On "Suffering"
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Suffering, here refers to people who have been wronged by mistakes. A person's life is decades long and decades short. On this road of life, no one can reach his destination smoothly, and he will always experience more or less hardships and twists and turns before he can reach the other side of life smoothly. Here, on the topic of suffering, the author talks about some ideas for your reference.
The road of life is full of rugged thorns. If you want to reach the other side of the ideal, you must cross the thorns. The author believes that on the road of life, many people have experienced setbacks and hardships before they can reach the other side smoothly; Few people have reached the other shore without experiencing setbacks and hardships.
Life encounters hardships, and there are all kinds of hardships: some people uphold justice and are retaliated; Someone helps others to be left out; Some people are implicated in other things; Some people stick to the principle and stand aside; Some people were not promoted because they didn't give gifts ... Later, some people's problems were solved, and some people's problems were not solved. As the years passed, they all retired one after another. Whether it is solved or not, it is a mental burden to varying degrees. In this regard, these people have long been burdened with bitter thoughts and live in the shadow. How to get rid of the shadow of suffering, feel comfortable and go to the other side? This is a test of one's life wisdom. Of course, everyone has his own way to solve this problem. However, if you want to spend the rest of your life on the road and live a high life, in a word: go into battle lightly.
The author believes that suffering is not a shameful thing. On the other hand, some people don't have such opportunities and conditions to suffer. Those who have experienced hardships are those who can stand the test of life. They are honest, upright, just and responsible people. In the work, I dare to stick to the truth, maintain righteousness, and work hard. In the early 1990s, a cadre wrote several anti-corruption articles and suffered for nine years, as many as those in power in the 1970s. Now, although I have resumed my work, I still bear a heavy burden. Now, this comrade has resolutely put down his baggage, traveled lightly and lived a meaningful life on the road. From this comrade, we have learned several points:
First, you can go far with a broad mind.
A person's endurance is limited. If a person always keeps his sufferings in mind, it will increase the ideological pressure. Once the pressure exceeds the load, a person's personality will become impatient and easily move from one extreme to the other, which will bring unstable factors to life. We should see the complicated society, unpredictable people, endless ups and downs, endless ups and downs. In this regard, only by putting aside the hardships of the past, being broad-minded and open-minded, can we go far and live happily. Remember, at this moment, only a good mood, the only thing is your best pursuit.
Second, put down the burden and go into battle lightly.
Anyone who has been wronged by mistakes must have grievances in his heart. And this resentment firmly occupied the mind in the short term. It is quite understandable to complain or get angry when encountering difficulties. You should see that a moving person is a person without conscience, quality and moral corruption. The ancients said that good is rewarded with good, and evil with evil. Such people are bound to get what they deserve. This is the unchangeable law of life. At the same time, you should also consider that you have no extra time. A man can't go to see God with a burden on his back! The author believes that the existence of these two ideas is not good for people's health, but only harmful to health. In this regard, a person who has experienced hardships can only feel happiness if he puts down his ideological burden, lets bygones be bygones and puts himself into life with a relaxed attitude.
Third, suffering is a treasure, and live the rest of your life.
There is a famous saying in the novel Dawn: "The mountain can only show its firmness after wind and rain; Only when the water flows long can it be clear. " In this regard, the author believes that although suffering is a loss in life, it is also a rare wealth in life. Experienced a hardship, tempered my life, let me improve my understanding of society, know how to face life and think about the overall situation. After suffering, everyone has become an elf and considered the problem comprehensively. It is worth mentioning that you know the ability to distinguish right from wrong, know how to be a man and improve your ability to deal with problems. Conditional people, every cloud has a silver lining, turn their hardships into creative materials, write a long documentary novel, record those ugly faces that play tricks on people, record them as historical materials, and provide them to future generations, so that people can understand that history, study that history, and never forget that history. What a meaningful job this is! But after 20 years, people will be more interested in this history and have more taste value.
Pain is bad for a person. However, from another perspective, bad things have become good things. It has honed people's will and embodied people's pure and sincere life value.
In a word, put down your baggage, go into battle lightly and live the rest of your life.