Everyone lives in the real world, eager for success, and many people with lofty ideals have paid a lot for their dreams, but got very little. This question can't help but arouse people's deep thought: you can't say that they didn't work hard enough, but why did they end up with nothing? This deserves our serious consideration.
On the surface, it seems very simple to be a man and do things. Who wouldn't? Actually, it is not. For example, if you are a teacher, your subjective desire is to be a good teacher, but in fact it is not popular with students. When you go into business, your subjective desire is to make a lot of money, but it happened that you lost. Putting aside these superficial phenomena and exploring the crux of the problem, you will find that being a man and doing things is really a difficult knowledge to master.
It can be said that being a man and doing things is a knowledge involving all aspects of real life. It is impossible to get a glimpse of it from any aspect alone. To master this knowledge and grasp its essence, we must refine and summarize the real life and draw some laws with universal significance, so that people can follow the rules and not be confused.
Read a word formula and benefit for life!
First, the expression formula of social interaction
-teach you to make contributions.
(A) the formula of the word "modesty"
The word "modesty" is the only way to deal with the world. Arrogance will only lose the foundation of dealing with the world, and eventually end up alone and accused by many people.
1, don't be arrogant
Don't get carried away.
Don't boast if you have the ability.
4. Ask for advice.
(B) "light" formula
It seems unnecessary to be too strict with people and make too many friends, but the word "light" comes first. Looking down and thinking on the bright side, life will be suddenly enlightened and full of flavor.
Just as "plain is true".
1, a friend of a gentleman is as light as water.
2. Look down on life and treat life well.
3, indifferent to ambition, don't blindfold for fame and fortune.
4. Reduce desires and satisfy the mind.
(C) "frugality" formula
People who don't know the word "frugality" don't know how to succeed. Any successful career lies in the accumulation of bits and pieces; People who don't understand the word "frugality" will only lose success, and excessive arrogance will crush people.
"Frugality and morality" is a good training for people to do things.
1, starting from saving living expenses
2, "poor and generous" is not desirable.
3. Beware of unusual frugality: stingy
4, don't dye the road, Xiu De.
(D) "sub" formula
Be a person with personality and give yourself a little confidence! The road to success depends on yourself, and the bright future comes from self-reliance, not giving in to any authority, and recovering self-esteem with your own efforts.
Men make their own decisions!
1, self-reliance and success.
2. Unique life.
3. Challenge authority with yourself.
4, self-confidence-let you southeast and northwest wind.
(5) the formula of the word "reason"
Born in a country of etiquette, be a polite person. Polite people will be human, popular and have many friends. Polite people will do things, pay attention to image, be educated, don't make enemies, and everything goes well on the road to success.
1, treat people with courtesy
2, polite, polite people don't blame
3, pay attention to etiquette dress, give a good impression.
(6) the formula of "positive"
Be an upright person, be a person with sound personality and be respected. Being a selfish person, doing things that deceive the heart and preventing talents from being capable, has no chance of success.
1, don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you.
2. Jealousy is a taboo in Fang Zhengzhi.
3. Not cheating is a pleasure in itself.
Second, the image-building formula
-Teach you an elegant personality
(7) The formula of the word "ambition"
Give yourself a lever enough to turn the earth.
Make a wish for your life, set a goal, set an idol, and cultivate a sense of down-to-earth success. Make sure first, and then date successfully.
1, do what you can, and be determined.
2. Make up your mind first, and there is hope only if you make up your mind.
3. Cultivate a sense of success: aspire to be king.
4. Set up idols and change yourself.
(8) the formula of "time"
Be punctual in life. Modern people can't create their own image without the concept of time. Arrange time reasonably, use time effectively, be punctual, cherish time and not delay.
Remember: time is money.
1, one second is worth ten thousand dollars.
Don't neglect your spare time.
3. Stealing other people's time is tantamount to murder for money.
4, according to the importance, more effective use of time.
(9) The formula of "diligence"
If you work harder, you will have more chances of success. Numerous facts have proved that the shortcut to success is diligence. Don't just talk and don't practice, don't be lazy, be diligent, reward hard work by heaven, reward hard work by heaven!
1, the shortcut to success: diligence
2, more efforts, more opportunities.
3. Diligence in action is better than diligence in words.
(10) The formula of the word "truth"
Be a down-to-earth person and do things. Anyone with his hands in his pockets can't climb the ladder of success. Leave a true image, add a solid foundation for your success, proceed from reality and be responsible for yourself.
1, dedication, the success guarantee of doers
2. Do every job well.
People who put their hands in their pockets can't climb the ladder of success.
(11) The word "specialization"
Only with professionals and perseverance can I have perseverance.
You live in an era of knowledge explosion. If you are a genius, inattention will be your misfortune. Please don't be pessimistic if your qualifications are average. As long as you make up your mind to do one thing well all your life, you will succeed. Young man, don't give people the impression of chop and change.
1, put all your eggs in one basket
2, versatile, such as practicing "unique hidden weapons"
3. wholeheartedly, turn disadvantages into advantages.
(12) formula of "caution"
Life is long and short, and the key is a few steps. Human nature jungle, career, interests and temptations. Don't be afraid of age, think twice, don't be afraid of 10 thousand, just in case. Your reputation, career and image are in danger of being saved once you reach out the wrong hand, enter the wrong line or do something wrong.
Be careful!
1, never enter the wrong line.
2. Think before you jump.
3. Don't act rashly
Third, the self-improvement formula
-Teach you to save your life
(13) formula of "effort"
It is difficult to be a man and do things. In the face of various obstacles, how can we not "hard" improve ourselves? If things are forced, dare to say "no"; If it is a legitimate interest, it should be done; Even, sometimes some bullies have to bow hard, sometimes they have to be "thick-skinned" and sometimes they have to "bite the bullet".
Rejection is an art.
It's my turn. You're welcome.
3, angry and rushing to the crown.
4. Be cheeky, and you should bite the bullet when you do things.
(14) formula of "small"
The owner of a seafood chain restaurant may have been practicing beach in the aquatic product market, and the owner of a leather shoes chain store may have been polishing shoes. If you want to do great things and make big money, you must first do small things, earn small money, put down your airs and be willing to make small profits. Start with the details, sweep the house first, and then sweep the world!
1, how can you sweep the world without sweeping a house?
2. Do small things first and make small money.
A nail changes a person's life.
(15) The formula of "sharp"
Little sparrows, flying and jumping, race against time, constantly looking for food. The same is true in life. In the face of brutal competition, it is very slim to forge ahead, be a good pioneer, take the next goal as the goal, dare to take risks, dare to travel, and wait for the rabbit.
1, dissatisfied with the existing achievements.
2. Pursue firmly, never back down.
Don't lose your spirit, success is a matter of time.
(16) Formula of "Zhuang"
To improve yourself, you must have the courage and knowledge to surpass yourself. What is transcendence? Transcendence means eating crabs and innovating. At the same time, innovation means taking risks, so-called wealth and risk. Think what others can't think of, do what others dare not do, and be the first in the world. This lies in the change of thinking.
1, be the first in the world.
2. Breaking the rules of creativity
People who abandon me can also work miracles.
4. Offensive and defensive ways of reverse thinking.
(17) Formula of "Tong"
If you are poor, you want to change, and if you change, you will pass. He who knows the time is a hero, and he who changes his plane is a hero. There is more than one road to success. Why hang yourself from a tree? To grasp the key to success, whether it is a black cat or a white cat, it is important to catch a "mouse".
1, cleverly changing strain
2. All roads lead to Rome
3. Success lies in communication, and only communication can win.
(18) Formula of "Yan"
Praising others is like giving food to a hungry beggar. Throughout the ages, I don't know how many people have changed their ordinary destiny with their own golden words. Speak humorously, find the same language as * * * ... a word "Yan", which will benefit you for life.
1, find any topic you want.
2. Praise is the best lubricant.
3, a successful life, humorous.
4. "Catchwords" add color to your body.
Fourth, interpersonal interaction formula
-Teach you to win friends
(19) formula of "width"
Interpersonal communication should focus on the future and forget old evils. Forgiving others is the best way to treat yourself-you are angry with the enemy, but you are burning yourself. Don't be too narrow-minded when you do things. All rivers run into the sea, relying on a tolerant heart!
1, forgive your enemies
2. Tolerance and forbearance.
3. Be willing to forget and forget the past.
(20) Formula of "and"
In the sea of people, if we don't want to be isolated, we must learn how to get along with others! When the Woods are big, there are all kinds of birds. You are not required to like all people, but at the same time there are no best people in the world.
Harmony is the most important thing, we should leave steps for each other and give everyone face.
1, think of others and pave the way for yourself.
2, you give others face, others do good for you.
3. The way of husband and wife is also harmonious and wise.
The formula of (2 1) "letter"
Because many people trust you, you will have many chances of success. What is "trust"? Faith is a strength of personality, a friendship beyond money, an understanding, an appreciation and a cover-up, which is irreversible. Therefore, words must be done, and actions must be fruitful. Help if you can, but don't promise easily!
1, help if you can, don't promise easily.
2, keep your word, be a man and speak principles.
3. Be a man in advance and win the trust of others first.
4, the cornerstone of credibility, life and death friendship
(22) The word "help"
Good winds use their power to send me to the sky. Interpersonal communication, mutual benefit. Helping others is to save money for your credit card, especially to lend a helping hand when others are in trouble and save the fallen hero from difficulties. Sincerely helping others, the return is self-evident.
1, help others get rich and take credit for yourself.
2. Good winds can ascend to heaven by strength.
3. Seize the opportunity and give it a hand.
(23) the formula of "respect"
People want face, trees want skin. People exist in the society, and they have to play all kinds of roles, especially in the interaction, which needs certain dignity to support. This is the weakness of human nature. Only by understanding this point can we realize the necessity of the word "respect".
1, honour person taboo, boss taboo.
Don't talk about your pride in front of the frustrated.
3. Respect each other's "bright spots"
(24) The word "horizontal"
Human feelings are warm and cold, the world is cold, and ordinary friends live a normal life. Make friends, don't be eager for quick success and instant benefit, invest in friendship, take a long line, visit cold temples, burn cold stoves and burn more incense at ordinary times, even if it's just a few greetings, which is also the way to make friends.
1, burn more incense when you have time, and help in an emergency.
2, friendship investment, should take a long line.
3, worship the cold temple, burn the cold stove, and create heroes.
Five, Du E's Ci formula.
-Teach you to relax and be happy
(25) The word "strong"
In the face of setbacks and difficulties, remember Churchill's famous saying: "Never, never, never give up!" In fact, there is nothing lucky in the world, but there is, and it is also the result of persistence. In order to win the final victory, we must face all kinds of temporary humiliation with perseverance and persistent pursuit, and we will never give up until we reach the Yellow River!
1, tie up your hair and bear loneliness.
He who laughs last laughs sweetest.
3, persistent pursuit, never give up
4, the heart will not die until it reaches the Yellow River
(26) Formula of the word "a"
People are confused and have difficulty in doing things. In the face of "heavy mountains and heavy waters", it is not enough to have a strong will, nor can it be rushed. Solving difficult problems depends on the brain, which generates thinking, making it powerful and easily solving problems in unexpected places.
1, a clever woman can't cook without rice.
2. From "there is no way to doubt the mountains and rivers, and there is another village."
3. The power of thinking
(27) "Qu" formula
To get rid of the predicament of people and things, we must ask people, and we must humbly ask for help. But for future success, even living like a cockroach should be forgiven. After all, the tables have turned. Put down the shelf, it's time to bend over, bend over and stretch, bend over and stretch is the hero!
1, live like a cockroach
2, put down your body, the road ahead is long.
You respect me one foot, I respect you one foot.
4, the lower class "bends" and never dies.
(28) "Static" formula
"If you don't break out in silence, you will perish in silence!" Calm is a realm, a tolerance and a cultivation. Calm decision is often the best solution to get rid of the predicament, and calmness is also a kind of wisdom, waiting for change and winning in chaos!
1, the cold bench becomes the manager's chair.
2, the heart is better and wiser, and wisdom is achieved.
Step 3 be calm and self-satisfied
4. Be a good person if you can hold your breath.
(29) the formula of the word "le"
There is no absolute happiness in the world, only a heart that refuses happiness. Life is too short to be nervous, so it is better to be silent. Remember, success begins with a smile, and life is often unsatisfactory. Be optimistic, create happiness by yourself and learn to solve problems easily.
1 Success begins with a smile.
2. Learn to create happiness
3. Learn to solve difficult problems easily and happily
There are no absolutely happy people in the world, only those who refuse happiness.
(30) the formula of "relying on"
Life does not depend on it, yes, there will be no pie in the sky, waiting for the rabbit to starve to death, but it is not enough to rely entirely on it. Relatives, friends, classmates and fellow villagers are all "human resources". No one has three difficulties and six difficulties. If they can rely on it, they will rely on it. If they can't rely on it, they will also rely on creating conditions!
1, let a friend be your backer.
2. It is difficult to go out and rely on fellow villagers.
3. Relatives are getting closer and closer.
4, just classmates and teenagers, you have to rely on.
Six, unbeaten life formula
-Teach you a brilliant life
(3 1) The formula of the word "stupid"
Learn from owls and turn a blind eye. You call me stupid, but I'm not stupid! It's just that things are changeable, it's difficult to start a business, and the family is ruined and the family is ruined. People say that there is no fish in clear water, and people have no disciples. In fact, to preserve our sanity, smart people are often stupid, and there are many smart people, so we can pass the word "stupid"!
A fool is clever all his life.
Don't think you are smarter than others.
Don't take things too seriously.
4. Who is the hero?
(32) Formula of "forbearance"
A real hero, why should he be short of breath, start from the beginning to the end and be invincible! Endurance can preserve one's health and accomplish things. Endurance is great wisdom, courage and happiness! Endure it as thick, endure it as black, endure it as base, endure it as strong, endure it as unbearable for the world, and the average person can't do it without being a temperamental person.
1, forbearance is great wisdom and courage.
2. Don't be a temperamental person.
3, invincible life, ninja invincible
(33) Formula of "Regression"
People who have been in the Jianghu for a long time and cultivated human feelings always keep the word "retreat". Retreat is a strategy, retreat is an exchange and a means to survive. The philosopher said well, "Don't spit in the well. When you are thirsty, come to the well to drink water. " . "
1, take a step back and think everything goes well.
Refusing to compromise means refusing to succeed.
3, not to be taunted, can afford to hide
(34) Formula of "circle"
Fiona Fang is a man, exquisite in all directions; If you do things satisfactorily, everything goes well. Everyone has ulterior motives, and it is best to have someone in charge of everything. You can study "fuzzy philosophy" when you have time. If the carriage of life is equipped with square wheels, you have never heard of it, and neither have I. It's hard to move!
1, Fiona Fang is a man and does things satisfactorily.
2. Be the second child, not the boss.
3, human feelings are articles, and words are cautious.
(35) Formula of "Danger"
"After the success of luxury, are happiness and security double dangers?" This is a lesson from history, and so are ordinary people. Living at home, working in the workplace, etc. Can't escape the word "danger". People who have no long-term worries will have near worries.
1, foresight, no danger to approach.
2, Guo Ziyi screen back maid to avoid disaster.
3. Go to the countryside to be a farmer-Fan Li has a rich life.
(36) Formula of Zhuang
Life is a play in the world. You can sing and I'll play. Whether you can act or not depends on whether you can pretend. It's easier to be a hero than a weak one. As the saying goes, if you shoot a bird with a gun, you will be afraid of thieves stealing and thinking wrongly. When you have no strength, please hide your extra talent!
1, deliberately showing weakness is good.
Step 2 use "mimicry" and "protective color"
3. Success requires pretending to be dead and pretending to be a failure. You can try.