2, quarreling, especially unprovoked disputes, hurts feelings the most. Everyone flies into a rage sometimes. At this time, the most important thing is to control and swallow the most vicious attack back from the tip of the tongue. Indifferent accusations mean leaving room, and tearing up accusations means that the retreat is cut off. If the fate is not over and mutual affection is still there, it is best to say less irrational and cruel words. Beating is affection, scolding is love, and it's all skin deep. And the poison tongue is like a sword, which hurts people invisibly.
3. Is there such a person? I can't talk to you, I can't get along with you, and I often quarrel, which makes you very annoyed and angry. However, it may be such a person. In your lonely moments, in your painful years and in your long life, he will always stay in your heart, giving you warmth and comfort, and making you feel that there is still a little light in your life! It's not that enemies don't get together with friends, but they must be "like-minded" and stay together!
4. What should I do if I am upset? Pulling a face, getting angry and quarreling are not good ways. Think it over, find out the cause of upset, and break it down one by one. What can be changed will not be changed for a while, so accept it. Just like being sick, I always want to cure it quickly, and minor illnesses are acceptable. If they can't do anything about modern medical means, they can choose to live with the disease and get along with it optimistically. If you accept it, it won't be too painful This is the principle of doing things.
5, feelings, can not stay. If you are not good enough, don't expect to keep your relationship because of your efforts. In this world, the most important thing is the feelings between people, there are too many variables. Besides, even the best feelings, once obtained, will be even worse than you think-that is, if there are not enough people, you will swallow the elephant. When quarreling becomes a common occurrence, when people can ignore your existence, feelings have left you.
6. Being angry, quarreling or even fighting is by no means a life that lovers or couples are willing to choose, but everyone has to face it often. Why do good wishes always go to the opposite side? This is the weakness of human nature: the more you love someone, the more you ask, but a man or a woman will not be perfect immediately because of love or marriage. If the reality can't keep up with the ideal, contradictions will inevitably break out. And this is the expression of love!
7. You said that quarreling is the end. I said, not necessarily. Are there any couples who don't quarrel? Noisy is a couple, noisy is a friend! Maybe if you look at the popular "33 days of lovelorn love", you may understand a lot of truth. If the two can still fight, it means that the feelings are still there. The terrible thing is that you are too lazy to fight, and your relationship is over! Calm down, it's easier to destroy feelings than to keep them!
8. A friend of a friend got married, and the friend was envious and very emotional, praising that "marriage opened the door to happiness". Not to mention whether there is a direct causal relationship between marriage and happiness, ask those who stay in the besieged city, how many people think that the city held by marriage is full of happiness? Marriage is marriage, plain and real, and we can't place too much imagination on it. Eating vinegar tea with oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, quarreling and fighting, and having children only bring one person's world into more people.