Mo Yan once said in a speech: The most basic substances to sustain human life are air, sunlight, food and water, and the rest are luxuries. When a person lives, he actually needs very little. If he wants too much, he will be counterattacked by desire. If he thinks too much, he will be exhausted physically and mentally. Growth is addition, but maturity is subtraction. The most difficult thing to wake up to in life is to say goodbye to complexity and return to simplicity.
Streamline your circle and focus on self-growth. I have heard a saying: When people reach a certain age, they recycle. At the end of the day, with a few close friends and a cup of tea, you can live your life the way you want. People who are empty inside always like to join in the fun here, but mature people know how to streamline social interactions and improve themselves in silence. The rest of your life is not long, don't waste your time on irrelevant people, don't waste your energy on meaningless things. Learn to narrow your social circle and focus more on yourself, and you will be able to live the most comfortable life.
Only by being simple in material desires can you be spiritually rich. "The Tao Te Ching" says: "The five colors blind, the five tones deafen, and the five tastes refresh the mouth." If we pursue material stimulation and enjoyment too much, it will inevitably lead to spiritual loss and sinking. True happiness does not lie in the amount of income, but in spiritual richness. In the years to come, I hope you will be able to stop your actions and control your desires. In this noisy world, live with simplicity and restraint, and enjoy relief and calmness.
Only by living a simple life can we live a colorful and colorful life. Sanmao once said: "Maturity is not to move towards complexity, but to reach innocence." The true maturity of a person is just to see the complex nature of life clearly and still have a full love for life. Looking at life with a complex mentality, there will be troubles and dissatisfaction everywhere; living with a minimalist mentality, even ordinary years will be colorful. The simplest life often contains the purest happiness.
In this complicated society, we should discard the dross and select the essence, find our true self with a simple mentality, and live the life we ??want.