Some people say, "the rich give money, and the poor give strength." The rich want to come to the New Year, and the poor want to be present. " Although the United States is a very rich country, its gap between the rich and the poor is the most serious in the United States. 80% of the world's wealth and power are in the hands of the rich, and this imbalance in wealth distribution will continue to widen with the development of society, and polarization will become more and more serious. Then we saw Dubai as rich as water and Korea as poor as hell. So why are the poor getting poorer and poorer? The rich are getting richer? Is it really difficult to have a baby, or is it that the poor work hard and the IQ and EQ are not as good as those of the rich children? The world charity organization once organized an interesting experiment: they donated some cash to some poor areas, and also gave relief to those who didn't have jobs. These people all belong to the poor stage, and the world charity organization also wants to know why the poor are getting poorer and poorer. After a period of time, the researchers found that both the poor who were donated cash and the unemployed who were sponsored remained in the same state as before, and there was no change. The assets sent by the organization only keep them changing in a short time. The result may not be what we expected, but after that? The researchers have come to a preliminary conclusion that money can't help the poor get rid of poverty, and the reason why the poor are getting poorer and poorer is their own thoughts. This leads to another phenomenon. When you suddenly gain great wealth one day, the poor class will immediately squander it, because he has never gained such great wealth. By the middle class, life has reached a well-off level, and they will deposit this huge wealth in their accounts for future emergency use. The middle class is used to the idea of stable development. If this huge wealth is left to the rich, the rich will use it to invest, because in their concept: money is not saved, but earned. Because it is found that the people who crowded the bus and subway at five or six in the morning are the lower class and the middle class with enough income and property, they only insist on working for a few hours. Most rich people can sleep in the morning and wake up naturally. On the contrary, poor people in poor areas work harder and harder. So you ask me why the poor are getting poorer and poorer? Why are the rich getting richer? I think it's the poor. While struggling hard, they didn't think of improving themselves and neglected their life planning. "Being too diligent" is an obstacle. In college, many students study hard and live frugally. I have to take a lot of part-time jobs and a lot of workload every day, squeezing his life like the last drop of water in a sponge. As long as you squeeze hard, there will still be some. However, one cannot do two things at the same time. While paying attention to work-study programs, they neglected the importance of specialized courses. Do you still think that work-study program and diligence are good qualities when you fail a course, retake it or even have no diploma? If this is the end, then what are we trying to do? In Schaefer's view, "the fear of the poor is not that there are scarce resources and no capital chain." What is terrible is your own psychology. Short-sighted, I don't know what to do in the real sense. Too often, you can only see superficial things and have no time and plan to plan your future. In my mind, I haven't analyzed the essential causes of the status quo and how to change it. If we spend too much energy on meaningless things, we will lose our motivation at the same time. How can we break this scarcity mentality? 1. Subversive change If you want your future and stop falling into a vicious circle like others, you should know how to make key changes at critical moments. Take a long-term view and don't look at the problem one-sidedly. Just like work-study program, you are busy inside and outside, earning only 60 yuan a day, and others have achieved success, with a salary of 200 yuan a day. It is a student stage, so we should learn new things well, seize the present opportunity and plan our life well. Plan, don't do it overnight. That will only bring you a lot of pressure and give up easily. Know how to find what you are good at and avoid what you are not good at. Try to change your interpersonal environment, meet all kinds of people, and understand their advantages and strengths. Go out for a walk and broaden your horizons. Second, limit your desires. Everyone wants a lot of things, but if you want to work hard, everything you want is hard to get. When your ability can't bear so many things you want, your spirit will crush you. It brings you depression, disappointment, listlessness, lack of motivation and so on. No one is born a superman, and our schedule should turn the big plan into several small plans to realize them one by one. If you want to wear a crown, you must bear its weight. The poor are poor because they have no ambition. Last year, Ma Yun and Ma Dad of Ali said this: You are poor because you have no ambition. This sentence, I can't help but spit it out, I really beg to differ. 0 1 First, we must recognize a concept. What is poverty? It means exhaustion, which means poverty in money or material. From Yi Zhuan, Peach Blossom Garden, Warring States Policy, Yan Ce, Lv Chunqiu and Xia County. According to the dictionary, poverty means financial or material poverty, so how many of us are poor in money at present? In 20 16, the state formulated the standard of poor households, and provided poverty alleviation assistance to farmers whose annual per capita income was less than 2,300 yuan. According to the statistics of the Bureau of Statistics, by 20 18, there will still be 40 million poor people. In other words, there should be 40 million people in China whose annual income is less than 2,300 yuan. So, are they poor and have no ambition? I'm sorry to tell Ma Yun that it isn't. In terms of precision poverty alleviation, I have also been to the countryside to help, and their poverty is unimaginable to ordinary people. I know that there is such a family whose poverty is due to the small working population in the family. There are four people in their family. Grandpa is too old to do heavy work, and the remaining couple are physically disabled. Their fourth-grade children are much shorter than their classmates because of their slight mental defects. He was bullied by his classmates all day at school. He once cried and told his mother that he didn't want to study, but in vain. His mother also tried to tell the school that his child's IQ was a little defective, so could he be a little more tolerant and give him a grade so that he could keep up with the progress and not be bullied by his classmates? But unfortunately, it is compulsory education now, and all the money is spent on it, so children can only go to the fifth grade with their classmates. Such a family, they also want to make money to change their lives, even if they are ambitious, even if they want to do something, but the heavy reality, let them fall into the same place. Being poor is not only because you don't work, but probably because you can't work. The content in front of 02 is a bit heavy. Let me tell you another story, which I adapted casually. Sweeping monk is sweeping the floor in the temple. That's right, it's sweeping monk who appeared behind the Dragon and Eight Branches. On this day, Mu Rongfu communicated with beautiful women in Shaolin Temple, which left a deep impression on many Shaolin monks. Mu Rongfu was in high spirits and felt that the whole world was at my feet. Walking through the front yard of Shaolin Temple, I saw sweeping monk and said to the beautiful women around me, "Life is always ambitious. Like this monk, he just has no ambition and is destined to sweep the floor all his life. " However, the egg-sweeping monk heard Mu Rongfu smiling without a word and continued to sweep the floor. These are the jokes I wrote casually. What I want to say is that without ambition, you won't be poor. And with ambition, you may not be rich or expensive. The human world is hierarchical and pyramid-shaped. The more top people are, the rarer they are. A lot of wealth is also in the hands of a few people. If you don't enter that 1%, it is doomed to be gray. But there are various ways to enter this 1% and Avenue 3,000, and there is no fixed method. Ma Yunma's father started from scratch, and Wang Sicong has a good father, but all roads lead to Rome. No matter what the ambition, it is condensed on God. Nowadays, as an expert in a certain industry, everyone can earn a lot of money, so it can be said that they are not poor. It takes 10000 hours to become an industry expert. Many people who become experts actually have no ambition at first, nor do they have the idea that Laozi will be the first sooner or later. I believe that many experts become experts because they are just hobbies at first, or they need to force themselves to keep investing, and finally they are accidental. If you are ambitious, most of the time, you won't last this 1w hour. Ambitious people are not necessarily poor, and poor people are not necessarily without ambition. On the road of life, we should not be limited by poverty. Maybe the only person you despise is sweeping monk. The poor are poor because they have no ambition. 1. What they lack most in essence is ambition. "Ambition" is a core word to get rich, and it is also an extremely precious thing that is incompatible with the poor. If a person has made up his mind to get rid of poverty, he should not only clean up all the "stains of poverty" in dress, gfd and attitude, but also show a kind of power and "explosiveness" that he will never stop until he reaches his goal, and show his strong possessiveness and irresistible desire for wealth in action. Second, what I lack most in my mind is that the concept of the poor is mostly outdated and my thinking inertia is great. There is a huge psychological gap with the times. Although high-tech products may be used, the concept may be more than ten years ago or even the last century. The old adage "Poverty leads to change, and change leads to communication" has not been penetrated by the poor. They are used to living a pale and mediocre life with those old and self-righteous ideas. Third, the "heart" that is most lacking in doing things is actually not weak. At least from their ability to adapt to life, the poor are strong. They can survive tenaciously in any dirty, bitter, poor and tired environment. However, what they desperately get is nothing more than mixing food and clothing and solving their livelihood. What is the reason? It is because the poor do things without "calculation", do not like to use their brains, and do things blindly and stupidly, so the poor sweat the most and often get the least. Fourth, lack of courage in the bones is pitiful. Actually, it's not scary at all. What is terrible is the fear of poverty. Once they are afraid of poverty, it is difficult for the poor to summon up all the courage to break through the status quo, and it is easy to think that they are destined to be poor. Poor people who lack the courage to change poverty will surely die of old age in poverty. Fifth, what the world lacks most is connections. As the saying goes, "Nobody asks you if you are poor in downtown, but you have money and distant relatives in the mountains." It is undeniable that modern people's communicative psychology has a strong utilitarian color, but who doesn't want to make friends with people who are more capable and richer than themselves? So it is understandable that the poor lack connections in the world, but the poor can't let it develop. To paraphrase Shakespeare's famous saying: "You have the right not to approach me, but you have no right to stop me from approaching you." In the final analysis, whether you can have contacts depends on the poor people's own hearts and whether you are brave. 6. What change lacks most is action. All dreams must be realized through action. The dream of making money and getting rich also depends on action. Without action, everything is meaningless. Of course, this kind of action should not be reckless, but planned, concrete and feasible. 7. What is lacking most in speaking is skill. If you pay attention to the observation, you will find that the poor and the rich speak in completely different ways, so some people say that "the poor and the rich decide the tone", and conversely, "eloquence can also decide the poor and the rich". A very important reason why the poor can't get out of the circle of the poor is the lack of speaking skills: some poor people are too absolute, some poor people speak bluntly and hurt people everywhere, some poor people are outspoken, and some poor people promise everywhere but it is difficult to achieve ... Eight, what they lack most in their careers is that they often have small ambitions, but they lack big ambitions. They focus on trivial daily life and spend their energy and passion on too specific things for a long time.