It's too easy for boys to chase girls. After reading this article, you will become an expert. Don't say anything until it's ripe. Some boys have only dated people a few times, and then they propose to establish further relationships. Nine times out of ten, this will spoil the soup. The beauty of love is that you don't have to say anything. Clear, clear, but not beautiful. Originally, people were willing to come out and talk to you alone, indicating that girls have a good impression on you. But sometimes you can't even say it yourself, but you are eager to point it out and destroy this hazy beauty, so don't blame others for staying away. Look around at the love that died before it started. Many of them are caused by boys not mastering the temperature. Put your fist away for a better attack. What if the girl refuses? Some people say that we should pursue hard and persevere. Actually, it is not. Unless you are a person who doesn't care about anything, it is hard for you to bear the dirty eyes of girls and the mocking eyes of peers. Why don't you stop and take a break? This not only protects your dignity, but also leaves a way out, thus creating opportunities for future counterattacks. Let her wander in the crowd. When she hits a wall, go to her again, and she will realize that you are the one who loves her most. Even if you really can't give up, you should pay attention to the ways and means to find her. Don't let her find you annoying. This is usually difficult to do. Don't be too explicit and learn to care about her silently. Treat her with your honesty and kindness. Only in this way can you get her attention among a large group of boys screaming around her. Remember, only special you will attract her special attention. Strategic contempt ... tactical value ... Sometimes the girl you like will have some contact with you, such as talking, chatting, working together and so on. You'd better look at these things with a normal heart, and don't have a burden, you'd better suffer from loss. For example, don't pay too much attention to what she casually says. Some boys are easy to be romantic, which is the reason. However, we should pay enough attention to every such opportunity. For example, the first conversation should pay attention to discretion, and it is best not to involve the scope of love. Let's talk about childhood. It's not good to go straight to the point! Girls should be wary of you like wolves. Coaxing a girl can only be done after the girl becomes your girlfriend. This is a sign that you haven't mastered the temperature yet. Don't be male chauvinist, few girls will have a good impression on boys who don't respect women, remember! Remember! Almost every girl has one or two closest girlfriends. When everything else is blocked, they are your road to success. You can know whether girls are interested in you through them, and you can also convey your meaning through them. This is much better than what you said directly. Don't ignore this new force. I have seen the boy succeed in this way more than once. Finally, I want to remind you that there is never a fixed formula for love. The way others succeed may be your failure; The way others fail may be just your beauty. I only mention some principles here, and I must not copy them mechanically. I give you three good ideas! The first plan: Perseverance A man who pursues a girl rarely succeeds, especially when there is a big gap between two people in all aspects and the man is at a disadvantage. If men want to get the love of girls, they can only use this scheme. Jianghu says: thick-skinned, full; Thin skin, can't eat. If you give up as soon as a girl refuses, there is no chance. At this time, men will use this plan. They are not afraid of shame, humiliation, fatigue, spending money or wasting time. Men know that men are afraid of pestering women to grind. As long as they persevere and never give up, victory must belong to them. This is also the fundamental reason why the hero has no good wife and Lai Hanzhan is a flower branch. The second plan: playing hard to get, such a man is very cunning. I am obviously drooling over girls, but I always keep a certain distance from them. Men play hard to get, despise girls strategically and attach importance to girls tactically. He knows this girl, this prey, the tighter she chases, the faster she may run. On the surface, he pretends that he doesn't care about girls, and his attitude is lukewarm, neither salty nor light, just to let girls relax their vigilance against him, so that it is easier to observe girls' weaknesses and not expose their own shortcomings. He never talks about feelings in front of girls, and always shows that he is excellent at the right opportunity. The purpose of his doing this is to let the girls know that he is not in the same class as those flies. As long as the opportunity is ripe, take care of the girl in one fell swoop. The third measure: slowly stew the ancients: you can't eat hot tofu when you are impatient, and your feelings are cultivated. Men have a thorough understanding of these two ancient sayings of China. Chasing girls is like cooking. It's definitely not possible to stir-fry with strong fire. You have to stir-fry slowly with slow fire to enjoy cooking. Their specific approach is to find opportunities to approach girls and put them in their own prepared pots in the name of friends. Seasoning is often inviting girls to dinner, outings, movies, parties, etc. As long as the girl doesn't refuse, she will fry slowly, and one day she will stew the girl's raw beef, which will become his snack. Wish you success! ! ! ! ! !