Humor: celebrities are witty, while ordinary people are loquacious;
Playboy: Celebrities are romantic, ordinary people are obscene.
Optimists see opportunities in suffering, while pessimists see suffering in opportunities.
The same thing, from different angles, will experience a world of difference.
Everyone's heart is a window, and everything outside the heart constitutes a colorful, enchanting and charming world in our life. In this colorful world, we experience the impermanence of life. How many times have our hearts wandered in darkness and depression, or frustrated by failure, or lost because of boredom. How many times have our souls suffered the hardships of life, and almost fell into the abyss of despair. In life, we often hear people complain: "Why is life so unfair? Why do you want to give me so much pain? Why can't I have eternal happiness and happiness like others? " Such a person only sees the hardships that life has brought him, but never looks at life from another angle, nor does he change his mind to understand everything in life.
The real perfection of man lies not in what he has, but in what he deeply understands. Optimists see opportunities in adversity, while pessimists see hardships in opportunities. Among them, the secret lies in what kind of mentality you look at. If we look at it from another angle, the failure, frustration or boredom we encounter on the road of life will be a rare treasure. Because these failures and setbacks tempered our will, let us experience a different kind of life, let us feel the depth, massiness and richness of life, because suffering is the highest institution to hone our personality. If we can think of these things when complaining, then our hearts will be suddenly enlightened and our lives will be far away from darkness and full of sunshine.
There is a story about an old woman who lost her husband in her early years and raised two sons alone. She regards her son as her life, rejoices in their joy and resents their worries. The two sons go to the market every day to do small business to make a living. The eldest son is selling umbrellas and the youngest son is selling dried noodles. On a sunny day, the old man looked at the dazzling sun on the horizon, and his heart was full of worries: "Nobody bought my eldest son's umbrella!" " "When it rained on a cloudy day, the old man sighed with a sad face:" When will the dried noodles made by my younger son be sold? "In this way, the old people sigh all day long, and their vicissitudes of life are even older. Until one day, a wise man had an epiphany, which made the old man's face shine: "Why not look at the problem from another angle?" "Sunny days should be happy for the youngest son, and cloudy days should be glad for the eldest son!" The old man's heart was suddenly enlightened, and he was no longer sad and enjoyed his old age happily!
It can be seen that thinking from another angle is very important to our life! Maslow also said: "If the mentality changes, the attitude will also change; When attitudes change, habits change; Habits have changed, and so has personality; Life will change when personality changes. "
In the hot summer, people complain about the impetuousness and anxiety caused by the scorching sun and unbearable heat, and sometimes even take this mentality as a reason to show off, so as to comfort themselves because they are lazy and have not completed this process. However, we have not changed our mentality and thought from another angle. In fact, summer brings us passion and beauty while it brings heat: lush green branches and leaves make us feel the vitality of life; Those shiny dresses show off our beautiful limbs, and the refreshing shaved ice and all kinds of cold drinks make us feel very comfortable! Are these not enough to bring us positive, healthy and happy thoughts?
In the autumn wind, when the yellow leaves curl up and tremble in the cold wind, do we only see its mutilated body and dying life? From another angle and mentality, we can also feel the brilliance and magnificence of fallen leaves, which have completed an inherent cycle of life and rendered a dignified color of a season; Now, the fallen leaves want the soil of eversleeping. They are deeply grateful to their roots and mothers, are pregnant with new life next spring, and are being baptized and tested by time and space for the mid-summer contract next year!
And a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise, not asking whether it is good or bad; Blessed people depend on disaster, and blessed people depend on disaster. This is the mysterious law of the creator, the exquisite work of nature! If you don't know this, isn't it a kind of sadness if the horse loses and cries, and the father of the horse is extremely happy, the child is hurt and sad, and he is happy to be exempted from service?
A couple quarreled, and the wife ran back to her mother's house in a rage. The father took a piece of white paper, drew a small black dot on it and asked his daughter what she saw. The daughter said that she saw a small black spot, and the father sighed and said, "You can't see such a big piece of white paper, but you can see such a small black spot. Why can't you see the beauty in life? " Yes, the state of mind is in the depths of our own souls. Whether our life is happy or not, we have the only decision. Life has given us a lot of helplessness and troubles. Why not let our minds think about everything from another angle? Why draw a circle on the spot and circle your heart heavily? More often, it is not life that gives us despair, but that we have lowered our hearts to a tragic situation!
In fact, the world outside our mind window is colorful every day. In fact, our seemingly bumpy life path is always full of opportunities. In fact, the happiness around us is everywhere. In fact, the troubles in our life can also be forgotten-as long as you look at it from another angle!
A snowflake warms the heart. Changing one's mentality and changing one's perspective on life is not only the liberation of thought and the enrichment of life, but also a rational thinking, a wisdom of life and an innovative judgment! If we change our mentality and angle, we will read more about the meaning of life: "Don't be pessimistic when life is not satisfactory, don't fall into a trough;" Don't be complacent when you are proud of your life, and don't be carried away by beauty! "No matter what kind of test life gives us, we must face it calmly and treat it happily-winning without arrogance and losing without grace; From another angle, we can enjoy a different kind of life scenery!