? With the tearing pain of the body, there are still tragic memories pouring into my mind. The painful memories brought to him by relatives and family, the painful trauma brought to him by relatives and family, the mother who ran away from home, and the indifferent father. When he was a teenager, his father drank at home, smashed bottles and had sex with one aunt after another, while he could only hide in his room. It is said that a person's personality is closely related to his family background. Adler said: "Happy people use childhood to heal their lives. Unfortunate people spend their whole lives healing their childhood. " The influence of family background may be hard to change all his life, so Harold has always been a quiet and even a little wooden person. "He found that the early silence actually followed him into their home, hiding under carpets, behind curtains and in wallpaper. History is history, and you can't escape from your origins. Even if you wear a tie, it will not change. " Harold never stopped remembering. When a person walks on the road, he can gradually face the grievances of the past correctly, not avoid, relive those pains and accept those sufferings, and then he can be reborn. After he fainted, Harold met a doctor who was also walking, so he opened his body. He told her about his childhood, and his David, his wife and doctors brought him warmth and new hope and confidence.