This story tells us that it is difficult to change the environment. When you can't change the environment, you can only change yourself to adapt to the environment.
If you want to change your world and your life, you must first change your thinking and methods. On the red rabbit horse that has been on the battlefield for thousands of times, Guan Yu has been relentlessly expanding his pride all his life, not changing his arrogant thinking, and finally defeated Maicheng.
This left us with too many sighs. Before he died, he failed to change himself. After death, he can't change the tragedy.
On the other hand, Monroe, who was also in the Three Kingdoms period, only knew how to wield knives and guns at first, but could not be diligent in the cultivation of cultural knowledge. After realizing her shortcomings, Monroe studied hard. I changed myself, and truly achieved both civil and military skills, laying the foundation for the success of martial arts. Lv Meng naturally perfected his personality cultivation and successfully changed himself.
Guan Yu is outstanding, but he is at most one of the heroes, just like a drop of water in the sea. No matter how clear and transparent this drop of water is, it is destined to only rise and fall in the ups and downs of the month day after day, and it is impossible to make the whole sea clearer and clearer because of its clarity.
Water drops are to the sea what Guan Yu and Monroe are to the Three Kingdoms and man is to society. In life, people can only change themselves and adapt to society, thus changing society.
We fought all the way, not to change the world, but to stop the world from changing us. I remember a biological experiment. When you put a frog in a cup filled with boiling water, the frog will jump out at once. But when you put a frog in another cup filled with warm water and heat it slowly until it boils, the frog will swim comfortably in the cup at first, until it is too hot to jump out. This little experiment tells us that the most dangerous moment is the overly comfortable environment. A familiar lifestyle may be your most dangerous lifestyle. Constantly innovate, break the old model, I believe everything can be improved.
So how can we change ourselves, not be eliminated by society, and then live in society stronger? First of all, to change the status quo, you have to change yourself. If you want to change yourself, you have to start with a correct understanding of yourself. A correct understanding of oneself means that a person's understanding of himself should be consistent with his actual situation: a correct and comprehensive understanding of his own characteristics and strengths. Correctly understand the relationship between self and society, individual and collective.
People realize that individual growth is inseparable from the collective, and the value of self-life mainly lies in the contribution to society. Li was rejected by the national team twice. From a professional point of view, his figure is not ideal and his strength is insufficient, and beauty and strength are the basic conditions for selecting gymnastics seedlings. However, Xiao Shuang did not bow to the conclusion, nor did he give in to authority. By analyzing and judging his own advantages, he accepted the challenge. He realized that he had a good temperament, worked hard and was strong-willed, and believed that he could make up for his congenital deficiency. After hard training, Xiao Shuang finally knocked on the door of the national team with his own strength. At the 1992 Barcelona Olympic Games, Li completed the difficult movements of "three somersaults behind the group" with high quality and became the gold medal winner of the men's floor exercise in the Olympic Games. Therefore, we must look at ourselves from a developmental perspective, discover our new strengths and weaknesses in time, strive to turn our weaknesses into strengths, constantly correct our weaknesses, and improve ourselves through our own efforts.
Secondly, to change the status quo, you have to change yourself, and to change yourself, you have to change your mind.
Tolstoy said: "There are only two kinds of people in the world: the spectator and the actor. Most people want to change the world, but no one wants to change themselves. " If you want to change the status quo, you must change yourself. If you want to change yourself, you have to change your mind. Sun Jianai, the teacher of Emperor Guangxu, was the top scholar in Xianfeng period of Qing Dynasty. He used to be a senior official and a cabinet university student. He holds a high position and is famous in the government and the public. However, the senior officials and ministers of such a dynasty kept a low profile and kept quiet. When getting along with others, he always puts himself in the lowest position and treats others equally. Emperor Guangxu's teacher only changed his idea of superiority, thus winning everyone's respect.
All achievements begin with ideas, and a series of failures also begin with wrong ideas. To adapt to society and change yourself, you must change yourself.
Finally, to change the status quo, you have to change yourself. To change yourself, you have to constantly improve yourself. Only by constantly improving one's own realm can one see higher and farther and do things more efficiently. This requires people to learn to study consciously and think positively. Only by improving their own abilities and strengthening their adaptability to the environment can they occupy an advantageous position in the crowd. Once upon a time, a pair of disciples went to the foot of the mountain to cook vegetarian meals. On the way, the disciples asked the master how much a bowl of rice was worth.
The master said, it is hard to say. Depends on who has it.
If it is in the hands of a housewife, she will add some water to steam, and a bowl of rice will come out in half an hour, which is the value of one dollar.
If it is in the hands of a small businessman, he will soak the rice, divide it into four or five parts, and wrap it into zongzi leaves, which is the value of four or five dollars.
If you find a clever businessman, he can properly ferment, heat and brew a bottle of wine with great care, which may be worth 10 to 20 yuan.
So how much a bowl of rice is worth varies from person to person.
In fact, life is like a bowl of rice, and everyone has his own value.
With the passage of time, the value of people and people has increased. The difference of development results depends largely on the processing degree of "a bowl of rice".
Compared with wine, rice has different values. These changes are the result of a lot of fermentation, exercise and fumigation.
This is the same as people's attitude towards success. Only by bravely paying and constantly improving yourself will there be extraordinary value.
A person who doesn't like learning and make progress can only keep the value of "a bowl of rice". On the contrary, people with a sense of urgency and lifelong learning will have wider horizons, deeper thoughts, higher realms and deeper values.
Please make your today better than yesterday! Everyone is a beautiful scenery, there is only one unique you in the world, and the world will not change because of you. So, change yourself! The environment will never take the initiative to adapt itself, but we can change ourselves, adapt to the environment and succeed.