Don’t run away from your own shortcomings (Part 1)

1. Sometimes you have to understand that temporary winning or losing doesn’t mean anything, but sometimes you have to accept winning or losing. That is the reality of everything.

2. In the end, I have to admit it, then pick up the frustrated and injured heart, and stand up bravely again, because sometimes there may not be time to be sad, and maybe there will be a new round of impact. Life goes on, just be braver and stronger.

3. Many regrets in life stem from the narrow-mindedness of the heart. Accepting an imperfect life, broadening the horizons of the heart, and being willing to understand is the simplest care for yourself and others; reflect and adjust yourself Those who don't adapt, live in an open-minded state. Only letting go and tolerance can lead to life, and only recognition and forgiveness can lead to sincerity. Happiness is the new normal that is willing to pay for happiness.

4. We must accept the parts of life that are destined to be incomplete and unfulfilled. Accept what is taboo and cannot see the light of day.

5. Don’t try hard to be what others like, but in the end you forget your true self. When you only have yourself in your heart, you always feel that others have not done enough. When you have only others in your heart, you always feel that you have not done enough.

6. Life is a process of competing with oneself. The most important lesson is that you must slowly understand that you can’t let go even if you grit your teeth. When you let go, it means letting go. own.

7. There is no reality that cannot be accepted. It is only a matter of time. Even the heartbreaking reality will only bring a smile on the face in the end.

8. Accept God’s gifts, accept your complete self, love yourself sincerely, and live a wise life.

9. Put yourself in front of you and mend slowly, stitch by stitch. Neither proud nor humble.

10. Life is like a story, what matters is not how long it is, but how good it is; the preciousness of life is that there are no things that cannot be overcome, only feelings that cannot be overcome; there are some things that we must give up in order to Have the energy to welcome a better life; give the time a brief look back and give the soul a touch of warmth.

11. Learning to accept your imperfect self is a profound knowledge. Many people spend their whole lives just trying to reconcile with their ordinary lives.

12. Even if you know the method, you can never change the past, and you can never turn existing possibilities into established realities. No one can predict the future, and it cannot be repeated. Because of this Only then can people accept all kinds of pain, misfortune and unexpected disasters and move forward. Author: Rintaro Okabe Source: Steins;Gate

13. It is true that everyone is not perfect, but what I admire most is the honesty of these young people to themselves and others. The good and the bad are just that It's beautiful to express your heart naturally and generously.

14. Any situation in the world has its advantages and joys, as long as we are willing to accept the reality.

15. I might as well see my life as half miracle and half madness, and accept the reality that I cannot control any important event. My life is a series of hits and misses. No arrival, no destination: just stranding and stranding: another boat, another wave.

16. The purpose of receiving education is to get rid of the slavery of reality. Now many people change themselves in order to adapt to reality.

17. Self-improvement is a huge, profitable business that exploits our desire for success to benefit itself.

18. There is a lesson in life called acceptance. The person you love leaves, the person you love dies, the person you like doesn't like you anyway. Acceptance is the beginning of getting better.

19. The world is a big place, so there is no need to dig into it. If you can’t squeeze into the world, don’t squeeze in. If you change your perspective, you will be more successful. Learn to accept and love your imperfect self, give yourself comfort when you are lonely, and give yourself warmth when you are lonely.

20. What I practice all year round is letting go and accepting, just like you have to accept hard pursuit in love, you have to accept deviance in marriage, you have to accept illness in life, and you have to accept death after illness. All of which I will gladly accept. Classic sayings about not running away from your own shortcomings (Part 2)

21. There are always some things that we don’t want to happen, but we must accept them; there are always some things that we don’t want to know, but we must understand; there are always some things that we don’t want to know, but we must understand. We can't live without people, but we must learn to let go. People can only fulfill themselves, this is reality.

22. None of us are perfect, but we must accept our imperfect selves.

23. Accept your imperfect self and try your best to be yourself under limited conditions!

24. Life is like tea, calm down and deal with it. Right or wrong is innocent, the reason is the previous life. It is smart to recognize clearly and let go. Can't see through, a dream has no trace. If there is no rain, the flowers will still fall; if there is no wind, the catkins will fly. We should observe the nature of the Dharma Realm, and everything is created by the mind. You come to the world, please live in the world.

25. Most things don’t matter after you figure them out, but they suddenly figure out after you don’t care.

26. All the edges and corners have been polished smooth by reality, and all the edges have been obscured and dimmed by suffering. It's not your fault, you were just a victim of my growing up years. You stood at the forefront of my changes and accepted all my ignorance and ignorance.

27. Our moods include joy and melancholy; the road of life includes sweetness and sweat; life gives you some wonderful things, but more ordinary things. No one is perfect, accept your imperfect self; life is unpredictable, there is no need to complain about the pain in your heart.

28. You will use countless cigarettes and countless difficult nights to learn to no longer expect and rely on.

29. In the real world, everyone is incompetent in one aspect, but in another aspect, he is a unique genius. Accept yourself and believe in yourself.

30. Things and people that were unacceptable before...unconsciously accepted it, and even became him or her.

31. Facing reality is called bravery, accepting reality is called calmness, and adapting to reality is called transcendence.

32. A person has to experience many things in his life. He must learn to accept all kinds of difficulties in real life, learn to grow, learn to face everything in life with a smile, learn to forget, and learn to empty out. Empty will bring Give us some surprising discoveries.

33. Life is really cruel. Let go of everything. I believe this is the experience of my life. I will gradually see the world clearly, understand and accept it all, and accept my imperfect self. and things.

34. Everyone is not perfect, but they all deserve to be loved. Everyone makes mistakes, so long as they can change.

35. Stubbornness means that sometimes, even though we clearly know the truth, answers, and results. But he was desperately looking for excuses and loopholes in his heart, even hoping for illusory opportunities and unwilling to accept the reality. In this sense, everyone is stubborn sometimes, and the people and things that make you stubborn are the ones that are most important to you.

36. As long as you are human, you will not be perfect, you will make mistakes, and there will be countless opportunities for you to fall. Be brave enough to accept your imperfections and recognize your shortcomings. Accepting one's own failures is a kind of maturity, and it is also a kind of wisdom.

37. In recent years, I have slowly learned to accept, accept accidents, accept changes, accept misunderstandings, accept that efforts are not rewarded, and accept the reality of society and the weaknesses of human nature. But this does not mean that I have compromised, I will still work hard and love. I am moving towards this goal because I still believe in dreams and miracles.

38. None of us are perfect, but we must accept our imperfect selves. Give yourself comfort when you are lonely; give yourself warmth when you are lonely.

39. Know your shortcomings and never run away from them. Renew yourself every day and accept your imperfections. Still remain confident and optimistic.

40. "I'm fine" tells them that you are becoming more and more accepting of reality, rather than becoming more and more realistic. Sentences to change one's own shortcomings and shortcomings

Sentences to change one's own shortcomings and shortcomings Part 1

1. To truly let nature take its course is to try your best and not force it, not to do anything. A pile of inaction. Instead of complaining about your current life, it is better to work hard to change it.

2. A smile can not only express kindness, but also shorten the distance between people.

3. I try my best to avoid those helpless accidents.

4. Never think that if you work hard to love, there will be results.

5. Changing yourself requires a persistent mentality. It’s not that I changed a little bit today and went back tomorrow. I made a little progress this month, and started to be lazy again next month. If this is the case, you will never change yourself, you will always be stuck in the same place, unable to move forward.

6. If you want to change others, it is better to change yourself first.

7. I like the excitement of the unknown and the calmness of silently adhering to a belief. Whether it’s a violent storm or a huge wave and cold wave. Nothing can stop me from moving forward.

8. In the face of pain and pressure, it is important to learn to adjust yourself.

9. Be your truest self and don’t change yourself for anyone. If you can't accept the worst of me, then you don't deserve the best of me...

10. People, the biggest enemy is always themselves. If you overcome your own shortcomings, you will be the best. The winner!

11. Too many people have developed the habit of finding fault with others and using their own strengths to compare with others' weaknesses. This kind of mental anesthesia can only make themselves more decadent, only retreating instead of moving forward. If we can seriously learn from the strengths of others, we are making progress and changing ourselves.

12. I have tried my best within the limits of what I can forgive.

13. It is better to use your own efforts to ask for help; it is better to change yourself than to ask for help from others.

14. Taking pleasure in doing things and advocating success means being willing to do what you do and working hard to achieve results.

15. Successful people never give up.

16. Since you can’t find a reason to persist, then find yourself a reason to start over.

17. You don’t need to change yourself for anyone, you are the most authentic and beautiful.

18. Xuan must clearly show your care for him in just one sentence.

19. I have tried very hard to learn to forget your smell.

20. Change the environment, or change yourself. Instead of changing your environment, improve yourself. Sentences about changing your shortcomings and shortcomings Part 2

21. You said money can’t buy time? "Network administrator! Add two dollars." You said money can't buy love? "Mother-in-law, this is my gift."

22. The strong is not necessarily the winner, the winner must be the strong.

23. For you, I tried hard to change myself and move in the direction you wanted, but I lost my soul; for you, I actively faced reality and seriously gave you the life you wanted, but I had no choice but to run. My footsteps cannot keep up with the rhythm of your imagination; for you, I have hurt myself thousands of times, and countless despairs have turned you into an inertial pain in my heart... I don’t want to struggle anymore, I really want to stop, just for Touch the wound and give yourself a touch of warmth.

24. There was an accident in our love, and I am trying to save it.

25. Each of us has advantages, more or less, deep or shallow, but they will all be revealed inadvertently. We can only consolidate it deeply by moving towards our shining point of departure. That might surprise even you!

26. Intelligence depends on hard work, and knowledge depends on daily accumulation.

27. You can’t change the environment, but you can change yourself; you can’t change the past, but you can change the present; you can’t control others, but you can master yourself; you can’t predict tomorrow, but you can grasp today; you You cannot extend the length of life, but you can determine the width of life.

28. Everything I do, everything I try to change myself, is all for you.

29. Men and women, you should live a good life. Try to be happy.

30. Life is like a maze. We spend the first half of our lives looking for the entrance and the second half of our lives looking for the exit.

31. If something happens, if you like it, then enjoy it; if you don’t like it, then avoid it; if you can’t avoid it, then change it; if you can’t change it, then accept it.

32. As long as you can persist in lofty ideals and have the will to never stop until the goal is achieved, you can produce amazing power.

33. Don’t complain about your environment. If you can’t change the environment, then change your mentality.

34. If you want to stand in front of others with your head held high, you must first make efforts.

35. If you can’t change the direction of the wind, you have to find a way to adjust the sails; if you can’t change the outcome of things, you need to change your mentality.

36. Sometimes a woman needs a man, just like an escapee needs a parachute. If he is not here at this moment, he will not be there in the future.

37. The harder you work, the better your luck will be. Luck is always hidden in hard work.

38. If you can't change reality, then you have to learn to change yourself.

39. I have been working hard to move forward and see all the scenery along the way.

40. Happiness makes women learn to enjoy, misfortune makes men learn to work hard. Forty beautiful sentences for women to express themselves

One beautiful sentence for women to express themselves

1. In the past, we cherished it very much, but it was slowly peeled away by the invisible hand of time. The aura of love was lost, and the original vows were reduced to crystal shards of glass. Love has to be washed away in time, either settling into a yellowed photo, or blooming in our simple lives. We did not meet by chance, and happiness is not a momentary feeling. It melts into the sweetness of our holding hands and into the seemingly mottled life.

2. Don’t be too concerned about face... Time gradually takes away the youth and frivolity! Solitude is also a necessary space for the growth of the soul: don't get into trouble; don't always take things seriously. If you care too much about the trivial things around you, you will be alone with yourself because of small mistakes! I gradually became aware of the warmth and coldness, so I could only calm down...

3. The accumulation of time will always leave some sour and bitter taste.

4. Life is full of twists and turns, with thorns and tears along the way. It is interesting to deal with it calmly. Don’t be negative and don’t give up. Be steady and be blessed.

5. You were once the scenery in my eyes, when acacia trees were planted all over my heart.

6. When your own abilities cannot satisfy your desires, please calm down and calm yourself down...

7. After seeing too much reinforced concrete, I want to go out more and get closer to nature. , breathe fresh air, let yourself settle down more, calm down and think more, what is tranquility and far-reaching.

8. You must settle yourself.

Calm down and do every little thing well.

9. Constant determination, love gradually deepens, and time slowly precipitates feelings. The true love committed to each other, the act of staying together in the morning and evening, and the desire to hold hands morning and evening. Your heart is imprinted on my heart, my heart is attached to your heart, and we blend together, and love gradually grows into an evergreen pine tree.

10. We live tiredly because we are obsessed with the past, hesitant about the present, and worried about tomorrow. The past, good or bad, cannot be changed. If you have experience, learn from it. If you have lessons, learn from them. There is no use in thinking about it too much or regretting too much. Now, you must know how to accept and face it. As long as you work hard, persist, and are in place, The rest is left to the outside world to judge; the future has not yet come, and can be designed and imagined, but it is better to wait than to go too far.

11. It’s the New Year, so let’s put aside the impetuosity of the year, calm down and see what’s settled in your heart?

12. Life has its length; life has its joys and sorrows; life, instead of constantly pursuing it and being unable to satisfy it, then it is better to settle yourself first and see clearly the true needs deep in your heart. As long as you are willing to open your closed heart, experience and embrace the happiness in front of you, you will live richer and happier than others.

13. I would say that people who don’t like to talk suddenly talk more to cope with it, talk less but still sincerely, and stay silent to calm themselves.

14. Life requires precipitation, and tranquility can lead to long-term success. Life requires reflection and looking back often, in order to be able to sublimate through the taste of gains and losses, joys and sorrows. Looking forward is dreams and goals; looking backward is testing and correction. There are so many things that if you look back at them, you will do better; how many decisions you can make if you look back at them, how many mistakes and regrets can be avoided. Looking back, the road ahead is actually written behind you.

15. Life is very long, so long that there are many unpredictable variables. Only when we have accumulated enough and developed enough ability to withstand wind and rain, can we face life with a smile at all times, and we may be the one who laughs in the end.

16. Before going to bed, I accidentally heard a program on Himalayas. It was originally meant to be a lullaby, but unexpectedly, listening to it triggered in-depth thinking. The program touches on topics such as how to improve yourself in the workplace and how to do things most efficiently, as well as about growth and attitude towards work. Suddenly I found that I have been so busy that I haven't calmed down for a long time. Every day when I wake up, all I think about is to go to work quickly so as not to be late, and what to eat for lunch... After get off work, it’s dinner, and then I can only spare a little time to focus on my little hobbies such as photography, handicrafts, etc. Weekends are spent cleaning up the house and visiting the elderly...

17. Don’t fill your life with decadence, don’t spend your days with laxity, don’t use impossibility as an excuse for success; suffering in life is the only way to go. , but you always need to smile to deal with it. Such a life is wonderful and unforgettable!

18. The memory of cocooning, the thoughts of knotting rope; after the pain, the person of yesterday died sadly.

19. Many people who have achieved certain achievements started from scratch in the early stages of their careers, settling themselves down again, emptying themselves out again, emptying themselves out again, returning to zero and returning to zero again, and only then did their lives prosper all the way. , flying all the way.

20. Many people who have achieved certain achievements start from scratch in the early stages of their careers, and then they settle down, settle down, empty themselves out, empty back to zero, and then return to zero again. Only then will their lives be filled with joy and success. Flying. Part Two of Beautiful Sentences for Women to Precipitate Theirself

21. When your ability is not worthy of your ambition, you can only calm down and settle down. Only you can fulfill yourself.

22. Life is very long, so long that there are many unpredictable variables. Only when we have accumulated enough and developed enough ability to withstand wind and rain, can we face life with a smile at all times, and we may be the one who laughs last.

23. One bottle does not ring, but half the bottle sloshes. People who talk a lot are too impetuous, using too much energy to speak and too little energy to do. In the days to come, I hope to be able to calm down and calm down, without fear or panic. Only by being quiet can you settle down to a better self.

24. Calm down and settle yourself down. Three or two years later, when you think about the good and bad times ahead, you must be laughing at yourself again.

25. Like a fish, it struggles silently in the darkness with an uncertain rhythm, shouts, sighs, until it dies in silence. But every scale on its body has traces of time.

26. Come on May, I hope I can become a better version of myself every day, calm down, settle down, seize every opportunity that allows me to grow, and say thank you to those who have helped me recently gratitude.

27. We don’t know what is at the end of the road. We only know that there are our expectations in the distance, leading us to move forward. In the process of moving forward, you will always encounter unforgettable people and things. In the passing years, you will experience beautiful scenery and unknowingly hold a wisp of emotion from the depths of your soul that slows down your pace. You are confused and hesitant. Many Indescribable reluctance, a lot of indescribable helplessness, and feelings that are difficult to let go. If you are not a saint, you must learn an ordinary detachment, and watch the clouds and clouds go and stay in a state of inadvertence.

Behind the seemingly gorgeous turn, who can understand the silent pain? Behind the tears, there is nothing but silence and untouchable scars, but I have to pick up my bags, pack my mind and move on. This is life! However, it is this short period of stagnation that makes people realize the joys and sorrows of life and the helplessness of life. I realized how difficult it is to let go in life, and that life is between gains and losses, so I always leave some sighs in my heart. The beauty of life's shortcomings allows us to learn to use calm thinking to settle the beauty and complexity we encounter in life.

28. Sometimes life needs to settle down, and you need to have enough time to reflect in order to make yourself more perfect.

29. When a goal or intention clearly occupies the mind, its precipitation is only a matter of time.

30. Shenzhen is a prosperous big city. The fast pace of life keeps me accelerating the pace of progress, but the reality is always cruel and makes me unable to see the road ahead clearly. However, there is only silence. Decide to calm down your heart and see what you really need so that you won't be confused and insecure!

31. I felt like a fly. I was hit countless times by a fly swatter but didn’t die. In the end, I suddenly realized that my problem was not why I didn’t die, but that I was beaten like this. Look, why do you still stay under this beat?

32. When your talent is not enough to support your ambition, calm down and settle yourself. This is what I have said the most to myself and continue to settle.

33. Set goals for the new year: From now on, you must calm down, settle yourself, work efficiently, exercise mobility and willpower, learn IELTS well, exercise more, and eat more vegetarian food , maintain an optimistic attitude. In short, achieve a high degree of concentration and self-discipline.

34. People need to settle down and have enough time to reflect in order to make themselves more perfect.

35. No matter when and where, no matter whether you are slandered or praised, you must have a peaceful and comfortable heart, remind yourself at all times, and settle down.

36. We have become the end of our respective lives, and memories are just embarrassing jokes.

37. If the water settles in the sand while it is flowing, it will never see the sun.

38. When you are not qualified to pick and choose, take a long time to calm down and settle yourself.

39. Sometimes love needs an anchor to give it a downward force and let it settle, so that it will not be so happy that it has no direction and is so happy that it will be destroyed. This anchor is responsibility.

40. Living is a state of mind. In life, instead of constantly pursuing and being unable to satisfy, it is better to calm yourself first and see clearly the true needs deep in your heart. As long as you are willing to open your closed heart, experience and embrace the happiness in front of you, you will live richer and happier than others. A summary of forty classic sayings about realizing that one is getting older

A summary of classic sayings about realizing that one is getting older (Part 1)

1. The twilight is all around, walking at the end of the year In the sound of the wind, the cold moon is like frost, and the chill penetrates my heart. I wrap my clothes tightly and walk on a journey alone. I have to learn to warm myself. In such a big city, you can come and go as you please, whether you are a comer or a goer, you are just a passer-by.

2. We cannot stop aging, we can only keep our mind young. We cannot reduce our age, we can only keep our bodies healthy. As middle-aged people, you and I have to accept the fact that we are no longer young.

3. Time flies by, and time is fleeting. As we grow older, the feeling of missing our old friends becomes more and more intense. Occasionally, I am reminded of my dreams, and I express my feelings today as a mark of remembrance.

4. As I get older, I know more and see more, but I am less happy.

5. As I get older, I can’t stand it anymore until I yawn all the time and can’t open my eyelids.

6. You may be really lacking and too willful, so you must write down your expressed thoughts. At such an old age, you shouldn't make all kinds of compromises, but you just can't do it. Go to sleep and write what you have written, no regrets.

7. The world of mortals, the bumpy road of life, and the trivial affairs often make people dizzy and even lose themselves. Those mundane affairs that are constantly cut into chaos will always come unexpectedly. Come and stir up the originally peaceful inner lake, creating layers of ripples.

8. Now that I am one year older, I must move on firmly. Another year older, I have to bear all the setbacks. Another year older, I must live a noble life.

9. When you get older, you are particularly fragile. If you encounter any trouble, you will cry behind your back. After getting sick, she became even more pretentious. She was afraid of pain and blood. She had to use designated needles for pricking her fingers or putting in intravenous injections.

10. To put it bluntly, I am just being hypocritical. It’s better to think about some things and let them go. Where are those cynical feelings and where are those heart-thumping thoughts? As you get older, just be more prudent.

11. The teacher is old and is not used to online classes. Staring at the screen is too tiring. I am thinking, won’t this be the case when I get older?

12. I am getting older, and I am always used to going to bed early and getting up early. I got up very early today, but I don’t know what to do.

13. I am getting older, and I can’t do anything big, so learn a little bit. Technology, just buy yourself a pension insurance!

14. Only focusing on facial care, but ignoring the neck lines that most easily reveal a woman’s age! It's really sad.

15. Am I getting older? Now I always think about doing meritorious deeds and being kind to every living being.

16. The older I get, the less I like to explain and persuade. Talking is long, life is short, seek common ground while reserving differences, do whatever you like.

17. January 14th seems to have no meaning to me. As I get older, I have taken the holiday lightly.

18. Sunshine, beach, waves, old captain. This is my childhood longing for the beach and the sea. As I grow older, these yearnings become memories.

19. I don’t like to dwell on the past. Because I'm still young. My age does not allow me to be nostalgic.

20. Middle age is an age where one can only sigh but not be moved, an age where there is only sorrow but no anger. Middle age is the age for kissing a woman’s forehead, not her lips. A classic story about realizing that you are getting older (Part 2)

21. Maybe it’s because I’m getting older, and every time I leave home I feel more and more reluctant to leave. Maybe it's because the fighting spirit is no longer as passionate as when he went north, maybe it's because he misses his hometown more and more after leaving home, maybe it's because he has more nostalgia for his relatives and friends, and he just wants to be away for half his life and still a teenager when he returns.

22. Waiting has nothing to do with time, it is a habit. It grew freely, and he was powerless to resist.

23. In the journey of life, everyone will be born, old, sick, and dead. Everyone will reach the end station and must get off the bus. There are no exceptions. Cherish every day.

24. As I get older, I snore at night. Once my sleep is disturbed, it is difficult to fall asleep. I have too much mood swings. I lose my temper easily. I lose my patience. I am anxious, loveless, resentful of my wife, everything. Not all goes well!

25. When you grow up, you realize that fear does not decrease as you grow older. Instead, you become more timid because of reluctance and fear. When the unexpected comes, there is no way to avoid it. What should you do?

26. As we grow older, it becomes easier to recall the past, the pressure increases, and we yearn to return to our childhood. When I think of my childhood innocence, I smile crazily.

27. The years pass by leisurely, and there is no time to sigh. Before you know it, you will be middle-aged and old in a flash. Those grievances and grudges have long since disappeared.

28. Started using different eye creams and staying up the same night. As I get older, I can no longer rest on time. All right. Good night, Zhenjiang.

29. Before you know it, half of your life has passed. As if in the blink of an eye, our lives have drawn another annual ring.

30. As I grow older and gain more experience, I get to know some people, see some people clearly, and understand how to guard against them. In the future, I will only cherish those who are good to me and those who have helped me.

31. When you reach a certain age, you must throw away four things: meaningless drinking parties, people who don’t love you, relatives who look down on you, and hypocritical friends.

32. As you get older, your personality becomes simpler, and you like to be quiet more. You don’t want to understand others, and you don’t want to be understood. When you encounter people and things you don’t like, you don’t want to say a word.

33. The years are passing by, and I am afraid, but I am not afraid that the years will steal my beauty and youth! I am afraid that time will make my parents grow old, but I have nothing to do.

34. I never imagined what I would be like when I reached the age I am now, but in the blink of an eye, I have really reached this age.

35. The age when we should be having fun is why we are so preoccupied; the youth when we are supposed to be indulgent is why we can only resign ourselves to fate.

36. During the Spring Festival, adults play cards, and children play and set off firecrackers everywhere. It’s very embarrassing for people of our age who don’t have a partner.

37. I finally understand why adults don’t let minors fall in love, because we at this age should not have to bear this.

38. Don’t expect too much that someone will remember your birthday. Remembering your age is the greatest comfort.

39. Girls have reached the age where they should be beautiful, so let’s do it hard.

40. I don’t know if it’s because I’m older or, in short, I saw what I should see at the beginning. The sobriety of staying out of things is like the desolate wind blowing on the streets in autumn.