality", I advocate this broad spiritual realm. -Dale Carnegie's The Complete Works of Human Weaknesses.

31. If you want to do it well, you will do it well. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

32. Two men looked out from the bars. One man saw the mud on the ground, while the other saw the stars all over the sky. True happiness is not necessarily pleasure, it is mostly a victory. The most important thing in life is not to invest with your income. Anyone can do this. What really matters is how to profit from the loss.

Only in this way can wisdom be needed to show that people are wise above others. Man has the power to turn defeat into victory. Nietzsche: Excellent people can not only endure what others can't bear, but also be willing to carry out such challenges. Our greatest weakness may provide us with an unexpected boost. -Dale Carnegie's The Complete Works of Human Weaknesses.

33. "Let us remember that the objects we get along with are not absolutely rational animals, but are full of emotional changes, prejudices, conceit and vanity". No matter how much you admire people, they all have such things, but they are obvious and not obvious. -Dale Carnegie's The Complete Works of Human Weaknesses.

34. Many troubles in life stem from our blind comparison with others and forgetting to enjoy our own life. -Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

35. The biggest experience I have learned is that our thoughts are the most important. If I can understand your thoughts, I can understand you as a person, because your thoughts have made you a person. By changing our own thoughts, we can change our lives. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

36. Our fatigue is usually not due to the work itself, but to anxiety, nervousness and unhappiness. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

37. Don't judge people, lest they be judged. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

38. Treat others as you want them to treat you. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

39. If one thing can be thought, it will be thought clearly.-Dale Carnegie's The Weaknesses of Human Nature.

4. The only way to influence others in the world is to talk about what he wants and tell him how to get what he wants. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

41. None of us want to be lectured, and no one will like it. Please remember that you must make us feel happy and interesting, otherwise, we won't pay attention to anything you say. At the same time, please remember that one of the most interesting things in the world is to refine elegant and witty anecdotes of celebrities.

So, please tell us the stories of two people you know, and tell us why one of them succeeded and the other failed. We'll be happy to listen. At the same time, please remember that we may benefit a lot from this example. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

42. I don't have time to quarrel or regret. No one can force me to hate them. I think of those kind people who helped me, and I can't repay them! -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

43. What you think of you is not who you really are, but what you think, what kind of person you will become. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

44. If you admit your mistake before others blame you. If the other person wants to say something, you have said it for him, and he has nothing to say, then you have a 99% chance to get his understanding. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

45. Shakespeare once said: Nothing is good or evil, but it is thought. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

46. As long as you believe that you are doing the right thing, don't care what others say. -Dale Carnegie's The Complete Works of Human Weaknesses.

47. We must believe in certain things. However, if we don't take action on this belief, everything will still be useless. It is useless to have faith without action. People don't fall down because they don't have confidence, but because they can't turn their beliefs into actions and stick to it regardless. Of course, faith alone is not enough to make us mature.

The advantage of faith is that it can strengthen our courage and prevent us from getting cold feet when we are tested. Unless we take faith as the foundation and then put it into action, any principle of truth is useless. Only actions count. -Dale Carnegie's The Complete Works of Human Weaknesses.

48. If you are criticized, it is because criticizing you can give him a sense of satisfaction. This also shows that you are successful and attractive. Small people are often proud of the shortcomings or mistakes of great people. Unreasonable criticism is often a disguised compliment. -Dale Carnegie's The Complete Works of Human Weaknesses.

49. For those who like to avoid responsibility, difficulties have become the best shield. If everyone thinks that the environment is not good all day, of course, they will blame their own faults on "defects" or various other reasons. People with mature minds will not fall into their own difficulties, but bravely face it, accept it, and then try to overcome and solve it.

They won't beg for mercy, despair or make excuses to escape. Immature people can always regard their differences as defects and obstacles, and then expect to receive special treatment. -Dale Carnegie's The Complete Works of Human Weaknesses.

5. People who can pour out their troubles to intimate friends are usually people who can grasp happiness, reduce fatigue and be energetic. -Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.