The good words and sentences in Fu Lei's 1958 letter include:

1. Only fools will turn around when they hit a nail; smart people will learn to behave when they see others suffer.

Appreciation: The difference between fools and wise men is that wise men can learn to summarize from other people's experiences and stories, thereby reducing their own detours and making wrong decisions, while fools do not have such understanding.

2. Try to ignore success or failure as much as possible, just try to do your best and feel no regrets.

Appreciation: As the saying goes, plans depend on people and success depends on heaven. This means that as long as we work hard and try our best to realize our dreams, no matter what the result is, we should not be too sad, as long as it is worth it. .

3. People who have not experienced sharp pain will not have deep and broad sympathy.

Appreciation: Fu Lei and his wife told Fu Cong that a person's thoughts are often related to experience. For example, sympathy is not a deep emotion in the hearts of ordinary people, but for those who have experienced deep pain, they feel it and have more sympathy.

4. Not getting carried away by victory is the best evidence of strength.

Appreciation: This sentence can be said to be a wise saying. After winning, many people tend to let down their guard and make major mistakes, leading to irreversible consequences. The more victories there are, the more vigilance and introspection there is.

5. The greatness of motherhood lies not in reason, but in that kind of intuitive emotion.

Appreciation: We often praise the greatness of maternal love. Why is maternal love great? I believe many people would say the word selfless. While this is true, the true greatness is that maternal love is a gut feeling, not born of rational thought but of a gut reaction.