There are some philosophies that we have to know in our reality and life. Understanding some philosophies can also make you mature by a few years. So what kind of philosophy can make us mature by how many years? The following is Let’s take a look together, learn together, discuss life together, and enjoy life together!

1. Don’t throw away ambition and desire

Ambition and desire (here refers to ambition and desire in a positive state) can make a person’s power be maximized, They can force a person to give everything to remove all obstacles, and they can make a person move forward at full speed without worries. Therefore, we should maintain an ambition and desire and not throw them away.

2. Don’t take success too complicated

In fact, success is not as complicated as we seem. Sometimes the simpler, the easier it is to succeed - even though it sounds a bit Incredible. Sometimes we should keep our mentality simple and do complex things in simple ways, which will often yield unexpected results.

3. Be honest and trustworthy when doing things

Bacon said: "Honesty and trustworthiness are the first principles of dealing with people." Friends, no matter where you are, whether you are new to the world or you have experienced it In the face of changes and vicissitudes of life, please believe in integrity, maintain integrity, and stick to integrity. Only then can you keep the contract of the soul, win the dignity of being a human being, and eventually achieve great things.

4. Believe that you can do it

If a person doesn’t even believe in himself, can he expect others to believe in it? Believe that you can do it. People with strong self-confidence can withstand various tests, setbacks and failures. This self-confidence will last us a lifetime.

5. Withstand the test of suffering

Suffering is a fortune, it will temper people's will and enable people to gain the true meaning of life. There is a Chinese idiom that says, after all hardship comes happiness. Another sentence says that only by enduring hardship can one become a master. These encourage people to withstand the test of suffering, to be patient and hopeful when facing suffering. Only by maintaining such a mentality can we move towards the glory of life.

6. Make full use of all available resources

Our own resources are limited, but the resources around us are unlimited. People who want to be successful must have this Idea: From now on, use your own resources, use the resources around you, use all available resources - it is not difficult to do this.

7. Put down your arrogance and start small.

In today's competitive era, it has become unrealistic to want to become famous all at once. Big things are often accomplished by doing small things. We must put down our arrogance, stop being dismissive of small things, and start from small things in a down-to-earth manner. In many cases, it is the small things that determine our success or failure.

8. Be an upright person

The most basic principle of being a human being is integrity. Integrity means having a sense of responsibility, telling the truth, doing practical things, and having a calm mind and adhering to principles in everything. Integrity is a virtue and a positive attitude in life. Only by being an upright person will you not violate your own conscience and be worthy of the word "human".

9. Learn to be flexible when doing things

Today, when the chances of change are increasing and changes are accelerating, it is impossible to make progress by sticking to the old ways. Everyone must have a mentality of seeking innovation and change in order to keep up with the development of the times. You might as well set up a motto for yourself - "If something doesn't work, it will work."

10. Dare to make decisions when doing things

Generally speaking, a person must make a decision before doing something. Whether he dares to make a decision will directly determine victory or defeat. When encountering problems, you should analyze calmly and dare to make decisions. Never hesitate. More importantly, after making a decision, you should do it in a down-to-earth manner.

11. Treat failure as a stepping stone to success

We should not be afraid of failure. We must have the spirit of "successful failure" and regard failure as a stepping stone to success. When you suffer The more you fail, the closer you get to success. Of course, you must be able to withstand failure and keep trying to make progress.

12. Leave room for everything

If a person wants to survive and develop well, he must be "cunning rabbit in three holes" and leave room for himself in everything.

We must have the awareness that when we choose one path, we should also prepare a second and third path for ourselves.

13. Learn to choose and give up

A person must learn to give up and give up the things you don’t want to do; a person must learn to choose and choose what you like and are good at doing. As long as you find a life coordinate that suits you on your own life path, you will be able to give full play to your intelligence and talents and reach the other side of success.

14. Keep doing one thing

When doing anything, you must have a beginning and an end, and persist in completing it. Don't give up easily. If you give up, you will never have the possibility of success. If there are setbacks, you have to tell yourself repeatedly: keep doing this.

15. Give yourself some courage

Many things may seem difficult to accomplish on the surface, but they are actually very simple. As long as we have a little courage to try, we will often get success. Unexpected effect. Each of us has courage. This is our own inexhaustible wealth. We must know how to use it rationally, otherwise it will be a waste.

16. Make yourself stronger in the face of competition

Competition is a common phenomenon and is inevitable. A person cannot exist without competition. In the face of challenges, in addition to maintaining a good competitive state, we must also focus on doubling our growth in personality, knowledge, wisdom, and strength, becoming more mature and stronger, so that we can defeat our opponents.

17. Rely on yourself to solve problems

Don’t always rely on others and place all your hopes on others, but rely on yourself to solve problems, because everyone also has a lot to do. , he can only help us to the maximum extent, others can only help for a while but not for a lifetime. Therefore, it is better to rely on yourself than to rely on others. The person you can rely on most is yourself.

18. Say "no" when you should say "no"

When you are a person and do things, you must learn to reject others. Say "no" when you should say "no". This is for the sake of legitimacy. Protecting oneself thoroughly is also a principle of life and work. Don't be embarrassed or lack the courage to say "no", but say "no" tactfully, otherwise, you will be the one who gets hurt.

19. Be willing to accept objections from others

We often encounter objections from others, but not many people are willing to accept objections, which requires us to correct our mentality. In fact, other people's objections are more or less reasonable. We should readily accept correct objections, and there is no need to fiercely refute wrong objections. Learning to accept objections is what makes us great.

20. Keep motivating and shaping yourself

Everyone cannot be full of passion and fighting spirit forever, so we need to constantly motivate ourselves to maintain passion and fighting spirit. Don't try to live in the encouragement of others. Self-motivation is the most effective way of motivation. No one can really change you, only you can change yourself.

21. Turn shortcomings into motivation for progress

It is not terrible that we have shortcomings or even physical defects. What is terrible is that we become negative and even give up on ourselves. In the face of shortcomings, we must maintain a positive attitude and turn the shortcomings into the motivation for our struggle. Only in this way can we control our own destiny.

22. Work is work, life is life

The pursuit of a perfect life is an innate need of human beings, but focusing only on career success and losing life for work is A lifetime of regrets. Work is work, life is life, don't lose your life for work. We should not neglect life while doing a good job.

23. Eliminate job fatigue as early as possible

Are you tired of your current job? I think most of the answers are yes. Job fatigue causes us to lose the joy of work and will seriously affect our work and life. We should eliminate it as soon as possible. To eliminate job fatigue, you must maintain a good work attitude, learn to love your career, and arrange your work and life reasonably. Only in this way can you find your original passionate and energetic self.

24. Learn to reduce stress at work

Work pressure is usually a serious problem that everyone faces.

Too much work pressure will not only crowd out happiness, but also affect personal career development, physical health, family harmony and many other life elements. Therefore, we must have a correct understanding of work pressure and learn to decompress ourselves at work. Only by freeing ourselves from work pressure can we live an easy life.

25. Stay happy at work

Do you want your work to be boring or full of happiness? I'm afraid no one wants to choose the former. In fact, work is work, and it can never be as full of novelty and joy as a vacation. The key is how you find and create happiness in it. As long as you really look for it, happiness will come!

26. Open your own mind

No matter what you do, you can only win by being surprising. This is a superior mentality for doing things. Surprisingly means thinking what others have not thought of and doing what others have not done. Only in this way can you stand out from the competition. To be surprising, we must open our closed minds. Perhaps a new idea can improve our work performance and change our lives.

27. Wait patiently for success

Success often depends on everyone’s attitude towards success and failure. As the old man said: On the road to success, if you have no patience to wait for success, then you have to face failure with the patience of your life. In other words, success only favors those who are patient.

28. Only those who are diligent and studious will achieve something

Talent, wit, bravery and courage are important conditions for a person to achieve a career, but these are not the most important; You must be diligent and studious. Diligent and studious people must have the spirit of not being ashamed to ask questions, living to learn and overcoming various difficulties, so that they can truly achieve success and use what they learn.

29. We need an adventurous spirit

There is a saying that "wealth can be obtained through danger", which makes sense. Although we do not agree with blind risks, we do need a spirit of adventure. Because being content with the status quo and not thinking about making progress will never make progress, because opportunities for success often favor those who dare to take risks.

30. Don’t imitate others blindly

You can imitate others, but you cannot imitate blindly. Don't live in the shadow of others. You are you, not a copy of others. Only by taking big strides forward and leaving your own footprints can you live your true self.

31. Be good at creating and seizing opportunities

Opportunities are the most precious to those who want to succeed. Opportunities will come to everyone. If you fail to seize the opportunities, no matter how talented you are, People will also be buried for their entire lives. A person will not face opportunities all the time. It is up to you to create opportunities. You have to know that to seize and create opportunities, you must take practical actions.

32. Don’t be intimidated by setbacks

Everyone will encounter many small or big setbacks in their life, and no one can avoid this. In the face of setbacks, we should not be intimidated. We should face setbacks head-on, regard them as a test of success, and keep going. Setbacks will become your stepping stones.

33. Maintain an innovative thinking

Innovative thinking is a positive attitude. Anyone who achieves great things has innovative thinking beyond ordinary people. In the face of cutthroat competition, innovative thinking will bring vitality and vitality to the parties involved. There is no doubt that we must maintain an innovative thinking, use new thinking to break through conventional concepts, and surpass our own past in order to remain invincible.

34. Treat the "bottleneck" period of your career objectively

Everyone will encounter a "bottleneck" period in their career. At this time, don't be upset or discouraged. Don't even give up on yourself. When your career is stagnant and unable to highlight its vitality, you may need to rethink your choices.

35. Pay attention to and maintain mental health

Mental health is an important part of health. If a person is mentally unhealthy, mental illness will occur. Mental illness can lead to the occurrence of many diseases and can aggravate some diseases, which can seriously affect our health. Therefore, we must pay attention to and maintain mental health. To achieve this, the most important thing is to have an optimistic and positive attitude.

36. Don’t suffer for the sake of face.

You can neither want nor have face.

We must have a correct understanding of this issue. Otherwise, if you think you are gaining face, you will actually lose face. Losing face may be a small thing, but it is really not worthwhile to suffer for the sake of face.

37. Be kind to yourself and love yourself

Others can be sorry for you, but you cannot be sorry for yourself. Treating yourself well, cherishing yourself, and loving yourself are the most basic requirements and a sign of being responsible for yourself. Everyone living in this world should be kind to themselves no matter what happens.

38. Don’t waste precious time

No matter how much money we spend, we can’t buy a moment. Nothing in this world is more precious than time. We cannot save time, but we can cherish it. To cherish time, the most important thing is to use it reasonably and effectively. We must deeply ingrain the concept of cherishing time into our hearts and not waste every day.

39. Use self-suggestion to change yourself

Don’t let negative self-suggestion control yourself, use positive self-suggestion to change yourself. Repeatedly practicing positive self-suggestion can allow us to replace our old, negative thinking patterns with more positive thoughts and concepts. This is a positive mentality and a way to achieve success in a short period of time. Ways to change your mindset.

40. A person must have the courage to express himself

Desire for expression is people’s desire to consciously show their talents, knowledge, and achievements to others. For us, enhancing our positive desire for expression is an inner motivation that promotes progress. Whoever has it will strive for more opportunities to develop themselves and get closer to the other side of success.

41. Dare to recommend yourself to others

There are many opportunities in life that you have to fight for by yourself. If you have the ability, you should volunteer to fight for the kind of tasks that many people are not qualified for. Your self-recommendation just shows your existence, and your chances of success will be greatly increased.

42. Don’t feel like you are “not appreciating your talents”

Most of the reasons why you are “not appreciating your talents” are caused by yourself. Don't have the feeling of "unappreciated talent", because this will become a psychological burden on you and seriously affect your normal mentality. Therefore, we must do what we should do seriously and down-to-earth. Even if we are really overqualified, we should still be happy.

43. Take action immediately

Take action immediately without any delay. You must know that all the plans in the world cannot help you succeed. If you want to realize your ideal, you must act quickly. There are thousands of roads to success, but action is what every successful person must pay, and action is also the shortcut to success.

44. Don’t let hesitation imprison yourself

In today’s world, there are many opportunities, but opportunities are fleeting. Once you have an opportunity, you will You should grasp it in time, make decisions decisively, and act bravely instead of hesitating. Otherwise, you will always stand there and watch others succeed.

45. Be diligent and frugal at all times

Extravagance and waste are a shameful behavior, while diligence and thrift are a virtue. We must be diligent and frugal at all times. We must be diligent and frugal when we are poor, and even more diligent and frugal when we are rich. Only in this way can we stay rich and become richer.

46. Control your emotions

Some people don’t care about anything when their emotions come. They dare to say anything and do anything. This is very difficult. Dangerous. There is a saying: "If God wants to destroy a person, he must first make him crazy." We must control our emotions and be the masters of our emotions rather than their slaves.

47. Tolerance is the highest state of life

Tolerance is a positive attitude towards life and work, and it is a virtue that everyone is familiar with. To be tolerant of your relatives and friends, and tolerant of your opponents and enemies, this is the necessary mentality for those who have achieved great things in ancient and modern times, both at home and abroad. Of course, we must also know that appeasement and indulgence are by no means tolerance, and we must grasp the scale and propriety of tolerance and indulgence - we must not be overly tolerant to certain people.

48. Don’t complain about this or that

We often hear complaints in life. Many things in life tell us: people who only complain cannot get things done.

There are also some people who, although life treats them unfairly, do not complain about this or that. Instead, they spend the time that others use to complain on diligent work. As a result, they will achieve impressive results.

49. Always maintain a passionate heart

Without a passionate heart, no matter what you do, you will not complete it smoothly. Enthusiasm is a good attitude towards dealing with others, and it is also a huge power to stimulate one's own potential. In life and work, treating everything with a passionate heart often produces miracles.

50. Success depends on unity and cooperation

"A fence has three stakes, and a hero has three gangs." If you want to achieve something great, you must rely on the cooperation of everyone. effort. In today's fiercely competitive environment, it is unrealistic to rely on one person to fight for the world. We must have the spirit of unity and cooperation with others to leverage our concentrated advantages and achieve success in our careers.

51. Keep fear out of the door

Everyone will have various fears. These fears are not only a psychological shadow, but more importantly, they will hinder your actions. How to overcome fear? The most effective way is to keep fear at bay. In other words, be brave enough to take practical steps.

52. Set goals for yourself

Our life cannot be without goals. Life without goals is like a headless fly. Set goals for yourself and do your best to move toward them. Successful people succeed because they can do this. The greater a person's goal, the greater his or her achievements tend to be. After setting a big goal for yourself, you should also set some small goals. When the small goals are achieved one by one, the big goal will be achieved.

53. Live with hope

A person without hope in his heart is like a walking corpse, without any life left. We should keep a hope in our hearts and live in hope, so that we can maintain our fighting spirit in difficult situations and live a free and unrestrained life.

54. Make yourself happy

What we need most is happiness. A person full of happiness is happy. Since we all like happiness, we should make ourselves happy. The key is to have a happy mentality. With a happy mentality, happiness will not go elsewhere, it can only stay with us.

55. Maintain an optimistic attitude

An optimistic person is optimistic about everything. No matter where he goes, he will be welcomed by others, and success and health will accompany him. Pessimistic people are just the opposite. We must maintain an optimistic attitude and be an optimist, so that our lives will shine.

56. Don’t let yourself live too tiredly

A person’s life sounds long, but in fact it goes by very quickly. Compared with the entire history, it is a fleeting moment. Therefore, we should forget our unhappiness, not look for trouble, let alone let ourselves "live tiredly".

57. If you can afford it, you can let it go

Each of us has a lot of "treasures", but you can't get everything. At some point, you must learn to get it. Get up, let go. To be able to take it up is courage, to let it go is to be generous, to take it up is precious, to let it go is detachment. The greatest admiration in life is to be able to hold it, and the greatest comfort in life is to be able to let it go.

58. Be grateful as a human being

Because we are alive, we should be grateful. Gratitude is a kind of tolerance and open-mindedness, and a great sentiment. Everything in the world is worthy of our gratitude, so that we can live a better life.

59. There is no need to be angry.

Being angry will waste time, hurt others, and even yourself. In serious cases, it will cause various tragedies. In fact, if you think about it carefully, it is really not worth getting angry, and it is not good for others or yourself. Life is so beautiful and short, there is really no need for us to be angry.

60. Give compliments to others

You have to know that everyone likes compliments from others. As long as praise is timely and appropriate, it can not only eliminate the barriers between people and enhance mutual affection, but more importantly, it can make you popular in the social arena. Remember: don’t be stingy with your compliments, but give them to others in a timely manner.

Editor's Note: Some people often say: "My problem is that I have not succeeded." This can only show that he does not understand the true meaning of success. In fact, pursuing happiness and avoiding pain and detours is success!