The original gentleman's trip, quiet to cultivate one's morality, frugal to cultivate one's morality, is neither modest nor reasonable, and even more quiet. If you study quietly, you must study. If you don't study, you won't learn widely. If you have no ambition, you can't succeed. If you are slow, you can't be energetic, and if you are dangerous, you can't be radical. Time goes by, meaning goes by, and then becomes withered, not meeting the world, and staying in a poor house sadly. What will happen?
What you want is neither right nor wrong, nor peace.