Speaking of Guiguzi, everyone must know something about him! This man is a legendary figure from the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period. He is considered a legend by people. He has never taken action, but he seems to be able to influence the world's situation. He has a deep research on human nature. The most outstanding among the disciples are Zhang Yi, Su Qin, and Xu Fu, and these people's research on human nature has reached the point of proficiency, not to mention their teacher Gui Guzi. Among Guiguzi's famous sayings, there are several sentences about the study of blessing.
In our impression, many people have a certain degree of research on the word blessing, and some people even seek fortune-telling by some fortune tellers to see if they are blessed in their lives. Today we will take a look at the research on this aspect by Gui Guzi, a strange and legendary figure from the Spring and Autumn Period. According to historical records, Gui Guzi summarized this aspect in three sentences.
The first sentence is that all people who are stubborn, do not listen to others' advice, and take chances in everything are unlucky people. The meaning of this sentence is easy to understand. It means that people who are unwilling to listen to other people's opinions, think that they are invincible, and people who do everything by chance are not blessed. Among this group of people, the most prominent one is Xiang Yu, the overlord of Chu with unparalleled military power.
The real reason for the failure of King Xiang Yu of Chu was this. He believed that he was invincible and did not take anyone to heart. Moreover, when he was defeated, he also had a fluke mentality and thought that he was only temporary. Even though he was defeated, he also showed his remaining subordinates how invincible he was. In the end, Xiang Yu lost to Liu Bang, whom he had always looked down on.
The second sentence is that people who have malicious intentions in everything and are not kind-hearted are unlucky people. The word kindness is mentioned here. In fact, it does not mean that everyone should consider others at all times, but to have the most basic kindness, that is, to have an innocent heart and never forget your original intention, which is what we often say - When you drink water, don’t forget the man who dug the well, this is the truth. Another thing is to treat others with malicious thoughts at all times. In this way, you will not gain the trust of others, because you are always on guard against the other person, and even hurt the other person with bad practices.
The third sentence is that people who are mean and careless in everything are unlucky people. The meanness here refers to those people who are mean in words but also mean in heart. The psychology of such people is an extremely narrow one, and they are people that everyone does not want to interact with. People who are mean in words are okay, they understand you. People will understand what you mean. This is a person who is sharp-tongued but also mean-spirited at heart. You absolutely don’t want to come into contact with such a person.
As for people who care about everything, they are also the ones that everyone does not want to come into contact with. They always think that they have paid more than others, but did not get what they deserve. To use our current words, this is He is so shrewd that he can't stand it. Another word to describe him is that he is extremely stingy. I believe no one wants to come into contact with such a person.
So friends who have these three points, you need to pay attention. If you change these three points, your blessing may come to you in the next second.