What you should thank most is that your mother

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is sickly, grandpa can't take care of himself, two younger brothers go to school, and a family of six all rely on his father to do odd jobs to support themselves ... A girl from Peking University has come out of such a poor family in Zaoqiang County.

Her name is Wang Xinyi. In front of the camera, her 18-year-old tender face shines without makeup.

When the admission notice of Peking University was received, an article "Thanks for Poverty" she had written was instantly popular. I didn't know it was an inspirational article about poverty, hope and courage until I read it carefully.

The article writes: "Poverty brings much more than pain, struggle and confusion. Although it narrows my vision, hurts my self-esteem, and even indirectly takes away the lives of my loved ones, I still want to say, thank you, poverty. "

Her counterattack is an inspiration in capital letters, which invisibly encourages a number of families who were puzzled in the past few years that "it is difficult to give birth to a noble child in a cold family". Her dream of a round north represents "it is also possible to give birth to a noble child in a cold family", and the power of an example lies in inspiring people and bringing confidence and courage to others.

Grandma died of cancer, and her family was in financial difficulties. Faced with classmates' ridicule of clothes and difficulties on the way to school, Wang Xinyi turned into two words-"thank you". In the face of suffering and rough life, this girl should be extraordinary to be able to smile and say thank you, especially to be truly grateful for poverty.

But I know that her "gratitude for poverty" is not the "poverty" itself, but the unyielding strength she grew up in a poor environment, her optimistic and positive attitude towards life formed in adversity, and her spiritual strength full of hope.

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A few days ago, my cousin came back from Shanghai and took my son to the shopping mall. The dazzling array of goods made people see things in a blur. My brother said to his little nephew, "Pick anything, my uncle can buy you anything."

Then he turned to me and said, "When I was a child, I never dreamed that one day, I could afford everything. I must make up for what I was missing when I was a child. I have been waiting for this day for too long."

Yes, we are all children who grew up in the countryside, and we once deeply loved the solid and simple yellow land under our feet, but we are all extremely eager to walk out of this yellow land with this solid and simple, look up at the stars and see ourselves shining in our dreams.

I watched my brother do his homework from a teenager lying on the edge of the kang, quietly working hard, and after many years, he turned into an executive of a listed company and settled in Shanghai to become a middle-class youth.

When we were children, we grew up together. Sometimes we would fight for a piece of candy for several days without talking. Sometimes, in order to coax me, he held the candy in his hand for a long time and refused to eat it. Finally, we saccharified it, and none of us ate it. We would stare blankly and feel distressed together.

At that time, we didn't know anything about poverty. Until we grew up, we became rich and began to satisfy our own desires and the material cravings of our loved ones crazily. It was only when we were unable to sleep at night that we realized that this madness was the sequela of the cold door.

There is a question in Zhihu, "How much influence will poverty have on people's body and mind?" There are all kinds of stories in the comments. Every story is a brand left by poor life. They don't like it, and even desperately want to change it.

So, no one wants to be poor. It lowers our starting point, limits our imagination and hits our self-confidence ... It makes us more likely to become timid and feel inferior, and more sadly, it makes us less likely to realize our ideals.

On the contrary, poverty does not make us timid and feel inferior, does not make our ideals farther and farther, but makes us optimistic, positive, well-developed in style, virtue, art and wisdom, and admitted to Peking University, then we will become heroes.

think about how much hard work and sweat it takes for this huge gap and long pursuit.

Moreover, even if they live in a poor family with no background, even if they are also frugal and have no material desires, they will lead two completely different lives in the same environment.

why does Wang Xinyi thank us for the "poverty" we hate? Why do some children turn to their mothers and ask them, "Why don't you have money?" Wang Xinyi calmly wrote that "poverty has accompanied me for more than twenty years"?

There is a famous saying, "Poverty brings a person a spiritual world of extreme abundance or extreme inferiority."

Wang Xinyi is the former, and so is my cousin. All people who have not belittled themselves and walked out of the broad road through their own efforts are the former.

They measured the truth that "a poor family can give birth to a noble child" step by step. They are an example, but they also proved that "everything that exists must be reasonable".

even if the solidification of the class closes the door for the children of poor families to change their destiny, there is still a window that shines beyond doubt, that is, reading, college entrance examination, and knowledge changing their destiny.

That is to say, poverty does not determine fate, but character does. Poverty will not help the dream come true, but character will.

that's why I said, Wang Xinyi, a poor girl from Hebei province, XXX, the champion of Henan college entrance examination, XXX, a boy from the northeast, and XXX, an inspirational girl from the northwest, what you should thank most is not poverty, but your brave self who didn't give up on yourself even if the starting point was lower than others, but caught up and overtook the curve.

Of course, what you should be grateful for most is that you still go all out to cultivate your great mother in such a difficult environment. Your courage, strength, fearlessness, self-confidence, optimism and positive spirit come down in one continuous line.

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From the interview, I saw that Wang Xinyi's mother said: "Since the child's grandmother died of cancer, I have become more and more aware of the importance of parents to her children. I lost my mother, but I must let my children go home to see their parents, so I must take good care of my body and always be the most solid backing. "

In just a few words, people can see the positive attitude towards life revealed by their favorite mother in the face of terrible difficulties. You can imagine how much wisdom and courage it takes to take care of a family of five or six under such difficult conditions.

Their family will not be faced with the problem of robbing Peter to pay Paul, the choice of whether to choose three leeks or two onions, and the life of being short of money. This is a trilogy brought by poverty to ordinary people. The more you try to avoid it, the more choppy it becomes.

Even so, my favorite has grown into an excellent child with a good personality.

The favorite class teacher said, "She is optimistic, cheerful, broad-minded and has a large pattern. She is definitely not a student who only knows learning in the traditional sense." My favorite classmate said, "Anyone who sits at the same table with her will make progress in her grades."

There are many people who say that all they see from Wang Xinyi's face is sunshine, as if all they have experienced are sunny days without any haze. It is said that Wang Xinyi's two younger brothers are also excellent, with good grades, good personality, optimism and strength, which is really good.

What we can guess is that a strong mother has taken all the embarrassment and burden of life, led the whole family along the way, cut through difficulties and loved life, and was full of vitality because of her tenacity.

A mother has great wisdom, but she may not be well-developed and rich. In fact, wisdom is also reflected in her acceptance of life, her openness to adversity and her influence on her children.

I've only been a mother for more than four years. In the process of getting along with my son day and night, I have found that the childish little face of the child changes completely according to your own mood. When you are happy, he will make trouble, and when you are depressed, he will be bored. This chain reaction is so magical that you will become a woman with stable mood and gentle attitude unconsciously.

in the past four years, I have gradually realized why my mother has been smiling all the time for more than ten years, as if nothing can break her and no one can make her unhappy.

Because my mother has me behind her and her children, she has to use her strength to melt away the carnage outside, in exchange for the peace of the family. Because she is a mother, she must support a sunny day for a family.

Hu Shi wrote in "My Mother", "My mother is generous, good-natured, the kindest and gentlest to others, and has never said anything that hurts people's feelings. If I learn the slightest bit of good temper, if I learn a little bit of kindness towards others, if I can forgive and be considerate-I have to thank my loving mother. "

No matter where a mother is, she can't limit her inner broadmindedness.

Wang Xinyi's mother is like this, and so are our mothers. Only by hiding the nails of life, swallowing them with tears, putting on a smile and surrounding us with love can we raise our healthy body and sound personality.

On the contrary, in today's many families, although the conditions are good, the mother is like a violent ruler. She is dissatisfied with her husband's cowardice, her children's poor grades, and even her own incompetence. If she is not satisfied, she will fly into a rage and make the whole family atmosphere filled with smoke.

how lucky it is to have a mother with a stable mood and a positive personality!

The unyielding appearance of a mother in the face of life is the best education for her children. No matter how advanced the education method is, it can't compare with the self-reliance and sunny attitude of her mother. Pay tribute to her favorite mother and all the mothers who have made great sacrifices and changes for her children.

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Wang Xinyi, I want to say to you, it's good that you are a girl, so your light looks more dazzling and dazzling.

A few years ago, when I moved and collected old things, I came across my mother's college admission notice. Only then did I know that my mother was high flyers at that time, with good grades and lively spirit. After I was admitted to the university, I gave the opportunity to my uncle, because if only one person could go to school, boys would have priority.

for so many years, I have never heard my mother talk about this regret, but I found that my mother kept the admission notice intact.

There was a time when girls didn't have to study or go to college. The right way for them was to get married and have children, and live a dull life day after day. Their ideals were stifled before they were eighteen.

My neighbor Wang Nan, a beautiful woman, got married early and gave birth to a baby. She has a helpless face. Every time she sees me, her eyes shine. She said that she only blames herself for her poor study in that year, and she got married directly after graduating from high school. Now she can only be a housewife at home, and occasionally she is a "dissatisfied wife" or a "deserted wife".

There are a group of women around, juggling pots and pans, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar. They watch men with the same IQ and EQ struggle in the workplace, but they can't walk out because they didn't work so hard when they were young.

I hope this is not the ultimate fate of young girls.

In the Indian film Wrestling, Dad, a father defied criticism and sent two women to the champion's seat on the wrestling stage. His harsh training was almost inhuman, and his two daughters could not understand or even rebel. However, he said,

"If you win tomorrow, you won't win alone, and millions of girls like you will win with you. All the girls who are considered inferior to boys,

We are not India, but at present, there are some remarks I don't like: "Girls are too educated to get married", "Girls should not have ambitions" and "The meaning of a girl's life is to run a happy family" ...

I don't believe all these nonsense.

Our life should no longer be dominated by other public opinions, but we should live according to my wishes.

As a girl, I, like boys, can stand on the peak of my life and be admitted to a prestigious school. I can spend my hard-earned money happily; My ability and talent can be recognized and respected by others; The future I want can be created by my own efforts; The person I want to marry is because of love, not what sustenance.

So, Wang Xinyi, you are a girl, and you are a practitioner of your achievements, abilities and dreams. Your "Thanks for Poverty" is the voice of a poor girl. "Your victory is not yours alone, but an example for all girls who don't want to face pots and pans all their lives."

May all the girls and women in the mud hold their heads high and stride forward to realize their life ideals. Come on!