1. Any valuable knowledge I have learned is from self-study. ?Indarwin

　2. If we want to make children smart, virtuous, and upright, it is inappropriate to discipline them with whipping and other slavish corporal punishments. It can only be used occasionally when absolutely necessary and under extreme circumstances. On the contrary, using children's favorite things to reward children and to please children should be equally carefully avoided. ? Locke's "Education Ramblings" page 30

3. Once a child understands the meaning of respect and humiliation, respect and humiliation are the most powerful stimuli to his psychology. If you can make children love honor and fear shame, you have given them a true principle, which will always operate. ? Locke's "Education Essays" page 32

4. Your behavior should be gentle. Even if you punish them, your attitude should still be calm. Make them feel that your actions are reasonable and beneficial to them. And it's necessary. ?Locke's "Education Essays" page 59

5. ?We must become children before we are qualified to be children's teachers. Tao Xingzhi's motto

6. Therefore, a smart woman will not be a man's confidante; a smart man who knows how to cherish women will not selfishly want an excellent woman to be his confidante. Confidant.

7. Please remember, if a man feels sorry for you, please break up with him firmly. You also have to remember, never lose your temper and break up gently. If you lose your temper, the reason for your breakup will be due to personality incompatibility. If you break up gently, it will be nothing more than a missed opportunity and a regret in the world. My dear, give men a little more regret. Regret has always been a poignant landscape in the hearts of men. Most men don't know how to cherish, and believe that what is not obtained is the most beautiful, and what is lost is always poetic. It is more psychologically advantageous for him to lose you than for you to lose him.

8. Don’t try to conquer a man who is over 30 years old, has never been married, and has no fixed girlfriend yet. Such men are either sexually impotent or love incompetent, and most of them have psychological problems related to sexual orientation. Honey, don't be a wounded woman.

9. The best way to see if a man loves you is to see if he brings you into his world and his life.

10. To conquer a man, you must treat him well. As the saying goes, softness can overcome steel. But don't be okay all the time, just take care of him when he's sick. Remember: Don’t get too used to a man. Don’t let him take it for granted and think that this is what you should do and what you like to do.

11. There is a word in this world called myth. Want to know what myth is? Please listen to a man expressing his love to you! There is also a word in this world called legend. Want to know what a legend is? Please listen to the promise a man makes to you! Women in this world all have dreams, and dreams are how women react when they come into contact with myths and legends.

12. As a woman, you should actually trust men. Just like wanting to believe that world peace will come, even though you also know that there are constant wars in the world now.

13. Every woman must be stupid at least once in her life. Those who are stupid twice or more are not women, they are sows and deserve to be cheated and dumped. If you have been deceived, it is best to have the mentality of "losing your virginity after drinking and not taking it seriously". In this way, although you cannot have love, you can at least save your face.

14. If you call your boyfriend (husband) and encounter situations such as no response or shutdown, there is absolutely no need to call a second time, because it is really a bad thing to ruin someone else’s happy time. , the key is to make yourself lose face.

15. Because children should rarely be punished by whipping, I feel that scolding too much, especially in anger, will have almost the same bad consequences. It can reduce the prestige of parents in the eyes of their children, and it can also reduce the respect that children have for their parents. ? Locke's "Education Essays" page 54

16. Genius is just constant thinking. Anyone with a brain has genius. ?Fa Maupassant

17. You will regret the lack of books when you use them, and you will not know the difficulty until you have experienced it? Lu You

18. Results mainly explain the new situation at the starting point of learning, rather than providing final results. in conclusion. Students should be viewed from a developmental perspective, teachers should be viewed from a developmental perspective, and schools should be viewed from a developmental perspective. ?"Summary of Learning Concepts of Quality Education"

19. Although occasional failures, in some cases, even punished failures, are not detrimental to the progress of learning, quite frequent successes will Still essential. As Pressey and his colleagues put it: ?Learning is driven by success. ?Unless the motivation is very strong, continuous failure will cause students to lose confidence and become frustrated, hindering further efforts. ?[US]M?L?Big: "The Objective Laws of Student Learning" Famous Aphorisms

20. Educators should have a deep understanding of the minds of growing people. When I hear or read the words "attitude towards individual treatment of people", they are always connected in my consciousness with another concept: thinking. Education? This is first of all living, inquisitive and exploratory thinking.

Without thinking, there is no discovery (even a small, seemingly insignificant discovery at first glance), and without discovery, there is no creativity in educational work. ?[Su] Va. A. Suhomlinsky: "Letter to Teachers", page 97

21. Why do they have a so-called man? When you When I was lying in bed and fighting fiercely with the pain, I held your hand in panic and burst into tears. I was afraid of your pain, afraid of your death, and wished I could hurt you and die for you. After you have a wife who understands you, I am willing to silently share with you, so that your soul will no longer be lonely, and make you a happy confidante?

22. How many temptations and challenges, hardships and pain of not being understood need to be faced: both You need to give him just the right amount of care, don't show him affection, don't let him feel threatened that you will fall in love with him, and don't let him have the urge and enthusiasm to fall in love with you. You also need to have skills when you go out. Traveling far away, there is no news, and there is a major natural disaster in the place where you are going. Your confidante is worried about you and calls you many times, but you can't get through every time because you have turned off your phone. When you have had enough wandering and stand in front of her with disheveled hair, she will just smile and ask: "Long time no see, did you have fun?" She will not mention her cares and worries, she will never mention them.

23. This world is full of temptations and challenges. Why do women have to pay so much while men enjoy the results?

24. There is no man in this world who is worthy of her. A woman is so affectionate. Think about it, when she is sick, she can express her pain in front of many people, in front of her wife or even in her arms, while you can only stand in a dark corner. Watching them play out the touching scenes of adversity and passion between a loving couple, they couldn't express themselves in any way. Even a caring look or a kind word must take into account the reality and cruelty reflected from all directions. You can't even act like a lover in his arms after the storm, nor can you feel confident like your wife after 10 o'clock at night. Urging him to go home. You can neither tell your story freely, nor connect your life with his, nor can you involve yourself in the turning point of his fate. You can neither love each other nor truly own each other. When he needs to talk to you, all you can give him is a full smile, patient listening, and the wisdom of the blue heart that you are born with.

25. The saddest thing about a confidante is that she understands but cannot do it, let alone own it!

26. ?My basic principle is always to ask as much as possible from a person , but also respect a person Makarenko as much as possible

27. Evaluation is not for queuing, but to promote development. ?"Study Summary of Concepts of Quality Education"

28. Cultivating people is to cultivate their hope for the future. ?(Former Soviet Union) Makarenko

29. Don’t read a man’s text messages on his cell phone, don’t check the post, don’t follow him, don’t let a man feel that you care about him, let him care about you. , it’s only right to pay attention to you.

30. Never believe what others tell you about your boyfriend (husband) scandal, unless you catch it red-handed. If you want to continue, please first make a concerted effort to drive away external invaders, and finally resolve internal conflicts. Family shame cannot be made public, and men also want to maintain the only bit of face they have. If you feel it's unbearable, just vent as much as you want, and let this nasty man know the tragic consequences of betraying a woman.