Sociologist Shen Yiwen once said, "Love is a game for the brave." I have firmly remembered it, but many people don't quite understand this sentence. Let's analyze it together and find out why. It is said that love is a game for the brave.

First, let’s analyze it before the relationship is established. In addition to the pure goodwill between the two sides, there are also temptations to advance and retreat, mental battles, and detailed trade-offs, just like the two sides are playing chess. At the same time, falling in love with the other person before establishing a relationship is likely to bring about caution and fear of gains and losses, and then the cowardly person will not be able to compete. Just like what is written in "Jane Eyre", "Love is a game. You must always be equal and evenly matched with the other party, so that you can depend on each other for a long time." So it is not unreasonable to say that love is a game for the brave. .

Second, let’s analyze it after establishing the relationship. Haruki Murakami once said, "I am afraid. I am afraid that if I really fall in love with someone, the other person will disappear without warning, leaving me alone." In love, we are all afraid, afraid of making a mistake sincerely and becoming a loser. However, there is no rule that love must be divided into winners and losers. Therefore, in love, both parties need to be brave enough to protect their love. At the same time, both parties in love need to constantly shape themselves through collision, and at the same time, they need to establish contact with each other, open up their own world, and open up their imagination of life, and these must be based on not being timid and brave, so Love is a game for the brave.

Thirdly, judging from the emotions of the two people in love, love is full of uncertainties. Because in an uncertain society, we especially need rationality to control uncertainty. However, the greatest charm in love is sensibility. Love never knows where it comes from, and it goes deep. Love is regarded as an existence that transcends reason. Once you fall in love with someone, You may lose control and hate yourself, and this loss of control will bring new uncertainties, so this is a challenge for us, and facing this challenge requires more courage.

So, in the world of love, it is a game challenged by brave people. Only brave people can get the final love. If you are not brave and really make yourself submissive, all love will be lost. You have just passed by, so you should fight wits and courage with love. You should let yourself get all the love, cherish it in time, and chase it bravely.