I heard a famous saying a long time ago: Life is a mirror. If you smile at it, it will smile at you; if you cry at it, it will cry at you. At the time, I didn’t understand the true meaning, I just thought it was a way to encourage people to face life optimistically. Recently, I have truly realized the meaning of this sentence: Life is indeed a mirror that truthfully reflects your inner self, no more, no less, just as it appears.
This understanding is important to me, but with only this sentence in my mind, I cannot organize more words to enrich and complete this understanding. Because this is still new to me, it allows me to face life in a new way. It is a reversal of responsibility in life, from life deciding me to me deciding life. I feel that all the information in life needs to be re-understood. This information is emerging one after another, rushing towards me, and each information can be interpreted in a new way, so this interpretation will be out of control.
In fact, I often struggle with life and am often dissatisfied with it, but I don’t understand that life is just a mirror, which truthfully reflects my situation. I don’t care about my situation, but I am worried about the mirror. Huai, in fact, this will not change anything. When I am full of disappointment, anger, or blame for life, life will not turn around according to the ideal life in my heart. It will just reflect these disappointments and anger truthfully. , or the corresponding appearance of blaming everyone, continuing to present my state and continuing it. If I don’t want to live in dissatisfaction and keep copying, I can only see and change.
I am often full of fantasies about life. I feel that I suffered some hardships when I was a child and have scars in my heart. I hope that life can let me go and give me some favor. I can’t let go of my hope for pie in the sky. But I forgot that life is just a mirror, don't have too high demands on it. I suffered a lot when I was a child, and I have scars in my heart and knots in my soul. If it is not healed, life will show these pains. The mirror does not have an emotional function, and the reality it presents is sometimes almost cruel, but this is not the fault of the mirror, nor is it Whose fault is it? This is just your own homework. If you need more effort to do the homework, you may not be able to graduate in your lifetime, but if you don't do the homework, you will never be able to graduate.
Maybe you don’t believe it, but I believe that life is indeed a mirror, using its unique combination method to show the inner content: from major life encounters to interpersonal relationships in life; from the body The health of the flowers and plants you cultivate depends on them. Every aspect reflects your inner appearance: it may be lush or withered, it may be dangerous or ordinary, it may be still and deep or it may be majestic. The purpose is to let you see yourself.
Are you still dissatisfied with life? Looking back at yourself, are you also very dissatisfied with yourself? The lack in life reflects the lack in your heart. If you feel lonely and have no friends, maybe It’s because your heart is closing down and constraining yourself in some way; you feel that life remains unchanged, but in fact, many times your heart is accustomed to following a routine; conflicts with people are constant in life, is it also a battle filled with smoke;
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Every little bit, you can reflect on yourself through life.
Maybe you will ask: Everything reflects me, and I don’t know what to do. Is it true that only by being comprehensive and perfectly presented can I have a satisfactory life? You are too naive to ask. The mirror will not be confused by the surface. It is responsible for showing your true state. You may not even know this bottomless truth deep in your heart, because few people really know it. Be clear about yourself. The information is too rich and mysterious, including information about you, your family, your nation, and the times.
Perfection cannot please life. The real turning point is not to please life, but to please yourself. When you have the ability to smile to life, a person can smile to life from the heart, and life will smile to him. Smile. And only when you have emotions and temperature, life will become emotional and warm. You are responsible for creating yourself, and life is responsible for manifesting your creation.
This does not mean that we should eliminate the negative shadow parts in our hearts. There is no way to eliminate the shadow. Elimination will only strengthen the shadow. The shadow is exactly what we need to transform, and life will show it on its own. produce transformational results.
Everyone’s life is just a mirror of his own. We are only responsible for handling our own mirror. As for the role we play in other people’s mirrors, we don’t have to force it.
No matter what the current situation of life is, we no longer have to struggle with life. Instead, we have to thank life for giving us the opportunity to see ourselves clearly and know who I am and where I am. At the same time, don’t forget that no matter how hard you work or how lucky you are: no one is perfect and life is not easy. When we make peace with our imperfect selves, we may make peace with life.