As a generation of leaders, in addition to leaving many legends, there are many aphorisms, such as Cao Cao's? You would rather teach me to be negative to the whole world than to teach the whole world to be negative to me? Zhou Yu's? Since Yu was born, why did he give birth to Liang? Zhuge Liang? Do your best to die? Ma Chao's Died of ignorance and rotted with vegetation; Is the innate consciousness for eternal life? Wait, Liu Bei of Shu Han left two famous sayings that have been circulated for thousands of years. One of them is also a famous warning, which is still educating the world today.
The other one saved Zhang Fei's life and became a classic quotation of the underworld! It is said that Liu Bei started his business in his early years. He lived in exile all the year round. Later, he helped Xuzhou shepherd Tao Qian resist Cao Cao, which changed Liu Bei's fate. Tao Qian was very grateful for Liu Bei's help, so he appointed Liu Bei as the secretariat of Yuzhou and stationed in Xiaopei. Liu Bei has a place to live. What's more, Tao Qian soon became seriously ill and entrusted the rich Xuzhou to Liu Bei.
Soon, Yuan Shu, who coveted Xuzhou for a long time, attacked Liu Bei. After Liu Bei told Zhang Fei to take care of Xuzhou base area, he took his second brother Guan Yu to see Yuan Shu. I didn't expect Zhang Fei to drink and play all day when he saw that no one was bound. As a result, Lu Bu who defected to Liu Bei found out. Then raid and occupy Xuzhou in the middle of the night. What's more, Zhang Fei was as drunk as a fiddler, so he just ran for his life and forgot Liu Bei's wife in Xuzhou.
After Cao Cao left, Tao Qian appreciated Liu Bei's talent, made him the secretariat of Yuzhou, and sent him to Xiaopei. In the second year of Xingping (AD 195), Tao Qian was seriously ill. Before he died, he said to his ministers: Without Liu Bei, Xuzhou could not be stable. ? In this way, Liu Bei sat in Xuzhou. Sitting on the throne of Xuzhou, Liu Bei soon met Yuan Shu's army. In order to cope with the invasion, Liu Bei sent his third brother Zhang Fei to the garrison.
But I didn't expect Zhang Fei to let the famous Lu Bu of the Three Kingdoms sneak into the city because of the mistake of drinking. In this way, he left Liu Bei's wife and children and left the city alone. Afterwards, Zhang Fei was ashamed, went to Liu Bei to apologize in person, and even wanted to apologize for his death. In the face of Zhang Fei who came to confess, Liu Bei said nothing, but Guan Yu was very angry and severely scolded Zhang Fei.
Seeing Zhang Fei's chagrin and regret, Liu Bei patted him on the shoulder to comfort him. Then he said a classic sentence. Liu Bei said to Zhang Fei: Brothers are like brothers, and wives are like clothes. Clothes are worn and can be sewn; Can you continue with your broken hands and feet? ? You must have been very angry just now, but what we need to consider is that they were in the Han Dynasty, when the status of women was very low and it was normal for them to have three wives and four concubines.
Liu Bei had just lost Xuzhou. At present, only these brothers can hold up their own world. If Zhang Fei dies at this time, his heart will disappear. After Liu Bei ascended the throne, in retaliation for Guan Yu and Zhang Fei, he sent troops to fight, and was defeated by Lu Xun, the general of Wu State, in the battle of Yiling. Heavy losses, retreat to Baidicheng. Liu Bei soon knew his fate.
The purpose of Liu Bei's saying this sentence is to encourage Liu Chan to pursue morality and practice and make a difference in the future. It means don't do it just because it's a trivial matter, and don't care about anything just because it's a trivial matter. After all, Liu Bei has changed from a man who was framed by others to the king of a country. His teaching to his son is also his decades of life experience. Nowadays, this sentence has been written into textbooks and has become the motto of many people. The teacher often teaches us this sentence.