Diamond Sutra: What do you mean, Bodhi? Can you meet the Tathagata himself? No, Buddha. You can't see the body of the Tathagata. Why? For example, body posture. In other words, it is not a body. The Buddha told Xu Bodhi that all appearances were illusory. If you see something different, you will see the Tathagata.

-The Heart Sutra and the Diamond Sutra make it very clear that the hue is actually in your heart. When there is no hue in your heart, "you will see the Tathagata". I think the sentence "Don't associate with sex, sex will bring disaster, and be careful not to treat women as sex" is very misleading to those who study Buddhism. In fact, it deviates from Buddhism. Because the basis of this sentence must admit the existence and influence of "color", but you have the standard of "color" in your heart, how can you do without color? It is wrong to reach the extreme, that is, to leave the color and the phase, but there is still color.

I remember a story about a virtuous woman crossing the river. After crossing the river, her disciple asked Dade, shouldn't we become monks and stay away from women? Why did you cross the river with a woman (and in such a close gesture)? Dade replied: I have put it down, why don't you put it down? People who practice Buddhism have heard this story, but they may not understand what Dade means by letting go. This release is not a physical release, but it has no feminine or masculine color at all. This is what you call letting go.

When we put it down, it will be colorless, how can it have color? How can you "look at women"? Since there is no color or phase, how can there be trouble?