As a gentleman, we should have a strong will, never-ending spirit of struggle, strive to strengthen our self-cultivation, and complete and develop our studies or careers. Only in this way can we reflect God's will and live up to the responsibilities and talents entrusted to a gentleman by the universe.
2. Don't do it with little evil, and don't do it with little good. -History of the Three Kingdoms Liu Beiyu
Don't do anything just because it is a trivial matter; On the contrary, for some tiny. Don't stop doing a good thing that benefits others just because it doesn't mean much.
It's better to see the bad than the good, just like exploring the soup. -The Analects of Confucius
When you meet an excellent person, you are afraid that it is too late to learn from him. Seeing a good thing, I'm afraid it's too late to do it. Seeing evil people doing bad things is like touching hot water. You should leave at once and stay away.
If you bow to others and blame them, it is far from complaining. -The Analects of Confucius
Those who work hard and take the main responsibility for mistakes are "doing their best", forgiving others more and "lightly blaming others". In this case, they won't resent each other.
5. A gentleman's adult beauty is not an adult's evil. The villain is the opposite. -The Analects of Confucius
A gentleman always starts from the good or beneficial wishes of others, and wholeheartedly urges others to realize their good wishes and just demands, instead of looking at the world coldly. Or fear that the world will not be chaotic and will not add fuel to the fire when others fail, make mistakes or suffer. The villain is always "the evil of adults, not the beauty of adults."
6. See Si Qi Yan, see Si Qi introspection. -The Analects of Confucius
When you see someone who has an advantage over yourself in some respect, you should consult modestly, study hard, try to catch up with him and reach the same level as him. When you see that a person has some shortcomings or deficiencies, you should reflect calmly and see if you also have his shortcomings or deficiencies.
7. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. -The Analects of Confucius
Don't impose what you don't want (pain, disaster, disaster, etc.) on others. ).
8. Do your duty and don't give in to your teacher. -The Analects of Confucius
Don't hesitate to do good things, even if the teacher is around, you should rush to do it. Later, it developed into the idiom "due diligence".
9. A gentleman talks but doesn't do it. -The Analects of Confucius
A gentleman can't talk big, but he is agile and dexterous.
10. Two people are concentric, and their profits are broken; The difference between one thought and another. -Zhouyi
Qi Xin's concerted efforts are powerful enough to break hard metals; People with one heart and one mind express their unanimous opinion, which is convincing and easy to accept.
1 1. The gentleman hides his weapon in his body and waits for the opportunity. -Zhouyi
Even if a gentleman has outstanding skills, he will not show off everywhere. But to show your talents or skills when necessary.
12. The loss is full and the income is not big. -Shangshu
Complacency will bring losses and disasters; Only by being modest and always aware of your own shortcomings can you benefit from it.
13. People don't know or care, aren't they gentlemen? -The Analects of Confucius
If I have achieved something that others don't understand, I will never feel angry or wronged. Isn't this also a gentleman's demeanor?