The sooner you say no to something that embarrasses you, the better
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Years ago, my husband and I hosted a banquet for my mother-in-law’s family, and there was one person at the table. My relatives asked me if the newly purchased house was decorated and when would I invite everyone to take a look. I said some details were not done yet and we haven’t moved in yet!
My mother said without thinking: It's almost ready. I've been there and counted more than a dozen rooms. When she's done, you can take your children to play there and go to bed at night. There.
When the gentleman heard this, he was stunned and looked at me in horror.
I suppressed the anger in my heart and smiled gently, but my tone was non-negotiable and firm: Our family has never been in the habit of staying overnight. When guests come, they usually stay at the Sheraton Hotel next door. It’s not easy to walk there. to five minutes.
So, my mother’s face became ugly, and I ignored her. This is not the first time this has happened. I have made it clear time and time again: In our family, my husband and I must be the ones who make the decision. If anyone wants to step over us and become our decision, I will never agree.
Back at the hotel, my husband asked me worriedly if my mother would be angry. I asked him back: Do you want our house to become a guest house in the future?
The husband said that of course he wouldn’t do it, and it was scary to think about it.
Under the circumstances, if I did not say anything, it would be acquiescence, and the price would be that my future life and freedom would be severely damaged until I was no longer willing to bear it. Sooner or later you have to say no, so it’s better to make it clear from the beginning.
My eldest aunt is the best lesson learned.
In the 1980s, there were almost no people farming in the small county where I was born. Most people either went to work or started their own small businesses, but in terms of customs, they were actually closer to those in rural areas.
My eldest aunt is a hard-working and flexible person. When I was seven years old, she bought a commercial house in the city center and the whole family moved to the city. At that time, many people around her envied her because her family was the first to buy commercial housing in our area.
However, trouble ensued. Almost all relatives and neighbors with whom she usually had good relations regarded her home as a stronghold. At that time, when everyone went shopping in the city, they would definitely go to her place for lunch. When they met students, college entrance examinations or other matters, they would naturally stay overnight. In my impression, the second bedroom of their house was basically there every once in a while. When someone comes to sleep with me, my cousin, who is four years younger than me, can always sleep in the master bedroom with his parents.
At that time, it was also the busiest time for my eldest aunt’s career. She had to go to the store very early in the morning every day and was busy until late at night. In my memory, their family rarely got together. I just buy fast food from outside because I don’t have time to cook.
Anyone who has been doing business since childhood is reluctant to spend money like this. As time goes by, my aunt naturally becomes unhappy. When guests come, she will try her best to evade it, not to say that she wants to buy goods. , even if she said she was sick, this excuse could not be used often, so she had to continue entertaining relatives and friends. But when there is resistance in the heart, it is impossible to have too much enthusiasm. Often, even if she has to deal with it, she will never be enthusiastic and sincere to persuade the guest to have a meal or stay overnight. As a result, those relatives gradually began to have feelings for her. Opinion.
When she was not married, she was with me almost every day. I was only a few years old at that time, and almost all my mathematics and poetry were taught by her when she was not married. Every summer vacation, she would come to pick me up and live there. Because I went there, she had an excuse to tell other relatives: My niece is here and there is no room for her at home.
It was also during that time that I saw with my own eyes how busy and tired she was every day. Sometimes she barely had time to drink water. I also ate fast food with her. When no one is around, she will complain to me: Have you seen how busy your aunt is? They always feel that I am idle every day, just waiting for them to come, either today or tomorrow. I am really bored to death.
And I usually live in a small county town most of the time, so I naturally hear more about the reactions of relatives and neighbors. I heard them say to me more than once: Your aunt is too selfish and cares about herself. When you grow up, you must not be like her.
I often hear relatives condemning her without any scruples at gatherings: My son was sick a few days ago, and I stayed at Ah Feng’s (my aunt’s name) house. Neither of them were very enthusiastic. , I don’t talk much. To be honest, if my son hadn’t been sick, I wouldn’t have been willing to go even if I were invited!
Another interface said: Last time I went shopping, I had lunch at her house. She didn’t say I would leave after dinner, so I came back by myself. Ah Feng’s family was really not very welcoming. , especially her husband, who was silent and made people feel very uncomfortable.
Then someone will conclude: Oh, you guys, I am a city dweller now, I am a boss, busy making money, busy dealing with rich people, how can we, poor relatives, take notice? Ah, if you were the mayor and director today, I guarantee that people would entertain you with great enthusiasm.
Although I was young at the time, I will never forget their expressions. Sometimes, I can't stand it and say: Since you are so dissatisfied, then don't go!
However, it is one thing for them to be dissatisfied. It is impossible not to disturb them.
My mother warned me not to talk nonsense, because even she was very dissatisfied with my eldest aunt and felt that she took too little care of her mother's family.
When I was a child, I never communicated with each other, but when my eldest aunt complained, I would say to her: Then just ignore it and just take care of yourself.
She would look at me and say depressedly: Why don't you care? We can't cut off contact.
So, while she was dissatisfied, she continued to do things she didn't want to do; and her relatives, while dissatisfied, continued to disturb her. Over the past twenty years, she has regarded the other party as a burden, and the other party has regarded her as a ruthless and unjust person.
At that time I was thinking, if it were me, what would I do? My mother also asked me this question, and I said simply: I will refuse at the beginning.
At that time, she said angrily: You are also a divorced person, just like your eldest aunt.
I sneered: I am really cut off from my six relatives, what can you do to me? I'm not like my eldest aunt who keeps complaining while continuing. I won't complain, but I will never allow others to disturb my life.
I know very well that the eldest aunt did not dare to refuse at that time because she was afraid of the dissatisfaction and criticism of her relatives, so even if she was unwilling, she forced herself to do it, but the result was mutual dislike. What happens if she starts saying no now? The outcome is nothing more than this: making those who were originally dissatisfied with her even more dissatisfied. It can be said that her dealings in the past twenty years have yielded nothing but dissatisfaction. But if she had refused at the beginning, her relationship with her relatives would not be worse than it is now, and she would be able to keep her own life.
The day after the dinner, she called me: Or are you courageous enough to refuse in person? Are you not afraid of what they say about you?
I smiled heartily: Based on your understanding of me, do you think I will care?
On the other end of the phone, she was speechless for a long time, not knowing whether she was thinking about everything in the past twenty years.
A few days ago, a forty-five-year-old reader told me her story.
She said that her parents had been very strict with her since she was a child and were very strong. Later, she was admitted to a key university and joined a foreign company after graduation, earning a good income. A year later, I met a man with good conditions in all aspects, fell in love and got married smoothly. Since her husband's income is higher, the two bought a villa with a mortgage, and their life is full of hope.
But since they bought the villa, her parents wanted to move in together. She didn't dare to refuse, and her husband was embarrassed to refuse, so her parents moved in.
This stay lasted for ten years. Since her parents were used to being overbearing, since they moved to her house, the owners of the house have become them. Their behavior as a couple must meet their requirements. For example, the air conditioner is not allowed to be turned on in the summer because the elderly are not afraid of heat. They must make the final decision on all matters at home, including children's education and household property expenses.
Her husband was very depressed and asked her parents to move out several times, but she did not dare to mention it to her parents and kept putting it off. Her parents were no longer as enthusiastic about their son-in-law as before, and they also had strong opinions on him. The family had always been full of cold violence. In the seventh year, her husband seriously expressed the hope that her parents would move back to their home, otherwise the marriage would not be guaranteed.
She tentatively mentioned it to her parents, but was scolded bloody, scolded her for being ungrateful and abandoning her parents, and sold the house in her hometown as quickly as possible to her It means: Now we have no house to live in. If you want us to live on the streets, just do it!
At this point, she naturally can no longer ask her parents to move out, and can only appease her husband, but the atmosphere at home is getting colder and colder.
In the tenth year, her husband very firmly filed for divorce, saying that he wanted nothing but divorce. She was shocked and tried her best to save her, saying that as long as her husband did not divorce, she would send her parents away. Her husband said it was too late. Even if you send her away now, our relationship will never go back. Over the years, I have accumulated too much resentment in my heart. I want to live a more comfortable life in the future.
No matter how she tried to save her, the other party was determined to get a divorce and said that if you had been willing to solve this problem three years ago, our marriage could have been saved. Now it is too late.
The man was extremely determined to divorce, so she had no choice but to divorce. Frankly speaking, she also knew that her husband had suffered too much over the years. Even how to spend the money he earned had to be interfered by her parents. It was not something ordinary men could do to endure this for ten years.
After the divorce, her parents cursed the man, and she was filled with grief and anger: If it weren’t for you, would we be where we are today?
Her mother slapped her in the face and yelled at her: You are a brainless thing. He is the one who divorced you. Only we will not abandon you.
She was full of resentment towards her parents. The three of them had a big quarrel, and her parents moved to a hotel in anger.
She asked me what she had done wrong and why she ended up in such a bad situation that neither of them would please
●In this world, there are many people who believe that as long as you reject your parents’ Requesting means being unfilial and never judging whether the parents' request is reasonable;
●There are also many people who believe that as long as they refuse a friend's request, they are disrespectful and never think about whether the request exceeds their own. range of abilities.
So, he agreed against his will and forced himself to fulfill it, sacrificing his own life and wearing down his patience. Not only was the relationship he originally wanted to maintain not only not saved, but it quickly perished.
●The maintenance of any kind of relationship must be based on mutual understanding and mutual understanding. All behaviors that force oneself will not last long.
Please remember: People who will embarrass you may not care about you much. If something makes you uncomfortable at the beginning, then the sooner you reject it, the better. The moment you have to solve it, you may just have to cut off your tail to survive.
Famous quotes about rejection
Famous quotes about rejection
1. She rejected me, she hurt my pride. ——San Mao's "Sahara Desert"
2. "I dare not say it, not because I am timid, but because if you refuse, I will not be able to see you again in the future. I would rather love you silently." You, I can't let you know until, until you fall into the arms of someone else!"
3. If you don't understand the consequences of rejection, you will take advantage of others.
4. "Just like in "The Brothers Karamazov", there is a story about the devil and Christ." Aomame said, "Christ was practicing rigorously in the wilderness, and the devil asked him to perform miracles and turn stones into stones. into bread. But Christ refused. "——Haruki Murakami "1Q84" 5. A man will never reject a woman who feels good, even if he has a woman.
6. Procrastination is the most complete rejection. It seems that there is still a trace of warmth left, but in fact, to put it bluntly, not only does he not love you, he is also too lazy to explain to you why he doesn't love you.
7. My dear, either accept it or reject it, but please don’t complain. You have to believe that life is still beautiful.
8. It is also on a day like today that my mentor William Faulkner says here: "I refuse to accept the end of mankind." If I haven't fully realized it, thirty-two years The huge disaster that he refused to accept before is now scientifically possible for the first time in human history. I will be ashamed of the position he once stood. ——Garcia Márquez "I'm Not Here to Speak"
9. 17. Sanmao said: Don't be afraid to reject others if your reasons are legitimate. When a person makes a request, he is basically prepared with two answers in his heart. Therefore, any answer given to him is expected. 18. Zi Se Xinqing said: A man cries because he really loves. The woman cried because she really had to give up. -19.Xuan Yi said: A grievance that can be expressed is not a grievance; a lover that can be snatched away is not a lover. 20. Zhang Ailing said: Love is not complicated at first. It comes and goes in just three words: I love you, I hate you, forget it, how are you, and I’m sorry.
10. She is a withdrawn woman who likes to go barefoot and never refuses to turn on the fluorescent lamp above her head in the cubicle. She smoked, and occasionally she would lie back on the computer chair with her feet on the desk and blow out a puff of smoke into the sky.
11. When I want to be with you, I don’t need to travel far away, as long as I hold hands and rely on each other, there will be scenery everywhere; when we are together, we don’t need to have rich clothes and fine food, even if we have a rough cloth and light food, the sky will be full of sunshine; We are together, staying away from the twists and turns of right and wrong, and enjoying the calmness. Ordinary life is also happiness. When we are together, we don’t need sweet words, we just need to understand each other from heart to heart and refuse to be hypocritical. When we are together, I gave up the whole world just to give you my whole world.
12. An extremely kind heart is a person’s greatest treasure. Absorb and sense at any time, and don’t reject easily even things that seem strange and distant. Life has more room for more different things than we imagine. ——Yang Zhao "I Want to Meet Your Life"
13. Don't say I am arrogant, I just refuse to deal with animals
14. You are like a wild cat, refusing to be enthusiastic Hug and love the lonely cool breeze.
15. I rejected so many ambiguities just for an uncertain future for you. . .
16. Even though you are obviously sad and want to cry, you still have to smile; you are obviously lonely and scared, but you still need to be alone; you are obviously online and you want to talk, but you still have to learn to be invisible; Obviously you want to meet, you are looking forward to it, but you still want to refuse; You are obviously confused, you want someone to accompany you, but you still pretend to be silent; You are reluctant to let go, you clearly can’t let go, but you still want to let go; You are clearly in your heart, you care, and you still want to It doesn't matter!
17. Fate has two ways of defeating us - by denying our wishes or by granting them. ——Amir's "Diary"
18. Whoever refuses his parents' instruction will first lose the opportunity to be a human being. ——Alhaji Abubakar Emang, "African Night Talk"
19. We doubt all the beauty and refuse to admit the cruelty of reality.
20. Your life may be a mess now, and you don’t know if it will be better tomorrow, but I want to tell you that as long as you refuse to give up, there will be unimaginable beauty waiting for you ahead. Focus on your dreams and pursue them to the best of your ability; you have the power to change your circumstances, so pursue your true desires, whatever they may be.
——Lick Vujicic's "Life without Limits"
21. If you don't want to be rejected, don't make any demands.
22. The most important thing in life is to believe in yourself. Believe that you are blessed, but don’t deliberately have it; believe that you are strong, but don’t refuse tears; believe that there are good people in the world, but beware of bad ones; believe that money can bring happiness, but don’t spend your life; believe in sincerity, but don’t criticize Hypocrisy; believe in success, but don’t avoid failure; believe in fate, but don’t wait blindly; believe in love, but don’t demand full blame.
23. Someone handed a cigarette to a man. The man refused and said: I promised my woman not to smoke. The man said: If I don't tell you, if you don't tell, who knows you smoked? The man looked into the distance and said lightly: How can a woman who breaks her faith win the trust of the world?
24. Me Rejecting you to move forward with me, I chose to be alone
25. The hair is messy in the light and shadow, the black and white in the frame, and the yellowed voice are things we can't go back to. outside the city. We are trapped in a dead sea of ??struggle, but we refuse to rely on each other.
26. You don’t want it, so you have thousands of reasons to refuse.
27. [There is nothing wrong with whether you like it or dislike it! I have no intention of hurting anyone, so I refuse love! 〕‖‘If you who keep saying love don’t understand me, how will you know how to love me? 〖I am insecure, so I must be strong! 〗
28. The reason why an iceberg becomes an iceberg is because under the hardest shell of the iceberg is the softest water - in order to prevent harm, they can only refuse everything. Xiao Fan, falling in love with Bingshan like you is forever.
29. When you are about to give up on your dream, tell yourself to hold on for one more day, one more week, one more month, one more year. You'll find that the results of refusing to quit are surprising.
30. Never fall into pride. Because when you are proud, you will be stubborn on occasions where you should agree; because when you are proud, you will reject the advice and help of friendship from others; because when you are proud, you will lose objective standards. ——Pavlov
31. I rejected everyone’s ambiguity, just to wait for you in an uncertain future.
32. Heartache is more real than happiness. Why is love so ironic? I forget how many times this is. I can’t hold on when I see you. Loneliness is more real than hugs. Love makes people lose their minds. Could it be that I am too selfish and refuse to live in a more lonely life TT - Zhang Huimei's "Reality"
33. A year after the breakup, she called and said that I still love you, let's make up! He couldn't say it, it was impossible! Two years after the breakup, she continued to call and said, "I still love you, let's make up!" He couldn't say it, it was impossible! Three years after the breakup, she called again and said, "I still love you, let's make up!" He still rejected her. Four years after they broke up, she called again, but he didn't expect that she didn't say she still loved him or asked to reconcile with him, but invited him to her wedding! At this time, his heart ached! (Actually, she still loved him, and she only needed one more break from him to escape the marriage and live their happy life with him, but he didn't hold back, and the happiness slipped away...)
34. His bed felt too big and empty without Jesse, but Andrew refused to do anything ridiculous, like hold Jesse's pillow to his chest. He curled his hand as close to it as possible, but that was irrelevant. "NamelessbutUnkown"
35. Even if you are not stunningly beautiful, don't refuse spring - wild lilies also have their own spring
36. Say hello to villains frequently and talk less; Take the initiative to communicate, but do not refuse to communicate; do not have deep friendship, but do not break up the friendship; you can give benefits, but do not take advantage of villains. Don't enter the circle of villains, and don't let villains penetrate your own realm and soul. Don't help, don't block, don't advise, don't participate, don't discuss, let it develop, let it fend for itself. A villain does many unjust things, and sooner or later everyone will recognize his face.
37. Don’t be demanding about everything, it will come when it comes; don’t worry about everything, just let it pass; don’t frown when something happens, smile when you smile; don’t force the result, just do it; Life is a kind of simplicity, and when your mind is calm, you will be peaceful. Don't refuse busyness, because it is a kind of enrichment; don't complain about setbacks, because it is a kind of strength; don't choose silence, because it is a kind of weakness.
38. The past is a glass of wine that makes us cry after being intoxicated; the past is a medicine, and we are used to healing with memories. The past is a bond and a power. No matter how beautiful, no matter how painful, they are all settled in the past, leaving only some vague fragments hanging in the lonely heart. Don't be obsessed with the past, don't be afraid of the future, and don't refuse change on the way to struggle. What we lose is only temporary, but what we pursue is forever.
39. How can you have love and refuse to be hurt at the same time? Don’t forget, Cupid shoots arrows, not roses.
40. Missing is the most beautiful mood. It has nothing to do with rejection or embarrassment, so I will secretly miss you when no one is around.
41. How can you have love and refuse to be hurt at the same time? Remember, Cupid shoots arrows, not roses.
Inspirational mottos and aphorisms: There are only unimaginable things, and nothing is impossible
Inspirational mottos and aphorisms
1. If you are determined to succeed, you must do your own thing. king.
2. Dreams are the catalyst that ignites the fire of life.
3. Passion and desire can overcome all difficulties.
Do you still remember that on Women's Day, we made wontons together for reunion? The big hands and the little hands were together, which was the support of the heart! "Teacher, happy holiday, please eat!" And What is more beautiful than this? Children, do you know? The teacher has tasted your growth with tears of happiness!
4. No matter how many times you fail, you must face life full of hope.
Facing the difficulties and ups and downs on the road to dreams, persistence is the best sharp blade. It will help a person cut through the difficulties, overcome difficulties, and reach the dream covered with flowers.
The college entrance examination is not scary. Adjusting your mentality is the most important thing. Below I will share with you classic college entrance examination inspirational quotes and aphorisms. Welcome to read them. More information is available in the inspirational quotes column!
The crossroads of life is a multiple-choice question. Only by choosing carefully can you ensure the right direction. If you make a confused choice, you will easily go astray. If you give up, you will lose your way.
5. Realizing dreams is more brilliant than dreaming in bed.
6. No matter how ambitious your goal is, it cannot be supported by faith.
7. A healthy body is the cornerstone of achieving goals.
8. The greatest disaster for human beings is that they look down on themselves.
9. If you believe you can do it, you will have endless energy.
He is as straight as he is bending, he is as skillful as he is clumsy, and he is as arrogant as he is arrogant. I don’t know that old age is coming, and wealth and honor are like floating clouds to me. I wish you a long life and travel thousands of miles like a cicada. If you continue to cut off, you will suffer from chaos. The authorities are confused, but the bystanders are clear. Those who have attained the truth will receive much help, while those who have lost the truth will receive little help. When you climb a mountain, you will be full of emotions in the mountains, and when you look at the sea, your emotions will overflow in the sea. The sun rises in the east and rains in the west. There is no sunshine but there is sunshine. Read it a hundred times and its meaning will appear by itself. I have read tens of thousands of volumes, and my writing is like a spirit. The method of reading is to proceed step by step, read thoroughly and think deeply. Read thousands of books and travel thousands of miles. Anyone who does unrighteousness will surely die. Er Cao's body and name are both destroyed, and the flow of rivers will not be destroyed forever. Everything will be successful if it is premeditated, and it will be ruined if it is not premeditated. It is better to defend the mouth of the people than to defend the river. Without learning, there is no way to expand talents; without ambition, there is no way to achieve learning. The wind rustles and the water becomes cold, and the strong man will never return once he is gone. Wealth and honor cannot be lascivious, poverty and lowliness cannot be moved, and power cannot bend. Feeling the time and thinking of serving the country, I drew my sword and picked up the wormwood. The mountains stand tall and the scenery stops. If you want to read more workplace inspiration, please click: 5 ways to change your life. Ten things young people should remember. Read these 7 sentences every day to make you more confident.
10. Only the unexpected Nothing is impossible.
Quotes, thinking about specific things
Argument is the best catalyst for thought. ——Pavlov
A person’s value to society first depends on how much his feelings, thoughts and actions contribute to human interests. ——Einstein
Beautiful words are the brilliance of thought. ——Longinusi
Beauty belongs to the confident, calmness belongs to the prepared, miracles belong to the persistent, and success belongs to the tenacious.
Language belongs to one era, and thoughts belong to many eras. ——Karamzin
Looking at the earth from the moon, I can’t see any national boundaries. I feel that the earth is a whole, and my whole mind is broadened. —— Cernan
Thought is the slave of life, and life is the trick of time. ——Shakespeare
People live in hope. When old hopes are realized or extinguished, the flames of new hopes burn with it. If a person just lives one day at a time, there is no hope, and his life has actually stopped. —— Maupassant
Our world will never award medals to a sad laggard.
Mastering knowledge is not for endless debates, not for contempt of others, not for profit, honor, power or to achieve a certain purpose, but for use in life. ——Bacon
Riches and high status are not obscene and poor people are happy. A man is a hero here. ——Cheng Hao
Thought is a wall stronger than anything else, because it will never collapse or be handed over to the enemy's hands. —— Antisdene
Where there is a will, there is a way.
Cowardly people will only hesitate to move forward, reckless people will only get burned, and only truly brave people can be invincible.
Things often go against people's will, and things always depend on man-made efforts.
Books are ships of thought sailing in the waves of the times. They carefully transport precious cargo to one generation after another. ——Bacon
Tenacious perseverance can conquer any peak in the world! —— Dickens
Steering the rudder of destiny is struggle. Don’t have any illusions, don’t give up any opportunity, and don’t stop working hard every day.
Inspirational words: What a person is afraid of is often what he should do
1. When you are honest with yourself, no one in the world can deceive you. It doesn’t matter if you don’t play well in the first half of life, there is still the second half, just work hard.
The shortcomings are also points, so stop there. What a person is afraid of is often what he should do.
2. We all have our own lives. No one can live without life. No one can despise or escape from life. There are many things in life that are unsatisfactory. In life, nine out of ten of them are not. This is true. If you complain every day, how can there be beauty in your world?
3. My eyes are raining for you, but my heart is holding an umbrella for you. Life comes like wind and rain and goes like dust. Mom said that no one is worth crying for, and the only person worth crying for will never let you cry for him.
4. Don’t just start from the bottom and end up having no bottom. Our lives can never be free of regrets or mistakes, but if we visit that older version of ourselves often, we are less likely to miss the things we should have done in this world.
5. Being beautiful is an advantage, and living a beautiful life is a skill. When a person has the dream of flying, there is no reason not to stand up even if he is crawling. Everyone eventually looks more and more like themselves. The best is not necessarily the most suitable; the most suitable is the truly best.
6. The torch falls down, but the flame still upwards. The same bottle of drink costs RMB in a convenience store and RMB in a five-star hotel. In many cases, a person's value depends on his location. Give a tree to a monkey and a mountain to a tiger.
7. When the sun falls on the spring branches, the days become green. Beauty makes men stop, wisdom makes men stay. Death can make one's ambition clear; life can fulfill one's ambition. The most joyful things for a person: parents are still alive, a few close friends, and a lover who cannot be stolen. Everything else is just an illusion, don't worry about it too much.
8. Tears are not to exclude external sadness, but to cry for freedom. Life is like an invisible balance. Everyone standing on it may go to extremes, but in the end it is all about finding a balanced fulcrum so that you can stand more steadily, walk better, and live more excitingly!
9. Inspiring words, it is not the mountains in the distance that make people tired, but the grain of sand in the shoe. Success is how high you bounce back after being knocked down into the depths of disappointment. When you are sad, eat a candy and tell yourself that life is sweet!
10. Life principles: stand up high, sit down on the ground, and walk toward a wide place. Attitude towards life: have the best intentions, make middle-level connections, and enjoy the lowest blessings. Life goal: Dedicate classics to society and create excitement in life!
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