First, set an example and take the lead. There is a famous saying: If one's body is upright, then he will do what he doesn't do. His body is not upright, even though he does not obey orders. I have always believed in the power of role models. Therefore, whatever we ask our children to do, we parents should do it ourselves first. For example, when playing online games, I have deleted the game software on my computer and mobile phone since my child was born, and I no longer play, and I no longer participate in playing poker, mahjong, etc. Therefore, the child has not been involved in online games until now. His main focus is to cultivate various healthy interests and hobbies in addition to learning cultural courses well.

Second, develop habits and improve quality. As the saying goes: Three years old determines sixty. The good habits a child develops when he is young will affect his whole life. Therefore, I mainly use the fine traditions and fine styles of the military to grasp the development of children, and slowly form good habits and turn them into conscious actions. . Such as unity, hardship, discipline, courtesy, hygiene, safety, etc. Good habits lead to good actions, and good actions reflect good qualities and leave a different and good impression on others.

Third, cultivate interests and develop your talents. As the saying goes: Interest is the best teacher. Every child has interests and specialties. Parents should be good at discovering them from an early age, and should not just follow the crowd and learn piano or Mathematical Olympiad.

Fourth, there is no absolute right or wrong way to educate children. The educator Confucius said that we should "teach students in accordance with their aptitude." "What is honey to you is arsenic to him." Children from different families have great differences in their birth background, parents’ education level, parents’ personalities, and children’s physical health. No leaf is exactly the same in the world, and education cannot be applied to all children. Parents love their children with love, spend time with their children growing up, set an example for their children with their own words and deeds, and with the earnest guidance of school teachers, I believe our children will grow into towering trees. Go into the child's mind and understand what the child is thinking. Only by knowing and understanding the child can we guide the child better.