1, understand that your time is precious and can't be wasted. Even if I didn't want to listen to what the other person said before, I will listen to what the other person said patiently now, but I will never waste my time on useless social interaction.

2. I'm not afraid of offending people, and I'm no longer afraid of being passive to Nuo Nuo, and I'm no longer afraid of expressing my views and ideas, so I can share my true feelings calmly.

3, talk and do things with a purpose and no longer do whatever you want. Consider the consequences of everything, make progress by retreating, and don't talk too much.

4. I used to watch the excitement, but now I listen to the doorway. When communicating with others, start to analyze whether their words have a second meaning. Why did the other party tell me this? Do I have an interest in him? What the hell does he mean?

5. Stop thinking about changing others.

Everyone has his own way of life, and every life deserves applause. You don't need to be their savior. What you think is good is not necessarily good for others, and what you think is right is not necessarily good for others.

6. It is no longer difficult to let go of family problems. It's time to make up, get rid of it, open yourself up, and don't keep yourself in internal friction.

7, no longer obsessed with excuses and rebuttals. Yes, yes, yes, you are right. You can say anything, I won't refute it, but I won't be influenced by what you say.

8. Stop expecting and complaining. When I meet something, the first thought in my mind is how to solve it by myself and be my savior.