1. You must be rich in your heart to get rid of these superficial similarities in life. -Wang Shuo's Letter to Daughter
2. In mature love, we fall in love with a person because we find ourselves reflected in him/her, in other words, we shine our souls on them, and they make our souls "visible". -Joyliu (Shuangyang) "What keeps you attractive is not mystery, but growth?
3. I broke your heart and cut off your head. I found that I did the right thing. I learned to kill people. I broke my heart and cut off my head. I did the right thing again. I was killed.
4. Now, the days are getting better, but the pleasant psychology is getting more and more fragile. There are always pain points in work and feelings, which makes people give up their efforts and give up on themselves. These setbacks sometimes come from reality and sometimes from imagination.
5. lynching is actually a protest against social injustice and incomplete system, because laws and regulations can't give him the punishment he deserves, and the people decide to execute the punishment with their own precepts.
6. Sometimes, loving too much is also a kind of pressure!
7. Don't take yourself too seriously, and don't take yourself too seriously. Everything is a degree, and Chinese culture is profound!
8. I don't want to hear someone ask me: How do you know this? But you can say: What if you know?
9. The more you want to leave a place, the better you will do your last work.
1. Cursing your son with your mouth is a retrogressive defense mechanism. The satisfaction of pleasure and desire goes back to your mouth. In this way, you can link with your son and abuse your mouth. You can try saying: I want to have a mouth addiction before scolding my son. After scolding your son, say one more thing: the mouth addiction is over. -Zeng Qifeng
11. Anxiety caused by social insecurity originates from interpersonal relationships in essence, which is often not conducive to the formation of people's self-esteem. Contrary to anxiety, security is a confident and optimistic emotional state, which is conducive to the establishment of a sound personality. -Sullivan
12. The main purpose of psychotherapy is not to make patients enter an impossible state of happiness, but to help them establish a philosophical patience and firmness in the face of suffering. -jung
13. If you are the best yourself, your sweetheart may not be tempted. The best pork belly is hung on the stall, but others like to eat dog meat.
14. Some people say that he is not afraid of death, but thinks it is not worth dying. In fact, most people who are afraid of death are afraid of death because they think it is not worth dying.
15. What real psychology wants to tell you: Psychology will never tell you that this is right and that is wrong. It will only lead you to know yourself, accept yourself, and how to develop your potential and characteristics. Psychology respects the differences of every life and encourages everyone to explore their own potential and characteristics.
16. Everyone who manages his own life is sending positive energy to the universe.
17. "Don't rejoice in things, don't grieve for yourself" is more often just an excuse or tool for our lines or expressing our feelings. From the psychological point of view, "emotions, sorrows and fears" are the most primitive and basic emotions of human beings, and emotions are always so powerful that many times no one can make decisions.
18. Primitive psychological instinct seems to be a curse. When you don't know it, it will control you unconsciously, and once you expose it to the sun, its magic will be greatly weakened.
19. Most men have a hidden fear that they will be sucked back into the control of motherhood and cannot move.
2. A truly rational person must know how to solve difficult problems by emotional means. Note that it is not a solution, but a solution. Because he clearly knows that rational thinking has too many limitations, and man is a spiritual animal and needs to be influenced.
21. Nothing is easy in the world, and nothing is difficult in the world; There are joys and sorrows all your life.
22. We are eager to grow up, which leads to emptiness. We fill it with things that are not mine. We gradually think that fillers are our true selves. Now they begin to occupy us in turn, and our true selves are lost. When you replace the growth hole with money, love, relationship, identity and self-esteem, and then fill in the name of the time, place and place, it constitutes all kinds of tragic stories in the world.
23, life is too rational, there is no symbolic existence, everything is ordinary, which is why we suffer from neurosis. We are just tired of all this and want to feel it. We even want the end of the world, aliens, a financial crisis, or a war. When there is a war, we will feel happy and say, "Thank God, something is going to happen now, something stronger than ourselves is going to happen."
24. The road of life is easy to say and difficult to say. The less you need from the outside world, the more likely you are to live freely and peacefully. Only in this way can you marginalize yourself and be marginalized by others at any time. Only in this way can we approach ourselves as we please.
25. One of the secrets of education is to lead vanity to the right object.
26. The root cause of wandering heart or kidney is wandering eyes or wandering eyes.
27. You take jokes seriously, but I still listen to them as jokes.
28. Smiling is just a radian, which can be made for anyone.
29. I can forget my memory, but my memory is very good.
3. Even if fate is unfair, you shouldn't give up your efforts!
31. If I have to face this result anyway, and my emotions won't have any influence on the result, then why don't I be a brave man while I am alive and face the future like a lion? -translator: jennyzhu Wen /Mr.self-development
32. That ancient sea has turned into Cangtian, and that once oath is a joke again. I thought about the sea and read my love again, only to feel that it is only common for me to slip up in my vows ...
33. It's meaningless to give what you lack most to those who don't lack it least. You can only give what you lack to people who also lack it, which can show something.
34. Give up what you can't do 1% decisively, and continue what you can do 1% resolutely.
35. Men think that women nowadays are not virtuous, while women think that men nowadays are unreliable.
36. I have always been indifferent, and suddenly I care about you, and you feel particularly warm. Usually always warm, suddenly alienating you, you feel very hateful. If the wife is supposed to cook, she will be very happy if her husband does it once in a long time; If the husband is supposed to cook, and the husband doesn't cook once for a long time, the wife is not very happy.
37. Everyone is smart when he was a child, which is a natural instinct and unconscious potential, and it has nothing to do with whether he can get into the college entrance examination.
38, friends by the way, when the same road is really sincere.
39. The function of confession is to pierce a layer of enough paper, and what you are facing now is to tear down a wall.
4. The richer the soil, the more unforgivable the failure of cultivation. -Irvin Yalom "When Nietzsche Crys"
41. Learn to become wicked and build a new self from the ashes of your old life. -Irvin Yalom "When Nietzsche Crys"
42. There is only one responsibility, which becomes the responsibility of your existence. Be strong, otherwise, you will always use others as your own amplification. -Irvin Yalom When Nietzsche Crys
43. In order to thrive, you must first put your roots deep into nothingness and learn to face your loneliest loneliness. -Irvin Yalom When Nietzsche Crys
44. It is better to ruin a marriage than to be ruined by it. -Irvin Yalom "When Nietzsche Crys"
45. Loneliness only exists in loneliness. Once shared, it evaporates. -Irvin Yalom's When Nietzsche Crys
46. Become your own existence-Irvin Yalom's When Nietzsche Crys
47. Provide a resting place for a suffering friend, but it should be noted that this resting place can only be a hard bed or a simple hammock. -Irvin Yalom When Nietzsche Crys
48. If we can't embrace our own loneliness, we just use others as a shield against isolation. -Irvin Yalom "When Nietzsche Crys"
49. To be completely related to another person, one must first be related to oneself. -Irvin Yalom's When Nietzsche Crys
5. Perhaps the symptoms are a messenger of meaning, and only after their meaning is understood will the symptoms disappear. -Irvin Yalom's When Nietzsche Crys
51. No one can be so selfless as to forget selfishness.
52. The acquaintance's evaluation of you in the future is very simple: "Do you catch food, eat well, and marry well?" Who cares if your dream is to be a writer or a tortoise?
53. Pretending to be happy can't mean that you are not sad. Only by showing a little sadness can you show that you are not sad.
54. The rumors spread by three people are as credible as the facts told by three people.
55. Jealousy makes us see ourselves, our hostility, our ugly ambition and what we "deserve". -Paul Saigal's Ode to Jealousy
56. All stress reactions are aimed at maintaining, restoring or rebuilding the psychological dynamic balance.
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58. All physiological problems will lead to psychological problems, and all psychological problems will lead to physiological problems.
59. I am grateful for this changing era. I want to thank many people for their departure. Because of your departure, I am now extremely powerful.
6. We are guided to believe lies, and let us believe that seeing is believing. The soul born in the night and dying in the night often sleeps in the rays of light. -Wayne Dell's Daily Miracle
61. "The key to happiness in life is to choose what is necessary first, and then to love what you choose."
62. Don't think that facts and logic are invincible in the world. They often can't win emotions —— Shen Shensen's "Originality"
63. Buy a bird for a cage —— Mu Zhi's "Learn some psychology after the age of 18"
64. Mentality determines our life and life.
65. I just want to spend every day simply according to my own ideas, without complicated considerations, and become great in an era!
66. It's not that the road is rough, but that you can't do it. It depends on whether you stop. As long as you don't stop, you can do it sooner or later.
67. China people say that the spirit is energetic, and if the "spirit" can stand, the essence can live and the qi can flow smoothly. Cognition is a person's central processing unit. Only when the processor is repaired and works normally can the machine work normally. Lauren B. Alloy, John H. Reskind, Margaret J. Manos Abnormal Psychology
68. No matter how many people you have loved, no matter how painful or happy you love, in the end, you have not learned how to love, but how to love yourself! -Zhang Xiaoxian
69. Don't forget what others say when they are angry, because that is often the truth; Don't hate the person who said this, because it is another way for him to let you see yourself clearly!
7. Emotion is fluctuating, and the psychology is stable. The former can be changed, while the latter can't be helped by the gods once it lasts for a long time. Therefore, the so-called people with psychological problems are not really psychological reasons, but emotional extremes caused by external factors.