1. Living among social crowds inevitably requires people to accommodate and tolerate each other; therefore, the larger the gathering, the easier it becomes boring. Only when a person is alone can he be completely Be himself, and whoever does not like to be alone does not love freedom. ——Schopenhauer

2. The reason why we are unhappy is that we don’t know how to stay quietly in the room and get along with ourselves calmly. ——Yishu

3. Loneliness is the beginning of a complete life. Without the experience of being alone with yourself, you will not know how to get along with others. ——Jiang Xun's "Six Lectures on Loneliness"

4. A person is pure and true only when he gets along with himself. If a person gets along with other people, he will lose most of himself no matter what. , he must suppress his true feelings to cater to others, so social interaction is the beginning of hypocrisy. ——Zhang Fangyu

5. It took me a long time to understand that the so-called growth means being more and more able to accept myself as I am, and to be better able to deal with my lonely self, my lost self, and my frustrated self. Get along with it, and accept it, and then face it. ——Lu Sihao

6. You have to try to love more people, you have to try to wait a few more years, and you have to learn to deal with your loneliness, your nagging, your stubbornness, and your Cowardice and imperfection should get along well. Only when a person gets along well with himself can he better embrace the world. ——Funan

7. It’s good to have a close friend. It doesn’t have to be too many. If you really don’t have one, you still have yourself. Treat yourself well and get along with yourself. You are also a friend. ——Sanmao

8. A person must first learn how to love himself, so that a person can get along with himself peacefully without lingering outside.

——Nietzsche