No matter what level of life you go to, there are people looking up to you and others looking down on you. You look up and feel inferior, and bow your head and be complacent. Only by looking directly can you see your true self.
You may feel that you always envy others' happiness, look up to others' happiness, feel that others have many good things, but you can't see clearly what you have.
As we all know, if you envy others, others may envy you. Only by maintaining a normal mind can we see ourselves clearly, see what we have and accept ourselves.
If you want to cultivate a person who can do great things, you must let him suffer hardships and be dissatisfied, so as to develop a patient character. After different degrees of exercise, a person obtains different degrees of self-cultivation and different degrees of benefits.
When Mr. Jiang Yang was young, she was treated unfairly, but she always kept her inner peace and calm, and only focused on her studies.
If a person wants to achieve something, he needs to cultivate himself in different degrees, hone himself and constantly improve himself. Only through different degrees of exercise can he get different degrees of sense of accomplishment and income.
It is the most interesting thing to have fun and be together in an ordinary life.
In The Three of Us, Mr. Jiang Yang recalled his life with his husband, Mr. Qian Zhongshu, and his daughter, A Yuan, which made people feel warm and interesting.
Wrote: "Our family is very simple; The three of us, it's simple. So we don't want to compete with others, just want to get together, stay together and do what we can.
When we encounter difficulties, we will bear them together, and the difficulties will no longer be difficult; We help each other together, no matter what hardships and difficulties, we can become sweet and moist. If we are a little happy, we will become very happy. "
The important thing in marriage is to live an ordinary life. Understanding and knowing each other is the simplest happiness.
I don't argue with anyone, and I don't care who I argue with. A simple life and a noble soul are the highest realm of life.
In this highly competitive society, many people like to compare and compete with others. You envy other people's brilliance, but you don't know what's behind it. Compare with yourself, learn from each other's strengths and win-win cooperation.
Paying attention to one's inner self, people often say: beautiful skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million. Live a simple life and enrich your heart.
We used to look forward to the recognition of the outside world so much that we finally knew that the world was our own and had nothing to do with others.
We always want to be recognized by others, even if sometimes we don't want to, we must cater to others and let ourselves be wronged. Instead of trying to please others modestly, we should pay more attention to ourselves, know ourselves in our own world and improve ourselves.
Your problem mainly lies in reading too much and thinking too much.
A young reader wrote to Mr Jiang Yang, complaining that the society was too impetuous. Mr. Jiang Yang wrote back and said, "Your problem mainly lies in reading too much and thinking too much."
It is true that many people look anxious. In fact, most of them think too much and do too little. They always don't talk, but they do too little, so they lack motivation. They can think more clearly when reading.
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