When you are enjoying it, you must think more about whether it will bring you great long-term pain and misfortune. People who only care about temporary happiness without caring about anything can only bring themselves great pain and misfortune. Those who violate laws and disciplines and end up in jail, ruined their reputations, or even lose their property and life are the best examples. In addition, those who are greedy and ignore their health are only looking for temporary happiness. There are also those people who are playful and "don't work hard when they are young". They only want to be happy when they are young, and in the end they can only end up as "old people and sad people".
Patience determines happiness. "A little impatience will mess up a big plan." This is an ancient saying that everyone knows about the importance of patience in strategy. In fact, he has a great influence on people's happiness and happiness. We all know that the quality of interpersonal relationships (including between family members and relatives) is one of the main factors that determines the quality of a person's mood. In other words, without good interpersonal relationships, it is difficult for us to be happy and happy; with good interpersonal relationships, we can often feel happy and happy. And good interpersonal relationships are closely related to the patience of people who interact with each other. Maybe everyone has personal experience about this, so I won’t say much. I just want to tell two true stories here: 1. An old couple loved each other and spent more than seventy years together. Spring and Autumn. When reporters asked them the secret of their love, they replied "patience". 2. There is a big family, with four generations living under the same roof, more than 30 people, old and young, and they are very harmonious. When a reporter asked them the secret of their harmony, the answer was "patience." Things are easy to collide with each other, and people are prone to conflict when they are close to each other. Only seeking common ground while reserving minor differences - patience is the panacea for solving the problem of bad interpersonal relationships.
The best way to live is to let nature take its course and work hard. Neither lamenting fate nor complaining about the times, if a fish is swimming in the water, if a tiger is running in the mountains, if an eagle is flying in the sky. If you understand what you are doing, you will understand the path you should take, and you can feel at ease and stick to the life path you choose. You will create endless fun in your life, and you will develop endless happiness and joy in your progress.
When the sun shines through the window every day, I am happy; when I overcome a problem after some hard thinking, I am happy; when I see others smiling because of my help, I am happy. I am a person who loves to create happiness. Happiness will flow and spread because of me or you.
Happiness is like a breeze, blowing away the dark clouds that hang over people's hearts; happiness is like fine wine, the longer it brews, the more mellow its flavor becomes; happiness is like a stream, only when it flows into the sea can you feel your existence better; happiness is like a stream, which only flows into the sea. Like a drink, it has an alluring coolness as soon as it is opened.
Those who love their career and go all out are happy, but those who always envy others when looking at the heights of mountains will not feel happy.
Happiness in life does not lie in being loved, but in loving others wholeheartedly. As long as you do this, you will feel that you are a happy person.
In order to find happiness, you have traveled all over the world, but you have never found it. In fact, as long as you have a contented heart, happiness is within you.
Fame and wealth can only bring us short-term happiness; only a peaceful mind and love for work can bring us eternal joy.
Life is not about how long or short you live, but about how early or late your enlightenment is. Life is not used to correct others’ right or wrong, but to practice your own wonderful life!