Only when you can keep your composure can you achieve success. The amount of gain often does not depend on the amount of effort, but is caused by external forces or accidental factors. Don't expect to get something for whatever you give. Keep focusing on something. If you miss something, you will gain nothing. You have to look further ahead in everything. Rushing for success may not necessarily lead to instant success. Sometimes success comes slowly, so you need to listen and wait patiently. Don't dream about pie in the sky, as long as you walk on the road, there will be scenery at the end.
2. The most valuable thing about human friendship is knowing each other. One confidant is enough for a lifetime. The complexity of social connections is beyond your imagination. A good friend should be one soul and two bodies, not much in mind, and know how to find your soulmate instead of flooding your friendship. Put your best friend in a boat and your life will be happy. Don't expose your inner fragility easily, learn to bear everything you should bear; don't easily talk about the embarrassment of life, and learn to face the messy and disorderly reality.
3. People should be as persistent as water. As soon as the river flows into the sea, it will turn a thousand times, with an unswerving determination. By sticking to your dreams and aiming for the future, you can build a noble life and open up a realm of destiny. We must be impartial, stick to the green hills, and have no distractions. It's easy for one person to sail with the current, but it's difficult for ten people to row against the current. If you make a mistake, you will hit a wall, and if you go diagonally, you will be stranded. Just like farmers and workers, they work according to the time, do not miss the farming season, and do not miss the seasons. If you ignore the time sequence and work against the time, it will be difficult to achieve anything. You can reach it even if you are moving forward quietly.
4. In the best age of youth, you can love someone, but don’t wait for someone. You can love your partner without reservation. Even if you love the wrong person and fall down, the worst thing you can do is dust yourself off and move on. But never stay where you are, waiting for someone indefinitely. What is waiting is often not love, but entanglement and waste. What youth possesses is passion. When passion is exhausted, people become old.
5. There are three paths in life: one is walked with the heart, called dreams; one is walked with the brain, called wisdom; one is walked with the feet, called reality. If the heart moves too slowly, reality will be pale; if the brain moves too slowly, it will not keep pace with the times; if the feet move too slowly, dreams will not fly high. The splendor of life is always when the heart moves beautifully, the brain updates ideas in a timely manner, and the steps are steady and unified, only then can we realize our dreams!
6. Four major questions that young people must think about 1. What is failure? Giving up is the greatest failure. 2. What does it mean to be strong? Only after experiencing many hardships, grievances, and unhappiness can you know what it means to be strong. 3. What are your responsibilities? It is your duty to be more diligent, work harder, and have more ideals than others. 4. A fool speaks with his mouth, a wise man speaks with his head, and a wise man speaks with his heart!
7. Small success depends on wisdom, and great success depends on virtue. People who make great achievements are often people of high moral character. Know the depth and the shallowness, understand the honor and inferiority, understand the high and low, know the important and the important, follow the rules and observe the moral principles, do not use skills but use virtue, do not use strategy but use Dao, do not use power but use propriety. When you are alone, be detached from nature and take care of your own heart; when dealing with others, compare your heart to your heart and take care of your mouth. If you behave in a round and round way, do things with tact, be tranquil and far-reaching, and reflect on yourself, everything will go smoothly and you will feel at ease everywhere.