When introducing yourself, we should pay attention to the following three points:
(a) must be calm and confident. Say your name clearly and be good at expressing your friendliness, concern and desire with your eyes. This is a sign of self-confidence. People usually have special respect for confident people. If you are confident, the other person will have a good impression on you; If you introduce yourself vaguely and show shyness, it will make the other party feel that you can't grasp yourself and make them have reservations about you, so the communication between them will be blocked.
(2) According to different communication purposes, pay attention to the simplicity of introduction. Self-introduction includes name, age, native place, occupation (position), work unit or address, necessary experience, specialty or interest, etc. Of course, when introducing yourself, you don't have to say all the above, but you should decide the simplicity of introduction according to the needs of communication. Generally speaking, the self-introduction before attending a party, "salon" or a speech should be as concise as when contacting work; For bidders in the process of public bidding, self-introduction should be as detailed as making friends
(3) Self-evaluation should be measured. Self-evaluation is generally not suitable for extreme words such as "very", "first" and "most". Of course, there is no need to deliberately belittle it. The key is to master proper limit.
There are many ways to introduce yourself. Common ones are:
First, cut to the chase: this is the most common self-introduction, and some people think it is the most clumsy method. However, choosing the right words and phrases and telling your name, personality, specialties and hobbies directly to the other party will also leave a deep impression on the other party. A teacher introduced herself to her students in combination with her chemistry major: "My name is Zhang Ping, and I am an ordinary person." Personality, inactive and inert; Characteristics, cold resistance; Use, teach chemistry. "
Second, overtones: Chinese characters are homophonic. Using them skillfully and properly can produce overtones and be full of fun. Of course, we should pay attention to the language atmosphere, not frivolous, but also consider our identity, occupation and interpersonal environment. A gentleman from the public relations department introduced himself and said, "I am a clerk in the public relations department. My family name is Li Mingjie. Understanding is an eternal desire, and understanding is an eternal pursuit, so people often joke with me:' Long live Li Jie (understanding)'. "
Smooth sailing: this idiom means to use the strength of others to achieve your own goals. When introducing one's name, there are many idioms, allusions and famous sayings. You can borrow it. If used properly, they not only show knowledge, but also are easy to remember. However, don't borrow it indiscriminately. We should pay attention to the popularity of specific language environment and its potential role in further communication. A young poet showed his "language card" at a poetry creation meeting: "My name is Jiang Nanan's poem" Spring Breeze is Green in Jiang Nanan, When Will the Moon Shine on Me "from Wang Anshi, but I am not from the south, but from Shandong."
In addition, there are riddles, answers, humor, self-mockery, killing two birds with one stone and so on.
There are many ways to introduce yourself. In addition to using language, you can also use other identification materials, such as letters of introduction, work permits or business cards, as an auxiliary introduction to enhance the other party's trust in themselves and make things go smoothly. In particular, "business cards" have become a solemn and elegant social way widely used in modern society.
In short, proper self-introduction can get twice the result with half the effort in communication and social activities.