People can be forgiven for their lack of understanding of the famous saying 1. -Fang's Book of Jin
Without great difficulties, there will be no great cause. -Voltaire
3. The meaning of life lies in giving, not in receiving, nor in contending.
4, people don't know or care, not a gentleman. -Confucius's Analects of Confucius
5. Love is another name for understanding. Tagore
6. If people can't understand each other, how can they learn to respect each other silently? Gorky
7. The same content will have different understandings for different audiences, and sometimes even the opposite. The reason why this happens is because the hearts, emotions, experiences, needs and environment of the audience are different.
8. Love is another name for understanding and consideration. Tagore
9. Understanding is definitely the soil that breeds all the fruits of friendship. -Wilson
10, mutual understanding between people will make a virtuous circle of society.
Case 1 Young Darwin dug up a coin in the dirt and ran to his sister with great excitement, telling her that it was an ancient Roman coin. In fact, it is just an ordinary coin, because it looks a little old because of corrosion. My sister thought Darwin lied, so she told her father and demanded that Darwin be punished. But my father lovingly said to Darwin, "How can I blame you?" Your imagination is really great. "This is understanding. Because the father knew that the child didn't mean to lie, he just had an abnormal interest in ancient coins.
Case 2 Guan Zhong and Bao are good friends. They are business partners. Guanzhong doesn't have much capital, but he pays a lot of dividends. Bao doesn't care. He knew that Guan Zhong's family had a heavy burden. On several occasions, Guan Zhong helped package ideas, but he all screwed up. Bao Shuya was not angry and thought it was a good idea, but the timing was not bad. Guan Zhong worked as an official for three times and was removed from office every time. Bao thinks it's not that Guan Zhong has no talent, but that someone doesn't appreciate him. Guan Zhong hit and ran away. Bao Shuya didn't laugh at Guan Zhong's fear of death. He knew that Guan Zhong couldn't let go of his old mother. Later, Guan Zhong assisted Qi Huangong, making Qi the most powerful country among the vassals. Sima Qian finally wrote, "The world doesn't care about Zhong Xian, but about the ability to read people." This "knowing people" is actually an "understanding" of talents.
Case 3 Confucius' student Zi Gong once asked Confucius: "Teacher, is there a sentence that can be used as a principle of being a man?" Confucius said, "This is probably forgiveness." "Forgiveness", in today's words, means understanding and tolerance.
Case 4: After Zhuge Liang's death, the State of Shu in the Three Kingdoms period appointed Jiang Wan to preside over the state affairs. One of his subordinates is Yang, who is withdrawn and speaks slowly. When Jiang Wan talked to him, he only answered. Someone couldn't get used to it and muttered in front of Jiang Wan: "It's outrageous that Yang is so rude to you!" Jiang Wan smiled indifferently and said, "Everyone has his own temperament. It's not in Yang's nature to praise me to my face. Let him criticize me in front of everyone, and he will feel ashamed of me. So, he had to keep silent. In fact, this is his valuable place. " Later, some people praised Jiang Wan that "the prime minister can punt in his stomach".
A couple was lucky enough to book a train ticket, but when they got on the bus, they found a lady sitting in their seat. Mr. Wang motioned for his wife to sit in the seat next to her, but did not ask the lady to give up her seat. After the wife sat down, she looked carefully and found that the lady's right foot was a little inconvenient, so she understood why her husband didn't wake her up. So he stood all the way from Chiayi to Taipei. After getting off the bus, Mr. Ai Xin's wife said, "It's a good thing to give up your seat, but Chiayi has been in Taipei for a long time. You can ask her to give you your seat back and sit down for you. " Mr. Wang said: "It's inconvenient for people all their lives, so it's inconvenient for us to spend three hours."