1. The highest state of love is not to remember me, but to forget me! So as not to suffer as much as I miss you!

2. Tranquility is often determined not only by sound, but also by the feeling of one's own heart. The tranquility obtained among the crowd is sometimes better than being alone, because that kind of tranquility has more solemn and sacred power.

3. Which love is not painful? How to love without pain? How can you feel distressed if you don’t love me?

4. We are a place to employ people, not a place to train them! They should have received professional training in school long ago. After entering, they will face tens of millions of viewers. Should we give them a preview before broadcasting the news every day?

5. In normal times, you should "make a fuss out of a molehill" to gain vigilance. In times of war, it is necessary to "make a fuss out of a molehill" to calm people's hearts.

6. Only those who know how to measure the importance, urgency, and sequence of things, and know how to advance, retreat, and make choices can succeed and will not fall into the trap of others.

7. Even if you have not climbed the ladder to the moon, you cannot lose the arms that embrace the moon.

8. People can be sentimental, but they cannot be indiscriminate; they can make more friends, but they cannot be indiscriminate. And the minimum condition for making friends is: you must be sincere and faithful!

9. Give to others, but do not make the other person feel like a recipient. Help others, but give them the highest respect. This is the art of helping others and the sentiment of charity.

10. Use care instead of questioning, use suggestions instead of blame, and use hints instead of outspokenness.

11. More importantly, when you cooperate with anyone, whether he is a relative, friend or work partner, you must be sympathetic and reasonable. Don't magnify his heart. Don't pollute a simple relationship.

12. Beggars deceive people and take advantage of other people’s sympathy. If a person who is already more pitiful than himself is in trouble and refuses to help, he will really feel a little uneasy about his conscience.

13. Every chance is inevitable, and every effect has a cause. Therefore, we should not just wait for random opportunities, but should actively create inevitable opportunities.

14. We live a rich life, not because we have too much enjoyment, but because we have a lot of suffering. These sufferings have passed through our struggles, and they have been sublimated from memory and become a kind of calmness.

15. No matter how much money you make from working, if it has nothing to do with what you are studying and it cannot become a career, it is not worth continuing in the long term.

16. In the most difficult time, there is no time to shed tears; in the most critical situation, there is no time to hesitate.

17. Everyone wants face. No matter how practical your gift is, if you don’t give it enough face, you may get the opposite effect.

18. Talking superficially and speaking deeply is taboo for both gentlemen and villains.

19. Too many times, we regard the initial impression as a lifelong judgment. We fail to give the other party another chance and let ourselves lose the opportunity. One hundred taboos in life - avoid subjective generalizations, judge heroes based on temporary success or failure, and judge eternity based on early impressions!

20. As their physical fitness declines, the elderly will feel increasingly useless and insecure. Therefore, when the old man does not arrive during the meal, even if he has already come, you should shout deliberately to make him feel valued. In addition, we should often mention the good things of the old man in public. For example, if it weren't for my mother's help, I wouldn't be able to focus on my career and achieve what I am today; if it weren't for my grandparents to take me, I wouldn't be able to grow up so well. The old man will be very warm after listening to it.

21. A fragile mind dare not gaze at beauty, because he knows that all beauty will fade and all life will pass away.

22. When you make the right choice, never "show" it to those who made the wrong choice. Department, school, career, and husband are all the same. Talk more about your sufferings and show less about your pride.

23. In this world, it is not that people who are loved more will know how to repay love, but people who love more will be able to love more deeply! It wasn't until one day when he became a parent himself that he realized how great the love from his predecessors was!

24. A strong mind dares to face sorrow, because he knows that all sorrow will fade away; all sorrow, one day, can be chewed, remembered, transformed, and become great love. .

25. If you lie to him to show that you care about him, you will be angry if you confess.

26. You can never climb mountains in your life, but there must be a mountain in your heart. It enables you to always climb higher, it enables you to always have a direction to strive for, and it enables you to see your own hope at any moment when you raise your head.

27. You won’t notice a light that is always on, but you will notice it if it goes on and off. What is human nature?

28. Although reputation is called the second life of a person, the second life is not the first life after all!

29. There is no eternal enemy. The most important thing is whether you have the heart and wisdom to extend a hand of friendship after winning.

30. When playing against a master, you often make one mistake and lose the whole game; but when a master plays chess, the endgame you see may turn out to be a turnaround and bring you back to life.

31. Maternal love is the most magical antidote and can cure many wounds.

32. When you win, it is not only the time when you can best display your ambitions, but also the time when you can best turn enemies into friends.

33. When we love and miss someone, we always hope that the other person misses us too. Little did he know that the highest state of love is: forget me! So as not to suffer as much as I miss you!

34. Choose an individual before marriage, and a couple after marriage! The same goes for loved ones.

35. Be willing! willing! If you want to get something, you must first give it up; if you don’t give it up, how can you have room to gain it? ambition! ambition! If you want to hug, you must first bear; if you don’t bear the weight, how can you be qualified to embrace victory and success?

36. Remember! One more ball to play, one more bite to eat, one more gamble, and one more minute of sleep may sound like trivial matters, but the "self-compromising" bacteria inside them may erode your bone marrow and make you unable to stand straight for the rest of your life!

37. When we were young, we wanted to watch comedies and look forward to a happy life. When we are young, we need to appreciate tragedy and temper our fragile souls. In middle age, we should watch tragedies and comedies, find joy in sorrow and enjoy happiness in suffering! In old age, we should appreciate mime drama and comprehend life in silence.

38. Walk faster on the road and stay longer at home; concentrate more on reading and play more; work harder and relax more on vacation. Half a day's leisure is stolen from busyness, not from idleness. People who are idle all day long and busy all day long, not only do not have the freedom to relax and unwind freely, but it is also difficult for them to have creative ideas that fly from the sky. People cannot but strive for progress, nor can they refrain from leisure; leisure is to accumulate strength for endeavor, and endeavor is to create space for leisure.

39. Whenever I hear a friend say: "I don't read someone's work, I don't eat a certain thing, and I never talk to someone", I will say to them: "Lock others out and lock yourself in!"

40. Always be wary of strangers, especially those who offer to help and appear overly enthusiastic. For things you are unfamiliar with, pay close attention to every move of the person helping others to avoid getting hurt yourself.

41. Many people who are incited and exploited are honest and upright. Because this kind of person is less wary and has the strongest sense of justice.

42. This injection may be painful, may cause a fever, and may make you flinch and fear. However, in front of you, a society full of epidemics is something you have to step into.

43. Is it true that there are some characters hidden deep in everyone’s heart, accompanied by joy and sorrow? They usually lock them up and do not dare to touch them, let alone others to know about them, until certain times. On the days when the soul is clear, or when the light comes back to light, the secular heart becomes weak and can no longer be locked, and finally the character emerges?

44. Do you think that if a seed is planted, it will take root, sprout, and flourish? Sometimes it's because of poor soil and water, sometimes it's because of insufficient sunlight, and it can't grow as well as it wants.

45. Don’t measure things by value, but consider the environment, because the value of the same glass of water is different in the desert and by the river.

46. For everyone who hurts me, I always try to think after feeling sad: "They may have had no choice but to do that." Understanding means that I can think from a positive perspective, so that I can Thinking about things from other people's perspectives also allows me to see many things that others cannot. But I am not a "bad guy". While I understand, I also blame.

47. Time goes forward, and the clock cannot turn backwards, so as long as everything is in the past, you can never look back. In this world, even things that seem like turning back are all done in the face. We can turn around, but we don’t have to look back. Even if one day you find that you have gone wrong, you should turn around and stride in the right direction instead of looking back and complaining that you were wrong.

48. Courage or hard work alone are not enough! In this day and age, what’s more important is ideas!

49. A woman’s chastity is like a lock on a box. It can block a gentleman but not a villain.

50. If you keep a cat and a fish at the same time, and the cat eats the fish, in addition to blaming the cat, you should blame yourself. In the same way, when you clearly know that human nature has weaknesses but do not take precautions and suffer losses, in addition to resenting that person, you should also examine yourself. Everyone is human and has human goodness and evil. We can never forget that the other person also has human weaknesses just because he behaves kindly.

51. We can turn around, but we don’t have to look back. Even if one day we find that we are wrong, we should turn around and stride in the right direction instead of always looking back and blaming ourselves for being wrong.

52. When sending fish, don’t forget to send nets; when sending rice, don’t forget to send millet. Parents who have dragged their children around for half their lives may continue to be dragged down by their children for the rest of their lives.

53. Those who hold candles for others are also in the candlelight, and those who bless others are always in the shadow of blessing.

54. Don’t be reasonable in an unreasonable environment. Don't act heroic when you must lose.

55. What will happen when justice meets profit? This is when human nature witnesses. When the responsibility of justice should speak, don't let money speak out.

56. There is pain in childbirth, pain in growth, pain in parting, and pain in injuries. After one pain after another, we still have to face the biggest pain in life. In the cry and death of our beloved, He left this world in helpless grief.

57. Remember! You may be unable to escape the shadow of others throughout your life, but the most important thing is to never live in your own shadow.

58. I believe that the museum must have good intentions in arranging such a program, but will its good intentions have the opposite effect? In the past, every time I took my daughter there, we walked around and looked at it slowly. We could stand in front of a ceramic toy in the Mesoamerican Pavilion and read the museum's description, knowing that the wheel might have come from China. You can also take a closer look at the Chinese genealogy in the Asia Pavilion and analyze it while teaching the little girl how to read Chinese. Today, apart from the soreness in our backs and legs, we got that coloring book. We really haven’t even had a good look at a museum window. Why? Because we lose our desire for knowledge and only think of realistic goals.

59. The more successful you are, the more careful you have to be. Porn traps, women are too scary.

60. People have strong self-esteem and arrogance, and even stubborn self-isolation. Or full of hostility towards others, often due to low self-esteem and fear. The fear is due to the lack of understanding of the other party and the uncertainty of one's own abilities.

61. When you suffer a serious blow or even lose your reputation. There is no need to look at the people around you, because those eyes with ridicule and insults will only cause more harm to you. But don't stop, because people around you will take the opportunity to rush to fix you. You only need to stare at the road in front of you and move forward bravely towards the mountain in your heart. Gradually, the people who scold you will be left behind. When you look down at them from a height, those contemptuous eyes will become looking up to you.

62. I am not teaching you to cheat, but I am teaching you to recognize human nature. Don’t forget their badness because of their goodness; don’t forget their goodness because of their evilness. We should never forget that the other person has human weaknesses because of his kindness. Don't deny his cute side just because of his temporary despicableness.

63. As we grow older and realize the value of money more and more, we may use money to measure everything, even love. Little did I know that in this world, before there was money, there was love. Before we make any money, we have already earned love. We come to this world because of love, and when we leave one day, we can’t take money with us, but we can only take with us a heart full of love.

64. If you keep a cat and a fish at the same time, and the cat eats the fish, you should not only blame the cat, but also yourself.

65. Who would have thought that the air we rely on for survival extends from the ground upwards for 60 kilometers to 300 kilometers, and also puts its weight on us. However, don’t we move very easily?

66. According to research by psychologists, they are really afraid of going to hell after death, so they take the initiative to "go to hell" first. Just like primitive humans were afraid of lions and tigers, but instead painted lions and tigers as murals. It can also be said that when faced with fear, instead of adopting a positive attitude, they bowed down and allowed themselves to be slaughtered.

67. When the wind is strong, you should show your strength of character; when the wind is small, you should show your calmness and ease.

68. Imperfection is exactly a kind of perfection. Every time I repair a "broken thing" I bought, I think: Isn't it? We are all old, rusty, and riddled with holes. We always have to go to the doctor every once in a while to repair our broken bodies. Why do we need everything we own to be perfect? If it is broken, mend it when you can. When it cannot be repaired, just pretend it does not exist. Even if the damage is too conspicuous, if you wear it for a long time and get used to it, it will become a part of your life. Being used to seeing broken things is a sign of experience, open-mindedness and maturity, and it is also a state of life.

69. People who know how to speak can make people feel comfortable by saying something that is not very pleasing to the ear. For example, there was an official who was not satisfied with the arrangement of asking for instructions on everything. However, he did not directly order everyone to be responsible for each level. Instead, he said during the meeting:

70. Even if there is no need to worry about food and clothing in heaven, If you don’t have to work and live forever, what’s the point of living? It’s precisely because of suffering that there is the joy of solving it; it’s precisely because of illness that there’s the joy of being cured; it’s precisely because of sorrow that there’s the beauty of forgetting one’s sorrows; Today is not enough, so we look forward to tomorrow.