Word Definition Word: Being Honesty Phonetic: zuò ren Definition: 1. Refers to being a person; treating others. 2. Explain things; understand the mind. 3. Don’t lose face and be decent. 4. Be an upright and selfless person. 5. Keep things in perspective and don’t act haphazardly. 6. Perform your obligations and abide by laws and regulations. 7. Be able to respect the old and love the young, and be able to make others happy. 8. Help others. 9. Do things seriously and be a down-to-earth person. 10. Don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you. 11. Love has no boundaries, and the highest kindness is as good as water: Live a low-key life; learn to be steady, don't be ostentatious, pursue fame and fortune, and let everything take its course. Basic explanation 1. [conduct oneself; behave]: refers to how to treat others and know how to behave. 2. [be an upright person]: to be an upright and selfless person. Be an upright person and be such a person. Detailed explanation: 1. Conduct oneself; behave towards others. Volume 4 of Jin Dong Jieyuan's "The Chronicles of the West Chamber Zhugong Tiao": "Nowadays, it is difficult to be a human being." Volume 13 of "Historical Commentary" written by Li Zhi of the Ming Dynasty: "Zhong Hui does not know how to be a human being." Volume 13 of Yang Shuo's "Three Thousand Miles of Rivers and Mountains": "Bian Yuchun is a meticulous person and can understand the psychology of others. "2. Explain things; understand people's thoughts. The first chapter of Yuan Guan Hanqing's "Tiao Feng Yue": "Although I put on makeup and powder, I just try not to wear a headscarf, and I will hate the mother-in-law who is not a human being." The second chapter of Yuan Ma Zhiyuan's "Blue Shirt Tears": "A pretty soul will never leave me. Playing circles is my way of being a human being." 3. Don't lose face and be decent. The third chapter of "Dongtang Lao" by Jianfu of the Yuan and Qin Dynasties: "You were also a human being and took care of me, so I asked you to be a servant!" 4. Be a decent person. Jun Qing's "Tsunami" Chapter 318: "The question is whether you have the courage to confess to the organization, sincerely examine, correct mistakes, and start a new life." People's Science's explanation of being a human being is "Principles of Being a Human Being" edited by Yang Ruzhu. "Cracking the Mysteries of Life" is a book that explains the principles of life and the mysteries of life. This book directly points to the core issue of human studies - human nature and human nature. It is also an innovative and excellent work of human studies. The author points out that being a human being is a concept unique to Chinese culture, and there is no fixed word corresponding to it in Western culture. In order to decipher the mystery of life, the author gives a strict definition to being a human being: being a human being refers to the activities in which a person behaves, treats others, and directs himself to become a certain kind of person within a certain period of time. To put it simply, being a human being means acting, treating others, and directing oneself to become a certain kind of person in a certain way or concept within any period of time. In this way, we can use being a human being to explain various specific issues in life. Edit this paragraph: You should do things for others to see, but you should do things for yourself to see, because others only see how you are as a person and rarely see how you do things. Therefore, many people in the workplace, Those who are incompetent but hold high positions are not really incompetent, but their ability as a person far exceeds yours. Nowadays, a large number of people don’t like to ask others for help because they think it hurts face, or in other words Colleagues around you trying to please their superiors will also cause discussions among colleagues. Please be careful and don’t discuss others when encountering such things in the future. You should feel that you have a sense of urgency. Maybe the next boss will be the one you are discussing now. This colleague. If you don’t believe me, you can read it. I remember when I was in elementary school, there was a classmate who really liked being the class president but he never showed it. But when the class teacher drafted the candidates, without his name, he would talk about this person and that person behind his back. . Why is this like this? It's because he cares a lot and is extremely unbalanced in his heart. Of course, being a squad leader was nothing at that time, but if you were born in a society like this, then you might have been just an employee in the company. Why? Don't pass your opinions to your superiors. Everyone wants to be a manager, and of course some people like to be managed. But if you don’t reveal your thoughts to others, how will others know what you are pursuing? The words are a bit confusing, but every word is to remind everyone that being a human being is always better than doing something. Some people work hard all their lives, but in the end, they have to retire, and the boss finds out, Lao Wang! I'd better get you a deputy section-level job for two years so that you can retire and enjoy a comfortable life, right? While some people can be promoted from clerk to deputy section level in one year, it took Lao Wang most of his life. Do you think it is worth it? Of course, after we have done a good job as a person, we can then do the things assigned by our superiors. Who doesn’t trust you and who doesn’t want to promote you? This is just my personal opinion, based on what I have seen, felt, and learned from books. The structure is very messy, and it is not like the level of a writer! Please forgive me! Edit this section to learn how to be a human being. Human beings are the most advanced among animals. Of course, we must be a good human being. Human beings can walk upright, eat, drink, and have fun. Human beings have joys, sorrows, and ups and downs. They constantly weave our beautiful life. Let us find the source of life. People are a combination of sensibility and rationality. Have you ever been moved by others? Keep your promises. Have you ever touched others? There are so many things around us that deserve our obsession. Why be a human being? There is no need to rummage through boxes and cabinets to find the answer. Family, love, friendship, brotherhood, etc., these "loves" are enough to surround you and let you find the value of being a human being. Zhu Xi said: "A sage can speak a thousand words, but he only teaches people how to behave." You only live once. I hope you and everyone will cherish this only life experience and learn to be a good person.
Article: It is not difficult to be a good person. The most difficult thing to do is to be a good person. Being a good person is the foundation of life. Learning how to be a talent is the theme of life. Being a good person is the greatest success. Personal dignity is the noblest. Diligence and enterprising are the greatest. The real society will abandon laziness and cowardice and will spurn it. Only when you are vain and humble and have no desires and demands can you become calm. Only when you do things can you be confident, steady and at ease. Only when you are self-respectful and respectful can you be mature. Only when you do things can you be safe, comfortable, noble and free. Growth is more important than success. The process of growth is the process of being a human being. Learn Being a human being will inevitably result in success; being a human being will not only lead to temporary success. As a human being, you must learn to be a human being throughout your life, demonstrate the dignity of being a human being, experience the joy of being a human being, realize the value of being a human being, and never forget that you are a “human being” with a capital letter - excerpted from the edited volume of "Life Book" Section 1. How to be a human being. Summary of being a human being: People and the environment interact with each other. People should live dialectically in the world, and use the concepts of agency and movement, connection, contradiction, change, and development to look at and deal with problems. Personal and Collaborative cooperation in society, that is, beneficial and effective cooperation between individuals and national and social groups, can promote an increase in people's happiness index. The goal of being a human being is nothing more than this. Therefore, on the one hand, we must understand that relying on our own efforts is not enough, and there is also society The functional guarantee of the group political party, organizational cooperation. Of course, here we only talk about how specific people do it. People are a combination of material and consciousness (I hope everyone can add and improve): (1) Exercise the body and train consciousness 1). People come first The most important thing is to have a healthy body, health is the foundation, and to suffer less from the body. Health is indeed a kind of happiness. There are many books that can be used for reference on health preservation. 2). Human consciousness can be measured by "heart quotient" " to express (including: IQ, Italian quotient, emotional quotient), there are also many books to read, simple summary: A). Exercise IQ: study cultural knowledge hard, live to learn, and apply it to practical tests to provide guidance for life direction, without a scientific mind, it is still difficult to be a smart person who knows how to innovate, create, and develop scientifically. It includes the ability to feel, perceive, and represent things, and to judge, reason, analyze, and summarize concepts, etc. aspects of thinking ability. B). Exercise IQ: that is, the quality of human will, such as decisiveness, consciousness, self-control, and perseverance. Human beings have always possessed noble courage, fighting spirit, strong will, and know how to persevere. Want more People with low IQ can hardly take on big responsibilities. C). Exercise emotional intelligence: Emotional intelligence largely determines the success of a person's family and career. Whether it is relatives, friends, or strangers People, people have to experience many different partners in their life. Why are some more intimate and some more alienated? Of course, this also includes oneself. It includes emotional reflection of value, emotional memory, emotional strain, emotional sensitivity and emotional rational thinking. abilities, etc. Of course, there is another important specific point: love for mankind, love for the motherland, and love for society. Without this kind of feeling, the level of being a human being is first of all lower (you can cherish and care for your own family and friends, but how about other people’s family, friends, everything The society, country, and human beings composed of family members and friends are not worthy of your love? They are equally worthy and very important.) (2) Protecting the environment Even if you do your own meager part, you can also protect society, the country, the earth, and human beings .Environment is the foundation for people to establish themselves. If there is no skin left, there will be no hair. Appendix 2. To be specific in life: 1. To be a human being, you must have scheming. People without scheming are like puppets with elm heads. Lack of autonomy in life, subject to the moral arrangements and mercy of others. Of course, the scheming here is not the intention to harm others, nor the intention to deliberately plot against others, nor the intention to deceive others through conspiracy and tricks. A person must be upright and upright, and cannot tolerate a little bit of gloom in his heart. Such people are pure people. On the contrary, such people who specialize in playing power and cheating will eventually suffer the consequences. A little scheming is the wisdom gained from life. They have never experienced the baptism of society or the hardships of life. Such people are always simple and natural, without any scheming at all. If you have been involved in the world for a long time and have experienced a lot of worldly things, you will naturally develop scheming, so scheming is also a condensation and refinement of life. It is also necessary to be careful in dealing with others to protect yourself from harm. Scheming is not used to harm others, but to protect yourself. As the saying goes, you must not have the intention to harm others, and you must have the intention to guard against others. Human relationships are hot and cold, the world is hot and cold, and things in society are complicated. Facing such a world without leaving any room for thought, how can we properly protect our own interests? 2. You must have principles. A gentleman must have principles. A gentleman should do something and not do something. Being a good person is difficult, and being a good person is even harder, because being a good person has principles and moral standards, and requires tolerance and humility. Principles can become the starting point for continuous improvement of one's life, grasp moderation, do not seek the best, only seek better, be happy in continuous progress, and contribute to society. 3. Have a sense of responsibility. As a person, you must have a sense of responsibility. You must bear moral responsibilities on both shoulders. You must bear due responsibilities for work, friends, and family. The same is true for financial management. Take people's money and help others to eliminate disasters. Regardless of the "money" earned from part-time and full-time work, one must pay in a way that is worthy of the return and have a clear conscience. 4. Have plans and goals. As a human being, you must have plans and goals, and you must know how to correctly analyze yourself and the future. The same is true for financial management. You must not make money and consume without a plan and do whatever you want. If you are confident, you won't be "moonlighting", and you won't be left empty-handed when your head turns gray.
5. Be able to choose friends and be honest about life. You must understand that a good man has three gangs and multiple friends have many paths. Once you choose a friend, you must carefully cultivate and treat each other honestly; just like financial management: don’t put all your eggs in the same place. Baskets, funds, stocks, treasury bonds, securities, and gold are all "friends" that can stay with you for life. You must have accurate vision and enough patience. 6. Do it in moderation. As a human being, you must know how to do it in moderation. Don't be eager for quick success or hot-headedness. Take action only when it's time to do it. The same goes for financial management. Don't compare at will, stop blind consumption, live within your means, and don't spend money unnecessarily. 7. You must be able to take up and put down as a human being. You must be able to take up and put down as a human being. You must not hold back or worry about gains and losses in a low-key life. The same goes for financial management: the money should be spent. The key to financial management is how to use and allocate money so that it can be used. Money makes you live a happier life, instead of being so frugal that you are stingy, and your good intentions only hurt yourself. 8. You must be able to work hard. As a person, you must know how to use the resources around you to create a broader space for yourself. After all, one person alone is weak and weak. Of course, to achieve great things, you must learn to use various "relationships" and leverage your strength. The same goes for financial management. You need to seize every opportunity, pay attention to the minutiae of life, and constantly explore the potential power that can bring extra income or gains, so that small money can turn into big money, and small profits can turn into big profits. 9. Be open-minded and magnanimous as a person. Only those who don’t stick to trivial matters will become great, and those who hide beauty will have a broad vision. When managing finances, you must be fair and aboveboard. Don’t be petty and scheming against others. Don’t hurt everyone’s harmony for petty gains. You must know that invisible things are invisible. wealth is more important. 10. You must know how to give up as a person. You must know how to give up. Only when you give up can you gain something. Don't let yourself get into trouble. You must understand that what you let go is in the past, but what you grasp is always the present and the future. When managing money, you must also have a peaceful mind. "You will come back again", you have to be able to lose as much as you win, you must understand that in business you should have losses and profits, and you don't need to punish your confidence in working hard today by yesterday's investment failure. 11. Be good at coping with changes. In fact, for us alone, there are too many changes in life, work, and study. Changes happen all the time and everywhere, which means that change is eternal, no matter whether we are afraid of the coming of change or not. . Don't be sad for the broken glass, nor should we yearn for the "cheese" in our memory. It will only be the helplessness and wishful fascination of "The White-headed Palace Girl Talks about Xuanzong". What we need is to find a path that suits us, get rid of comfort, transcend fear, and act according to the opportunity. Life will not follow someone's wishes. Changes will come at any time, so we must face changes positively. If we can adjust ourselves to changes as quickly as possible, we can definitely do better. When we face change, it’s normal for us to be afraid and feel overwhelmed. As long as we treat fear seriously and scientifically, it can even help us avoid real dangers. We do not need to reject change. We can completely change our attitude towards change, enjoy change, embrace change, and welcome change. 12. Be good at seizing opportunities. We live in such a fast, changing, and innovative era. Everyone may face a situation that is completely different from the past, so people often feel that their goals are changing. The interaction between various strong external changes and inner conflicts makes people feel at a loss in the various changes. First, they ask - why have my goals changed? Then, they are at a loss as they are not used to the new living situation, cannot cope with it correctly and fall into confusion, unable to extricate themselves. If you are always immersed in the pain of "loss", the dilemma of "decision", and the helplessness of "disappointment" in various sudden changes, then life itself will become an obstacle. Life is a big maze for us. You will stay in one corner and settle down. Over time, as you get older, you will be "too lazy to change" or "have no courage and passion" to change and pursue. And we have to pursue goals in real life. The goal does exist, but it is also constantly changing. We should actively create harmonious interpersonal relationships and sincere partnerships with full work enthusiasm, positive and optimistic outlook on life, strong sense of competition and service, and work hard for a beautiful tomorrow! In today's reality of rapid development of social sciences, our competition is becoming more and more intense, and competition is everywhere. The goals we currently have could be removed at any time, and how can we keep the goals we have now? Only by adhering to the ideological line of emancipating the mind and seeking truth from facts, identifying the goal of advancing with the times and constantly innovating, doing our jobs well, constantly learning new knowledge, understanding new knowledge, mastering new technologies, meeting competition, and challenging the future can we continue to Be eliminated. 13. Keep a low profile. In life, we often have the idea of ??explaining something. However, once I explained it, I found that anyone's explanation was so feeble and weak, and even made it darker and darker. Therefore, being a human being does not require explanation and becomes the choice of a wise man. So in today's society, when getting along with others, I think the key is to learn to be low-key! Being low-key is a kind of character, a posture, a demeanor, a kind of cultivation, a kind of mind, a kind of wisdom, a kind of strategy, and it is the best posture of being a human being. Those who want to achieve success must be tolerant to others, and then be accepted, appreciated, and admired by people. This is the foundation for people to establish themselves in the world. Being low-key is an excellent way to strengthen your foundation in society. Being low-key can not only protect oneself, blend in with the crowd, and live in harmony with others, but can also allow people to secretly accumulate strength, sneak quietly, and achieve careers without being visible.
Learn to be a low-key person, that is, not to be noisy, not to be pretentious, not to be pretentious, not to be hypocritical, not to get involved in disputes, not to be disliked, not to be jealous, even if you think that you are full of talents and abilities than others Even if you are strong, you must also learn to hide your weakness. Complaining that one's talents are not appreciated is just superficial behavior. To be a low-key person is to look at everything in the world with a peaceful mind. If you cultivate to this state, you will be able to start well and end well. It can not only make people feel poor and happy, open-minded and generous when they are humble, but also make people gain and lose when they are prominent. Don't be crazy.
14. Adjust your roles. As a person, you naturally have to play specific roles. First, children, then teenagers, young people, parents/husbands and wives, grandparents, grandparents, friends of others, some roles at work, etc. You must first understand each role. Even if the rights and obligations of the role are superficial activities, then clarify your actual identity and strive to be a person consistent with your identity. Of course, the role identity usually changes in leaps and bounds, or mixes identities and situations. You must know how to distinguish so that you can be in different spaces. Time to make appropriate and satisfying behaviors. Some roles require you to invest a lot of sincerity or even sacrifice, while others do not. 15. Don’t be blind when you care about current affairs and politics. Be aware of the environment you are in. , such as the collective, society, the world, the universe, and what is happening, we must have a relatively clear understanding, and learn if you don’t understand. People and the surrounding environment are inseparable. Only by scientifically interacting with the environment can we first settle down and develop. .16. Caring for the environment, no matter your own small home, the collective, or society. Caring for the environment makes your living space clean and sanitary, reduces pollution, and protects health. This is also the joy of being a human being. Interaction with the environment includes specific (actual resources) ), abstract (information). Without resources, people cannot meet their normal needs; without information, it is like a blind man feeling an elephant, which is not surprising. Resources: Resources are precious, otherwise there would be no South-to-North Water Diversion, building factories to develop manufacturing, no Stop doing research... There is a crisis in non-renewable energy. We can only use it sparingly and extend its useful life. Although the country is still developing new energy sources, such as solar energy, etc. Only if nuclear fusion energy is realized can we fundamentally solve the energy problem. Crisis. Information: People who read this article understand the importance of information and search for information. Everyone is not born with knowledge. If you are not knowledgeable and have no skills, even a piece of good material will be buried. Compared to individuals Knowledge is also a kind of information. The treasure house of knowledge is already extremely rich. It depends on whether you want to learn it or not. There are also current affairs, surrounding things, logical relationships, etc. It is better to consider the balance and make decisions comprehensively. For military wars, other The truth is self-evident. How to be good at responding to changes and seizing opportunities? Information, timely analysis. 17. The small situation obeys the overall situation. As long as people have needs, there will be differences, contradictions and unfairness. People and people, people This is an inevitable phenomenon that exists between groups and groups. Friends have explained how to protect their own interests above. There are always big and small interests, and there are differences between parts and the whole. In this way, if various departments fight, or Retreating and doing nothing will inevitably affect the overall situation. The last years of the Qing Dynasty are an example. Indecent and unreasonable behavior continued, and wars continued. There was no peace in the country. Of course, there was no understanding at that time, and only a few people were willing to sacrifice and dedicate their own interests, and they were still arguing. Issues with the national political system. In today's society, if you are unable to recognize the overall and small-scale issues, avoid responsibilities, and engage in internal infighting, that is extremely wrong and will not lead to success. For example, working in a company, how to survive 18. Learn to learn Use what you have learned according to your needs to do your "own work", and you do not necessarily need to be appointed by someone from a company. The society needs every screw, and the society is also working hard to organize, coordinate and maintain to ensure the normal, orderly and good operation of the national machinery. You If you don't get on the bus, you will be left behind. After learning and becoming a talent, you can't just make enough money and just ride the wind and enjoy the moon, free and easy. Some people in society are actually very capable, but they are either only for themselves or passive. Retreating from the world, being cynical, and wasting the knowledge and skills you have learned. What a pity! The passing geese leave their voices, and the passing people leave their names. Those who have the ability, why not strive to make great achievements, and be successful even if they don't succeed. For young people, the conditions are much better now. Even if they don't care about the big use or the small use, they still have to use their talents. Ability, find a place for yourself. 19. Love peace and feel life. This is not empty talk. We in China have also experienced many wars, and each time was extremely miserable. The world is not very stable at present. There are constant conflicts in the Middle East. If we live there , why worry. Conflicts large and small are increasingly emerging in other parts of the world because of differences in national interests. Therefore, peace is very valuable. Here, you can talk freely, be at ease, study, work, and have a good meal. You can have time to educate your children, play sports, read the news, buy lottery tickets, do business, have a place to reason, have friends to help, have the Internet available, and have the opportunity to read this article... In short, people face the environment Everything in it, people's specific reactions and behaviors, and interactions, there are many, many, many ways to summarize them, that is, scientific summaries and theories (you can refer to many books), but it is true that the world is vast, profound, and great. There are unknowns. No matter how successful a person is, he will be buried in the long river of history. No matter how unsuccessful a person is, he is still an individual. No matter what, in the long river of history, everyone first has his own position and has certain contributions. Different positions reflect The values ??are different. We only strive to reduce the reaction force that prevents the forward movement of society, and instead continuously push forward the wheel of society, because future generations of mankind, including yours and mine, must not stop or stagnate. We Being born as a human being, life is priceless, and human beings have persisted in developing into today's world, which is the greatest pride. Edit this paragraph related quotes 1. Morality is the norms and standards for people's behavior. There are objective standards of right and wrong, good and evil. It is unwritten law, but it is different from law. It mainly relies on education, public opinion and people's conscious understanding.
——Mao Yisheng, bridge expert 2. To become a truly educated person, you must have three qualities: profound knowledge, thinking habits and noble sentiments. Not having much knowledge means ignorance; not being accustomed to thinking means being rude or stupid; not having noble sentiments means being vulgar. ——Chernyshevsky, Russian literary critic and philosopher 3. Virtue can be divided into two types: one is the virtue of wisdom, and the other is the virtue of behavior. The former comes from learning, and the latter comes from practice. ——Aristotle, ancient Greek philosopher and thinker 4. The happiness that comes from evil virtues can still hurt us in the midst of happiness; the pain that comes from virtues can still comfort us in the midst of pain. ——Colton, British geneticist 5. Being polite is not always a sign of wisdom, but being impolite always makes people suspicious of stupidity. ——Randall, British writer 6. Politeness is the first important thing that children and young people should be particularly careful to develop habits. ——Locke, British philosopher 7. The most important thing in life is politeness. It is more important than the highest wisdom and all knowledge. ——Herzen, Russian philosopher and writer 8. Politeness is the most beautiful flower of noble character. —— Winter, British painter 9. Punctuality is the greatest courtesy. ——Louis XIV, King of France Return 10. Politeness is a desire to regain polite respect. ——La Rochefko, French writer 11. Regardless of whether you are born high or poor, it is the business of your father's generation, and you should strive to create your own world. ——Fang Haiquan 12. Ideal, a way to express dissatisfaction. An ideal is a kind of power! 13. In the vast sea of ??life in which this man sails, ideals are the compass needle and passion is the strong wind. 14. The higher the goal, the more valuable the ambition. 15. Even if we are motionless, time is moving for us, and the passage of days is enough to take away what we hope to keep. 16. Life is like traveling. Ideal is the route of travel. If you lose the route, you have to stop moving forward. 17. Only when people have material things can they survive; only when people have ideals can they live life. Do you want to understand the difference between survival and life? 18. Only when combined with this world can our ideals bear fruit; without this world, our ideals will not bear fruit. 19. My ambitions and ideals for my career start with "truth", "goodness" as the process, and "beauty" as the ultimate goal. 20. Human happiness and joy lie in struggle, and the most valuable thing is striving for ideals. .
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