Chapter 1: Excerpt and appreciation of "Fu Lei's Family Letter"

1. Only if a person dares to face reality and mistakes, use rational analysis, and thoroughly comprehend, can he not be eroded by memories. I believe you will gradually learn this and become stronger and stronger.

2. Bitter tears are the wine that cultivates your soul.

3. Try to ignore the gains and losses as much as possible, just try to do your best, and feel no regrets

4. People who have not experienced sharp pain will not have deep and broad sympathy.

5. It is such a sacred and glorious mission to carry forward the immortal works of the immortal master and spread them to every corner of the earth!

6. You should look at these things as the ashes of your soul. Of course you will be touched by all kinds of things when you look at them, but don’t hurt yourself unforgettablely, but with the same condolences as if you were looking at an ancient battlefield. .

7. The most torturous thing is not mental work or physical work, but worry!

8. Life is limited, and energy is also limited. You must take a long-term view and run a marathon.

9. The size and level of our achievements are beyond our control. Half of them depend on manpower and half of them depend on talent. But as long as we are strong, we are not afraid of failure, setbacks, or blows - no matter in personnel matters. , life, technology, study - blow; from now on you can fight alone.

10. It is not good for a person to be satisfied too easily, nor is it healthy to be too dissatisfied and cause many unrealistic fantasies

Appreciation:

1. Be able to It is such a sacred and glorious mission to carry forward the immortal works of the immortal master and spread them to every corner of the earth!

"Carrying forward the immortal works of the immortal master" cleverly implies that the artistic career his son is engaged in is an immortal career; "What a sacred and glorious mission" expresses the father's love for his son without reservation. Support and understanding in the career he is engaged in, happiness and praise for his son's success.

2. Only when a person dares to face reality and mistakes, use rational analysis, and thoroughly comprehend, can he not be eroded by memories. I believe you will gradually learn this and become stronger and stronger. Reality cannot be escaped, mistakes must be faced squarely, and we must calmly analyze the causes and consequences of things, learn lessons, and draw lessons from them, so that we can be invincible, and we will not be afraid of setbacks, blows, or even loneliness, and people will become strong.

Chapter 2: Excerpts from Fu Lei’s family letters

“My child, I teased you, I will never be sorry for you, I will never be able to atone for this sin! These thoughts have not left me for a whole day. In my mind, I just don’t dare to tell your mother that if you do something wrong in life, your conscience will never be at peace! Really, Balzac said it well: some sins can only be redeemed, not washed away! , his father Fu Lei blamed himself for being strict and "cruel" in disciplining his son. It turned out to be my own mistake. Hey, actually this is the deep love for one’s son! "If you don't work hard when you are young, you will be sad!" When his son was young, Teacher Fu Lei was strict and meticulous in discipline and "cruelly abused" his son Fu Cong. It sounds like a joke, where is the father who abuses his own flesh and blood? As the saying goes, a filial son will come out of a stick, but what Teacher Fu Lei said is that a wise man will come out of a strict father. Normally, when our parents engage in "violence" against us, we should have an understanding attitude, and we should be considerate of our parents' anxiousness. Because they are doing this to be kind to us, but they also hate that iron cannot be transformed into steel. After all, parents all have the hope that their sons will succeed and their daughters will succeed!

"As far as the performance is concerned, I think it is generally very good. It is coherent and full of energy. The details are very delicate and there are indeed many changes. We were all very happy and moved after listening to it. Good boy, I really deserve it I can only give you a few words of praise. Looking back on the time when I just returned to Shanghai from Kunming in April 1951, I hope you will be able to climb to the top in the future by paying attention to your overall self-cultivation."

This is what Teacher Fu Lei said to his son Fu Cong after listening to his recording. This includes Teacher Fu's detailed analysis and objective appreciation of his son's recording. And later he mentioned his hope for his son. This is the way parents educate their children. It should not only reflect your affirmation of your children, but also give them the determination to work hard and the confidence to succeed. On the other hand, they also put forward their own hopes and pointed out the way forward and the direction of development for the children. As children, we should also learn from our parents' experiences on the path guided by our parents, and learn from each other's strengths to develop our own new path.

"In public groups, it is inevitable to rush to work and hinder normal learning. I have expected this. All it takes is for you to use your firm will and stance to tactfully and powerfully respond to the leadership. Go for it. Otherwise, how much can you do to prepare for going abroad? - Especially in terms of music, I have been worried. From now on, everything depends on your personal perseverance, belief and will - the will to practice."

After countless warnings and instructions, parents can’t let go. As a parent, my son has mixed feelings about how to deal with the ever-changing society. Use your own experience to remind your son to take the road of resentment less and take more shortcuts.

This is what parents all over the world think. Children are the continuation of parents’ lives and the hope that holds up the sun in their hearts. Parents take detours and do not want their children to repeat the same mistakes. They hope that they can "go to a higher level" than themselves. As adolescents, we should let go of our rebellious mentality, listen to our parents' lessons, and understand their painstaking efforts. In fact, this is also for our own good and for our future life to be easier and happier.

"I hope you will put all your energy into studying knowledge, use more reason and less emotion. Of course, it depends on your strong confidence and restrain all worries. It is not easy, but it must be overcome. No. I have never had any opinions on your emotional issues. I think you are making progress in all aspects. You are a smart person and you will realize it. Since I am your mother and we are closely related, I have to nag you a few times. Sentence, to give advice. "It is the mother's attentiveness. The father has good intentions for his son's future, while the mother focuses on the most subtle aspects - his son's emotional issues, giving him a clear direction. Tell him how to deal with his emotional and career issues, and let his son understand the key points. We should also accept the lessons from Fu Lei’s wife. We should understand our own priorities, our tasks, our path and direction, know what we should and shouldn’t do, and grasp the direction. This helps us succeed.

Chapter 3: Excerpts from Fu Lei’s family letters

1. Fu Lei’s deep love for his son? “Dear child, I wanted to write a letter the day after you left, because I was afraid you would find it annoying. , that’s it. But I don’t think about you every day. I wake up at six or seven o’clock in the morning, and I can’t sleep. It seems that Christoph’s mother is alone at home, thinking about the scenes of her child’s childhood. The image is the same. Your mother and I always think about your little stories from when you were 23 to 67 years old." The previous sentence is taken from "Fu Lei Family Letters", which was written by Mr. Fu Lei to his son Fu Cong. From the above sentence, we can see Fu Lei's deep love for his son between the lines. For my son who has grown up, I hope that he will thrive and develop outwards, but I cannot bear to let my child stay away from me. In fact, parents are like this. From pregnancy in eight months to delivery in October, parents work hard to nurture their children step by step, in the hope that their children will be useful and will not live on the streets in the future. However, when children become talented, it is also the time to leave the roof and fly alone. As a parent, I am both happy and sad for them. After all, it is a matter of flesh and blood. As we should appreciate and understand the painstaking efforts of our parents, let them see what they want to see - our happy life, which can be regarded as repaying our parents for their painstaking upbringing. 2. Fu Lei's encouragement to his son? "To play In general, I think it's very good, it's all in one go, it's full of energy, the details are very delicate, and the tonecolor changes a lot. We were very happy and touched after hearing this. Good boy, I really should give you a few words of praise. When you just returned to Shanghai from Kunming in April 1951, you really made it from the bottom to the mountainside. I hope you will pay attention to your overall self-cultivation from now on, and you will definitely be able to climb to the top of the mountain in the future." This is Teacher Fu Lei, who has heard from his son. Fu Cong’s comments to his son after recording. This includes Teacher Fu's detailed analysis and objective appreciation of his son's recording. And later he mentioned his hope for his son. This is the way parents educate their children. It should not only reflect your affirmation of your children, but also give them the determination to work hard and the confidence to succeed. On the other hand, they also put forward their own hopes and pointed out the way forward and the direction of development for the children. As children, we should also learn from our parents’ experiences on the path guided by our parents, learn from each other’s strengths and develop our own new path. 3. Fu Lei’s instructions: “In public groups, it is inevitable to rush to work and hinder normal learning. Yes, I had expected this. All you have to do is to use your firm will and stance to fight for it. Otherwise, how much can you do to prepare for going abroad? Don't worry. From now on, everything will depend on your personal perseverance, belief and will - the will to practice. "After thousands of instructions, parents can't rest. As a parent, my son has mixed feelings about how to deal with the ever-changing society. Use your own experience to remind your son to take the road of resentment less and take more shortcuts. This is what parents all over the world think. Children are the continuation of parents’ lives and the hope that holds up the sun in their hearts. Parents take detours and do not want their children to repeat the same mistakes. They hope that they can "go to a higher level" than themselves. As adolescents, we should let go of our rebellious mentality, listen to our parents' lessons, and understand their painstaking efforts. In fact, this is also for our own good, and for our future life to be easier and happier? 4. Mother's concern? "I hope you will focus all your energy on studying knowledge, use more reason and less emotion. Of course, it depends on you. It is not easy to have strong confidence and overcome all worries, but it must be overcome. I have never had any opinions on your emotional problems. I think you are making progress in all aspects. You are a smart person and will wake up on your own. Since I am your mother, we are closely related flesh and blood, so I have to nag a few words and give you some advice." To say it is the mother's carefulness, the father has good intentions for his son's future, and the mother is in the smallest details - - Handle the son's emotional problems and give him a clear direction. Tell him how to deal with his emotional and career issues, and let his son understand the key points.

We should also accept the lessons from Fu Lei’s wife. We should understand our own priorities, our tasks, our path and direction, know what we should and shouldn’t do, and grasp the direction. This will help us succeed? 5. Fu Lei loves his son very much. "My child, I teased you, I will never be sorry for you, and I can never make up for this sin! These thoughts have not left my mind for the whole day, but they just don't Dare you tell your mother that if you do something wrong in life, your conscience will never be at peace! Really, Balzac said it well: some sins can only be redeemed but cannot be washed away!" When leaving, his father Fu Lei blamed himself. The discipline of his son is strict and the methods are "cruel". It turned out to be my own mistake. Hey, actually this is the deep love for one’s son! "If you don't work hard when you are young, you will be sad!" When his son was young, Teacher Fu Lei was strict and meticulous in discipline and "cruelly abused" his son Fu Cong. It sounds like a joke, where is the father who abuses his own flesh and blood? As the saying goes, a filial son will come out of a stick, but what Teacher Fu Lei said is that a wise man will come out of a strict father. Normally, when our parents engage in "violence" against us, we should have an understanding attitude, and we should be considerate of our parents' anxiousness. Because they are doing this to be kind to us, but they also hate that iron cannot be transformed into steel.

After all, parents all have the hope that their sons will succeed and their daughters will succeed! ;