Some people even publicly commented on the Internet that her mother-in-law was a free nanny. In this place, everyone takes it? Need an old man? In the age of shame, isn't this a disguised act of gnawing at the old?
Do you think filial piety means letting parents take care of their children?
It is time for parents to bring up their children and have their own space and time after retirement. There are also some young people who give their children to them.
I have always said that my parents want to take care of their children. But ignore the true feelings of parents.
The reason why parents take the initiative to take care of their children is to see their hard work and life pressure. Parents always think of their children. Since childhood, they have paid unconditionally for their children and even sacrificed their right to enjoy life. When they finally reach retirement age, they can have time and money to enjoy life, but they still have to help take care of their children.
Don't let your parents lead a repetitive life.
Do you feel envious when other people's parents travel by themselves after retirement? Have you ever thought that your parents also want to live a free and happy retirement?
When you give your children to them, you deprive your parents of their freedom in disguise. Year after year, they finally have hope for life. Your selfish desires prevent them from realizing their dreams until they can't take care of themselves.
Zhou You, a good friend, once said that his parents named him Zhou You because he had a dream of traveling around the world when he was a child. After Zhou You was born, his parents began to run for him.
Since primary school, all kinds of cram schools and talent classes have no time or money to complete your dream of traveling around the world. When Zhou You grows up, he gets married and has children. His parents, like all parents, offered to take care of Zhou You's children, but he refused directly.
You have worked hard all your life. You should enjoy yourself and pursue your life at this time. You shouldn't repeat your life when you were young and let yourself have regrets.
At first, Zhou You's wife didn't understand Zhou You very much, and even quarreled with him again and again. The proposal of traveling has undoubtedly added a lot of extra expenses to the family, from nanny expenses to family expenses, which has caused the wife of traveling to collapse.
You Zhou began to advise his wife to put herself in her shoes: If it were you, would you always want to look after your children when you are old, instead of realizing your lifelong dream and regretting it for the rest of your life? The traveling wife was persuaded.
Refuse? New style gnawing at the old? Let parents have their own lives after retirement.
In fact, many times, everyone understands this truth. Just in a selfish state of mind and not admit it. They covet their parents' pension, their parents' free time and their parents' life in exchange for the happiness of their small families. This is a kind of? New style gnawing at the old? .
As long as no one comes forward, they will use their parents' sacrifice as a stepping stone to comfort themselves. Gradually, some people began to wake up and began to have opposing views on the Internet.
Some people still stubbornly believe that if they don't want to get married and have children, it is entirely forced by their parents, so they should take care of their children. This is typical sophistry. Your parents told you to listen well, why didn't you listen? At this time, the movie is shirking its responsibility by saying such things.
Someone started attacking this online? New style gnawing at the old? Behavior, naturally some people attack, some people refute. Most of the refutations are already? Need an old man? Don't want to uncover their fig leaf.
They stubbornly believe that their parents should pay for them, and they are born to rely on their parents. There are not a few people who have this view. Many times, just like the famous saying: You can never wake up a person who pretends to sleep. It is also difficult for us to awaken the conscience of gnawing old people.
The formation of social fixed ideas can't be changed for a while, but we still have to try our best to refuse this moral kidnapping. We should all have the right to choose our own life, instead of being bound by secular vision.
Life after retirement is our own, so we should live for ourselves. You shouldn't lose the right to pursue your dreams by repeating it year after year. If you really want to take care of your children, no one will object. If you don't want to, say it out loud.
There is no provision for the elderly to raise their sons and grandchildren. Life is your own, and everyone has the right to choose their own way of life. ? New style gnawing at the old? It is a squeeze on the surplus value of the elderly, and parents' feelings for themselves cannot be ignored!