Zhuangzi's answer is: "If I am not a child, how can I know the joy of fish?"

This means that you can't guess what others think too subjectively, and you can't make arrangements for others without authorization.

Seriously speaking, we have no right to think about what others should and should not do.

original text

Zhuangzi and Keiko play together on Hao's bridge. Zhuangzi said, "Fish swim leisurely and have fun." Keiko said, "You are not a fish. How can you know that fish are happy?" ? Zhuangzi said, "You are not me. How do you know that I don't know that fish are happy?" " ? " Keiko said: "I am not a son, I really don't know my son;" Zi Gu is not a fish, but he doesn't know the happiness of fish. " Zhuangzi said, "Please follow its source. Confucius said,' You know a lot about fish.' If you know what I know, ask me. I know it very well. "

I don't know what you mean by "similar". It's not an idiom, it's a classical Chinese sentence, which people often use. We can say it's a famous saying or a common saying.

If you have some philosophical and inspirational classical Chinese sentences or multi-word idioms, you can find some, such as:

There are hundreds of rivers and great tolerance; The wall stands a thousand miles, and it is just without desire.

The rain is coming, and the wind is full of longing: it will. To make a metaphor, the situation will have signs and atmosphere on the eve of great changes.

The millipede is dead but not stiff: the name of the insect, also known as Ma Lu or Ma Li, has twelve links, and it can still wriggle after being cut off. For example, although the powerful family declined, it was not completely bankrupt because of its great power and strong foundation.

Do not grieve for personal loss; Not satisfied with external interests

There is a long way to go in Xiu Yuan, and I will go up and down.

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