We were so eager for the waves of fate that we finally found that the most beautiful scenery in life is actually inner peace and calmness. We used to look forward to the recognition of the outside world so much that we finally knew that the world was our own and had nothing to do with others. Maybe you have taken many wrong paths, wronged many people, suffered many betrayals, and suffered a terrible fall, but it doesn't matter. As long as you are alive, there is always hope, and the rest of your life is still long, so why panic? At first, we pretended to be confused to understand. Later, we played dumb and understood. It is not that we want to live in ignorance. However, a lot of things, with hard work, will be exposed, exposed and lost. The world of adults is always so fragile. 5, some things, just smile, don't be too serious; Some people just look and don't care. If you like acting, give a round of applause. It doesn't make any sense to puncture it. Self-righteous, choose to ignore, there is really no need to argue. 6, people say that carrying a bag is a passerby; Put down your baggage and you will find your hometown. As we all know, life is not absolutely stable. Since they are all passers-by, we should walk through the fleeting time with a calm and indifferent heart and laugh at the ups and downs in the world. 7, nothing happens, I don't know who is near and who is far. People are not good, I don't know who is rich and who is weak! I don't know who will gather and who will leave. People are not poor, I don't know who is cold and who is warm! Don't try the water, don't know which is deep and which is shallow. If you don't pay, you don't know who is good or bad! 8. Life is too short, don't let yourself live too tired, don't squeeze into this world, don't squeeze hard, it's hard to make yourself cheaper to others; If you can't do it, don't try. Another way of thinking may get twice the result with half the effort. Don't take what you can't get, even if you get it temporarily, you will lose it. 9. If you become more and more silent and don't want to say it, it's not cowardice or compromise, but that you underestimate many things and many people, and you become more and more mature. Bright but not dazzling, soft and powerful. 10, everyone may encounter a particularly difficult stage, long or short, which makes you feel desperate and can't see the light. However, it is useless to complain and worry blindly, and it is even more useless to be sad and painful. It's better to clean up your mood, be full of energy and face it with your head held high. Maybe everything will be fine. 1 1, you can see the truth when the wind blows and the rain blows; In the plain, you can see your heart. It's worth knowing something. Sincerely see the truth, and the truth sees the real person. When people are alive, the circle should not be too big, and it is good to accommodate themselves and some people; Friends are not how many, just casually. 12, when you fall, someone is always trying. When you are lazy, there are naturally people who work hard. When you feel unhappy, some people's lives are worse than yours. Therefore, in this world, there are always people who live the life you abandoned, people who live the life you expect, and people who live the same life as you now. 13, don't be afraid to offend people. Anyone who has principles respects him for three points. Times have changed and good people are no longer welcome. Having a temper is also a true temperament. Swallowing back what you said is mature, but it is a responsibility to say what you should say. 14, the most exhausting thing is often not the distance of the road, but the depression in your heart; The most decadent thing is often not the bumpy future, but the loss of self-confidence; The most painful thing is often not the misfortune of life, but the disillusionment of one's own hopes; So look down on everything, relax a little, and everything will get better gradually. 15, don't always compromise yourself by accommodating others. There are very few people in this world who deserve your total bending over. Bending for a long time will only make people get used to your low profile, and yours is not important. Swallow your grievances and tears. Don't lose if you can't afford to lose. If you can't die, stand up and tell everyone who looks down on you: I'm fine.
16, one day you will find that you have to taste the ups and downs, and a person will live a long life. You have to strive to be strong and then be independent. Don't be too kind, too generous and too capable. After a long time, people will think that everything you do is right. Even if one day you are tired of crying, no one will love you. 17, we were all on the road, stumbling all the way to the end. No matter whether it is mediocre or famous, it is in the bitter sea of life to go far away. It is better to work hard every day than to complain all your life. Only by working hard can we see another dawn. 18, one day you will understand that people can't be too kind, and good people sometimes bully. Because people can only pick soft persimmons, they will only push their luck. If everything is too generous and tolerant, others will not appreciate you, but will push your nose and face. Sometimes you should have a little temper, and you should not be too gentle and patient with some people, because being too kind is also a fool. 19, never envy other people's lives, even if that person looks happy and rich. Never judge whether others are happy or not, even if that person looks lonely and helpless. Happiness is like drinking water, understand it. You are not me, how can you know the road I have traveled and the joys and sorrows in my heart? 20. You can't change the environment, but you can change yourself; You can't change the facts, but you can change your attitude; You cannot change the past, but you can change the present; You can't control others, but you can control yourself; You can't predict tomorrow, but you can grasp today; You can't do everything smoothly, but you can do everything wholeheartedly; You can't extend the length of life, but you can decide the width of life. 2 1, perhaps, if you look down on everything, life will not be so tangled. Many times, just because you look too hard and put it too hard, it will make people breathless. Try to put it down to make it easier. 22. People are like this all their lives. Desire is like sand in their hands. The tighter you hold on, the more you lose. Learn to let go and give up before you can really get it. Gains and losses are only relative. When you think you can get it, you may be losing it. When you feel lost, you may be getting it. Look down on everything, think about everything and follow your heart. If you don't want it, you don't have to lose it. 23, it is better to look down on everything, life should be abandoned and must be abandoned. There are so many unhappiness in life that you can't keep everything in your heart. Smile and look down on everything, and the unhappy things will disappear. The most important thing is to cherish what you have now and give up those indifferent attachments. Look down on everything and learn to be indifferent, which is the real happiness! 24, maybe really grown up, look down, no one can do anything for you, only parents, everything doesn't matter, since I don't care about you, why bother! 25. It seems that there is no one I particularly like and no one I particularly hate. As I get older, I find that many things look bleak. Everything becomes indifferent, since we can't get what we want, we have to let it be. Unwilling to settle, even if lonely? 26. Maybe I don't believe in love for a long time. I didn't understand the existence of love until I was desperately in love. When all this is dim, it doesn't matter Dedicated to the once pure and kind self! 27. Life is bitter first, then sweet, and life and death cycle. Only by thinking down can we taste the joy of life and appreciate the vastness of nature. There is no such thing as trouble, and there is no such thing as nothing. Everything comes from your state of mind, and the scenery with peace of mind is naturally infinite. 28. I just loved, and after the injury, everything doesn't matter, and everything is just look down. 29. Learn to be indifferent. You can relax a lot, be happier, live longer, be fatter and have more friends. Slowly let yourself learn to be indifferent, look down on people who don't care, look down on things you don't care about, care too much, and your emotions will be restrained. When you think that others may be indifferent to your emotions, you will be indifferent. 30. I have seen everything now, and I despise some feelings. It doesn't matter, no one will affect my mood, and your business is none of my business. Respect is mutual. If you don't respect others, how can you have the face to let others respect you? Anyone can say a good word, not a fake one.