What does the old saying mean: "Men are concave and women are convex, and if you are not widowed, you will be lonely"? Does it still apply today?
Although we have been emphasizing not to judge a book by its cover, a person's appearance can sometimes reflect many things. For example, if a person is unkempt, it can show that he pays less attention to his personal image. If a person is sad every day, it shows that he is a negative person ... So sometimes it is necessary to make a rough judgment on people we don't know very well through his appearance, which is the so-called first impression.
The ancestor once said that this proverb is also related to appearance, that is, "Men are concave and women are convex, and they are lonely if they are not few". At first glance, this proverb refers to the figure of men and women, but after careful analysis, you will find that there is a lot of knowledge in it.
"male concave" has two meanings. The first meaning is its literal meaning, which means that a boy's standing posture is not straight and looks very loose, just like he will fall down when pushed. Such a man looks like he is concave. Everyone has a love of beauty. Not only boys like beautiful women, but girls also like handsome male compatriots. Let alone a boy's facial features, we can judge that such a boy is not pleasing by his sunken standing posture.
To be honest, if you find such a boy as a boyfriend, when you take him out to meet your girlfriends, others may not say anything in front of you, but they will certainly discuss it behind your back. In addition, compared with other male friends, it is inevitable that there will be a feeling of not being able to take it.
The second meaning of "male concavity" refers to the spirit of a boy, and refers to a man without masculinity. Many women want to find a manly husband. What is manly is directly reflected in the spirit. If a boy is very masculine, it will make people feel very energetic and manly.
Next, let's talk about "female bulge". Female bulge also has two meanings. The first meaning refers to a woman who is too fat, so that her stomach is protruding. Although many boys often say that they are looking for a girl with a good figure, the good figure here does not mean a protruding belly, but a slender waist, a full chest and buttocks.
If a woman is so fat that her stomach can't hold it back, it shows that she lacks management of her figure and is a woman with poor self-control. There used to be a famous saying on the internet, that is, "be thin or die", which shows how important slimness is to a woman.
Even if you have a pair of exquisite facial features, if you are too fat, you can't be regarded as a beauty. Besides, obesity not only makes people look uncomfortable, but also is harmful to their health. Therefore, all female compatriots must learn to control their diet and manage their bodies well, so they can't let their bodies be deformed because they are out of control.
The second meaning of "female convex" refers to that a woman is too strong. In many people's traditional ideas, the main responsibility of a woman is to manage all trivial things at home, and the things of making money and running around outside are left to men. But for some powerful female friends, they are not satisfied with being housewives at home, and they also want to go out and make their own world.
If the hostess in the family is too strong, it will inevitably lead to conflicts with the host, and the family will not be able to live in harmony, which will have a negative impact on the growth of children. A family full of quarrels will bring up children with some psychological problems.
This kind of object of "men are concave and women are convex" is relatively lonely. If a normal person has a choice, he will definitely not marry this type of person. The significance of marriage lies in the effect that 1/1 is greater than 2. If the quality of life is reduced after marriage, it is better to remain single.