The waves mean a thousand miles of snow, and the peach blossoms are silent.
How many people are happy with a pot of wine and a stick?
-Nan Tang Li Yu's "Fisherman"
Xue Mei refused to surrender for spring, and the poet pavilion commented on the pen fee. The snow in Mei Xu Xun is three points white, but the snow has lost a kind of plum fragrance.
-Song Lu Meipo "Xue Mei No.1"
Li Yugui is the king of a country, but he envies the fisherman at the bottom, thinking that he lives comfortably and is much happier than his own life. Many times, our life is terrible, not because we have too little, but because we love to keep up with the joneses.
Life is simple and happy, but we like to compare ourselves too much, always staring at what we don't have, forgetting what we get, constantly denying ourselves and life, and finally accumulating complaints and becoming a "cynical youth" who complains all day.
Jiang Yang once said, "I don't argue with anyone, and I don't care who I argue with."
There is no more elegant posture in life. Many things in life are inseparable from each other. Just like the eternal dispute in Xue Mei, both of them are beautiful scenery in winter. No one is better than anyone, and no one is worse than anyone. They have their own advantages and disadvantages-"The snow in Mei Xu Xun is white, but the snow has lost a kind of plum fragrance." So, why compare?
Learn to let go, try to let go of the mentality of competing with others, and don't let endless desires grab your heart. Life will be much easier.
Learning to let go is to control your emotions and learn to be the master of them.
Don't pay attention to the beating rain in the forest. Mei sings a long whistle and walks leisurely. Bamboo poles and sandals are more dexterous than riding horses. What's to be afraid of? A raincoat and hemp fiber, despite the wind and rain, still live my life. The coolness of spring breeze awakens my wine, and the cold begins to be cold, and the peak of the sun is the sun, but it is satisfied in time. Looking back at the place where I met the wind and rain, going back, for me, there is no wind and rain, but it is still sunny.
-Su Song Shi's "Dingfeng"
There are flowers in spring, moons in autumn, cool breeze in summer and snow in winter. Mind your own business, this is a good time on earth.
-Fifty-five "Ancient Odes" by Songshi Shaotan.
Life is long, there are always difficulties and obstacles, there are always ups and downs. Since you can't escape, it's better to face the ups and downs on the way calmly, without holding or complaining.
It doesn't matter who hurt us in life. The important thing is whether we can dissolve our negative emotions and get out of the negative state. Complaining won't ease our pain. On the contrary, every complaint reminds us of our suffering and adds another knife to the original scar. And the reason why we complain is nothing more than nine words: we can't let go, we can't see through it, and we can't forget it.
Only by stopping complaining can we control our emotions, learn to let go of the suffering we are experiencing and forget those unhappy things.
The most beautiful thing in life is to let go, it is better to forget each other. Let go of resentment, life can be free and relaxed, and happiness can be harvested earlier.