That's a bad law that the teacher implemented in the small world. In order to abide by this rule anyway, they randomly adopted the practice of "ignoring all frictions". There are guys who can't get along anyway, and there will be guys who can't help it even if they hate it. Then, if "hate" or "don't want anything to do with it" can be clearly put on the table, there is still the possibility of development. There is also the possibility of improvement or room for discussion. However, it is precisely because these things are obliterated and superficially whitewashed that bad things will happen.
If there are differences, then say it clearly and make it clear. If it is a misunderstanding, there is still a chance to solve it. If they are really different, they can avoid each other. However, if you pretend to have a good relationship on the surface, but secretly care about each other, then the crack will only get bigger and bigger, and one day it will break out.
It is said that the light of the stars was a long time ago. Beyond the time of countless stars and frost, the light of the past can be transmitted.
No matter who is trapped by the past. No matter how you plan to move forward, when you look up inadvertently, what you did in the past will pour down like this starlight. They can't be erased or laughed off. They can only stay in a corner of their hearts forever, and then wake up in a casual moment.
The so-called "change yourself and the world will change with it" is impossible.
It is not easy to change to a positive direction, whether it is the formed evaluation of oneself or the existing interpersonal relationship.
The evaluation of people is neither a plus sign nor a minus sign.
Just a fixed idea, an existing impression.
People can't see the true colors of reality. You can only see what you want to see and what you want to have.
No matter what kind of efforts the guy at the bottom who is in a bad mood makes, he will be described by others as "what is that guy trying for?" Poof, huhu "is over. Bad attention can only be the opposite of being attacked.
If you belong to a mature society, at least middle school students or students of similar grades will have such an atmosphere more or less.
Now ask the charge to do the right thing. Loneliness needs to do its duty. The house was forced to dance like a house. If a higher-ranking person shows understanding for a lower-ranking guy, it can be considered as tolerant and educated, but the opposite is unforgivable.
This is a bad rule in the children's kingdom. Actually, it's quite boring
The world can't be changed, you can change yourself. This statement is nothing more than an adaptation to this cold and cruel world, a subordinate act of adapting and admitting one's failure, just like a piece of shit.
It's just decorated with gorgeous words, even I'm lying to myself.
No one can violate the "ethos", so even if you understand the pain of others, there is nothing you can do.
The atmosphere and atmosphere must not be violated. People can only be forced to take actions against their original intention. Because "everyone" says so, because "everyone" does it, otherwise, it will be impossible to integrate into "everyone".
However, there is no such thing as "everyone". I can't talk to him or hit him. He won't be angry or laugh, but it's just an illusion created by the magic of the group. It is a magical thing that was inadvertently born, and it is an undead created to hide a little personal malice. It is a monster that devours people who are not companions. Only by becoming companions can we get rid of the curse.
Once upon a time, he and she were both victims of this guy.
That's why I hate it.
This world that insists on the so-called "everyone".
A poor peace that must be built at the expense of someone.
With tenderness and justice, it is obviously a vicious thing, but it is elegant. As time goes on, it becomes more and more vicious, and there is no empty concept except deception.
Because of loneliness, I am strong. No bondage means that there is nothing to guard. In other words, it is weakness that must be guarded against.
The misunderstanding is just a misunderstanding, not true. Then as long as I understand it myself. It doesn't matter what others think. ..... every time I want to solve a misunderstanding, I will go in a bad direction. I've given up.
In an organization, we must bear the negative side of the organization.
Moreover, when we want to get along for a long time, we have to think about what will happen in the future. Even if you don't want to be low, keep your head down. You can't go to cocktail parties, even if you don't want to go, even if you don't want to listen to anything. Even if you meet annoying people every day, you should work together. Paying attention to interpersonal relationships on the basis of having to work is simply a punishment game. Have you handled your interpersonal relationship? There will be no bonus. This kind of thing is so strange.
Create a topic, echo the topic, and express empathy for the other person's answer. In this process, narrow the opponent's attack area and inform the opponent's defense range without trace. That's what they call it. Deal with it.
Maybe the conversation got stuck when it didn't work out at first. You may also react inappropriately.
Just like other skills, you only need to practice repeatedly to master them skillfully.
In the final analysis, the so-called act of treating people well is nothing more than deceiving yourself and each other. The other party knows that he has been cheated, and he also knows that he has been cheated by the other party. This is just a circular chain.
Besides, in the final analysis, it's nothing, just like what he learned and practiced from them at school.
The same skills are necessary for the organizations or groups to which they belong, but the difference between adults and students is only in scale.
Then, in the final analysis, it is nothing more than hypocrisy, suspicion and deception.
However, I still think it's better to put down what I like and say I like it. Even if it is, it has not been generally accepted or accepted by the public.
You don't even have to consider choosing what you like best, or choosing to have a good relationship with boys who don't like you.
Please adopt! hope this helps