1. When a woman likes a man, she wants to hear lies; when a woman hates a man, she wants to hear the truth. 2. If a person wants to be mediocre, there will be few obstacles in his way; if a person wants to be outstanding, there will be many obstacles in his way. Many mediocre people have harmonious relationships with those around them, while many outstanding people have tense relationships with those around them. 3. What a person shows off shows what he lacks in his heart. 4. The place where a person cares more is the place where he feels most inferior. 5. Do it when someone is in sight, and stop doing it when no one can see it. This is called hypocrisy. Therefore, if you want to observe a person, you only need to observe when he does it and when he does not do it. 6. There is a kind of person who only does two things: he is jealous of you when you succeed; he laughs at you when you fail. 7. Sincerity does not mean blaming other people’s shortcomings, but it does mean not complimenting others’ shortcomings. 8. If you see through things, you will understand how to proceed; if you see through human relationships, you will understand how to get along; if you see through things, you will no longer want to do things; if you see through human relationships, you will no longer want to be a human being. 9. 1% of the people in the world take small losses and take advantage, while 99% of the people take small advantages and take big losses. Most successful people are from the 1%. 10. People allow a stranger to prosper, but cannot tolerate the promotion of a person around them. Because there are contrasts and conflicts of interest between people at the same level, but there are no such problems with strangers. 11. The more proud people are, the more they like to hide it; the more painful things are, the more they like to make a fuss about it. 12. People have two eyes, both of which are parallel, so they should see people equally; people have two ears on both sides, so they should not listen to one side of the story; although people have only one heart, they have two atriums, left and right. So when doing things, you must not only think about yourself, but also think about others. 13. Competition is actually a kind of friendship. You can improve your intelligence with the help of your opponents. Those who are afraid of competition have already lost to their opponents. 14. In the beginning, when dealing with others, you listened to his words and believed in his actions; but now, you not only need to listen to his words, but also observe his actions.

Quotes about seeing through

15. Wise people who understand the truth often teach without words and do not necessarily talk much, while those who talk too much often do not truly understand. Know the avenue. 16. Enemies become comrades mostly because of survival, and comrades become enemies mostly because of money. 17. When you have nothing more to lose, that’s when you start to gain. 18. Honest language will not be too gorgeous, and pursuing gorgeous speech is often not honest. Kind people never quibble. Those who quibble are definitely not kind people. A person who is truly knowledgeable does not necessarily have a wide range of knowledge, and a person who is knowledgeable does not necessarily have real knowledge.