As a boy, I think there may be several reasons:

First, if you can’t get love, settle for the next best thing. Some boys have been hurt by love, so they choose to make do. They get married just to find a substitute.

Second, a boy doesn’t understand love, and he doesn’t know what kind of girl he likes. He just gets married for the sake of getting married when he’s old enough.

Thirdly, I think if you don’t love, please don’t enter the marriage hall easily, because a marriage without love is irresponsible to both people and disrespects each other.

There must be a plan.

Have a plan

Because not all marriages are combined for love. Marriage is very real, and love may account for a small part. We may have seen too much love until death described in ancient and modern Chinese and foreign literary works or TV movies or media, and think that is what love and marriage are like.

Of course, there are also many marriages that are united by love. If you encounter such a marriage, you are very lucky.

But if you only consider love and do not consider other practical factors when entering a marriage, I am afraid that this marriage will not last long. There is a famous saying that marriage is the grave of love. No matter how much people fall in love, they have to face many practical problems when they enter marriage, such as food, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, raising children, dealing with the relationship between parents and relatives of the original family...

So marriage only relies on love. is not enough. People often find the person they are suitable for marrying in marriage.

This is especially true for men, without any other meaning, because men are more realistic than women. And for men, marriage is only one part of a man's life, and they have another part which is their career. They need someone who can stabilize his rear. There is a saying in ancient times that it is necessary to start a family and settle down the family first, then the man can concentrate on working hard, establishing a career, and making money to support the family.

For a woman, marriage and family are everything to her. It is possible that for a woman her career development is not that good, but if her family is stable, the woman will also feel stable and happy.

In fact, this is not to say that men are not good, but that men need to consider more things like working hard outside to support their families. He needs his family to be stable, and he also hopes that his home can be a place where he can truly relax. It is a place where he can rest when he comes back tired from working hard outside. This is actually what men need in marriage.

It doesn’t matter what this man is like. What matters is what kind of man do you want to find? If you want to find a man who loves you very much before you can enter into marriage, then of course it is possible. But you must remember that after getting married, he will not care and care for you as much as he did before getting married. It's not that he doesn't love you anymore. Because for a man, getting married is a project. After completing this project, he will move on to the next project, which is to earn money to support his family and establish a career. If you expect him to keep loving you as much as he did before getting married, you will have a big psychological gap. So even if you entered the marriage because of love before marriage, after marriage, you need to adjust and face the reality of life together with him. At this time, he will think that you understand him very well, and you may gradually rise to be soul mates.

The above is my personal opinion. I respect everyone who has different opinions from mine and every one of your opinions.

Haha, why does this question feel a little sour? Could it be that the questioner said the grapes were sour without eating them?

First of all, how do you know that a man doesn’t love that woman. You might say, I know that man. This is absolutely wrong. It is impossible for everyone to truly understand someone. Even biological parents cannot claim to know their children absolutely. An adult's values ??and outlook on life will change due to various factors. It is possible that you don't even know or understand that he has changed. Therefore, you cannot clearly determine whether that man loves that woman, because she is already married anyway.

Secondly, even if you are sure that the man does not love that woman, it is not impossible to marry her. After all, feelings are too mysterious. Maybe a woman loves a man, and a man is moved by a woman's infatuation; maybe a man is indifferent one second, but suddenly wakes up the next second; maybe a man suddenly discovers the loveliness of a woman?

Finally, there is the consideration of fame and fortune. Marriage is not like love. He has to consider many things. Many times, the temptation of fame and fortune will make a man marry a woman he does not love. Of course, this is a very unfair, irresponsible and immoral behavior.

I don’t know if my point of view is the same as yours? Friends who see it can add a follow and we might as well communicate.

Because he needs to marry a woman, it doesn’t matter who this woman is, whether he loves her or not. Some people say that love is a luxury product, and I think that’s what they mean. Many people marry for the sake of affordability.

Because marriage does not prevent him from loving other women.

Why would a man marry this woman if he clearly doesn’t love her?

A man clearly didn't love this woman, but he ended up marrying her. There must be a reason for this.

In feudal society, marriages were usually ordered by matchmakers and parents. Many men and women were sent to the bridal chamber before they had even met. At that time, it was impossible to say whether they were in love or not, because it was an arranged marriage. .

There are also the local tyrants and bullies of the feudal society, who usually behave randomly and plunder. Once they see a beautiful and attractive woman, they will seize her and force her to get married. This does not matter whether the man loves her or not. This is Preempt marriage.

During the Republic of China, in order to consolidate their economic status, some business families would propose marriage to each other, regardless of whether the son or daughter was willing to force the son to get married. The son clearly did not love the woman and even hated the woman. , but under the pressure of parents, he becomes helpless and weak and will agree to marry a wife. This is forced marriage.

There is also the old society. In some poor mountainous areas, it is difficult to find a wife because of the hardship of life. In order to carry on the family line, they will spend some money to buy a wife and get married. Of course, this does not mean whether they love it or not. Having a wife Just give birth to a son! This is a make-do marriage.

In today's society, men and women are equal, and it should be said that marriage is completely independent. But there are also some people who have different ideas than ordinary people. If some men are obsessed with money and interests, they will rely on their handsome appearance to consciously approach certain female bosses and rich women, and use all their tricks to approach and deceive them, with the purpose of Vanity Fair is about getting acquainted and reaping the benefits, regardless of whether the woman is beautiful or not, or whether he loves her or not, as long as she is wired enough, she will be his target and he will use her appearance to marry a rich woman. This is a money marriage!

In summary, no matter what kind of marriages are mentioned above, they are all abnormal marriages. They will not live long and will not be happy. What we need is a happy marriage where two people are happy and loving until they grow old together!

This may be affected by many factors, including individuals, parents, etc.!

Not loving does not mean not marrying. Once you get married, you can slowly develop a relationship. As you get older, there will be feelings. At the time, it was out of necessity, and later it was out of love. Nowadays, love is endless, and divorce is common after marriage.