What words people often talk about seem to be good to you, but in fact they are kind-hearted and black-hearted? Some people say that it is not things that are complicated, but people. Sometimes, it is human beings who complicate things, because human nature is multifaceted, not one or the other. Some people seem pure and kind on the surface, but in fact, their hearts are distorted, and kindness is just a means of covering up. Most of me have been taught to treat people sincerely since I was a child, and I have a pure natural affinity for kindness, which is very easy to derail and be used by hypocrisy. Good-natured people are usually good at hiding and disguising, and will not easily show their true side, otherwise it will be difficult to achieve their goals. If a person has no discernment and blindly trusts each other, he will usually put himself in danger and bring himself harm. According to social psychology, the more a person hides his true side, the more blunt his words and actions are, and they look impeccable, but they can't stand scrutiny.

There is a saying like this: "A lie usually needs countless lies to be rounded." In order to hide their true side, they usually try to show their friendliness and give others a good side. But people who are really kind to you don't have to pay attention to this, so you will find the biggest difference if you listen attentively and observe attentively. When a person often says these seemingly good things for you, it usually has another purpose: it seems to be a good thing to say your things in front of others and someone is planning for you, so you should thank them.

But in fact, people who are really good to you should first respect you and consider whether you want to do this kind of propaganda and planning again, otherwise it is mostly for other purposes and is not sincere and friendly on the surface. Don't be intimate with such people casually, because in their eyes, your business is a very good topic and a special tool for her to open interpersonal relationships and gain benefits. It wasn't an unintentional mistake. It's not that she doesn't feel that there are no secrets. On the contrary, she is self-centered, completely ignoring your emotions and lacking the minimum respect for herself. How can people who don't respect you be really good to you?

In this kind of person's cognition, if you care, it is petty. What she said in her mouth was to let others know me and give you a good look. In fact, it was to satisfy her sense of existence and vanity. Such a person's personal interests are based on the privacy and pain of others, which is enough to prove that he is kind-hearted and black-hearted. If she doesn't say what you mean in front of outsiders, then she subconsciously takes your business as a topic of discussion and doesn't really understand you and feel the same way with you.