1, forget yourself for a while and be interested in others! Do something that makes others laugh every day.

2. The most important thing is not to see what is vague in the distance, but to do what is clear in front of you.

Whether life is happy or not depends entirely on one's views on people, things and things, because life is caused by thoughts.

4. Talking too much will hurt people. Smart people think more, not talk more.

The biggest difference between winners and losers is that winners will try to benefit from failure and then try other methods.

6. When necessary, we can endure disasters and tragedies and overcome them. We often think we can't do it In fact, we have great power in our hearts, as long as we know how to make good use of it. Because we are much stronger than we thought.

It is strange that when happiness is in front of us, we seldom grasp it, and we don't realize it until it disappears.

8. I have some suggestions about the art of smiling:

First of all, you must keep a correct attitude towards the world and mankind. You can't really succeed without this. However, just a smile is still beneficial, because the happiness it brings to others will eventually come back to you like a boomerang, giving others a happy feeling and recognizing that you are happy, so you can smile sincerely soon. When you smile, you are smoothing the unhappiness and affectation in your heart. Smiling at others is equivalent to vaguely telling him that you like him, at least to some extent, he will receive this meaning, and because he likes you more, he should try to form the habit of smiling! You won't lose anything.

9. One of the most effective ways to win friendship and influence others. Take others seriously. Ideas make him feel important.

10, replace criticism with praise. When criticism is reduced and more encouragement and praise are given, people will do more good things and less bad things will be done because they are ignored.

1 1, praise the smallest achievement and praise every progress. Sincere recognition, generous praise, give him a good name and let him work hard for it.

12, take care of others' face and make others willing to accept your suggestion; To the nobility? Title? Make it play a high sense of responsibility and honor.

13, the secret of coordinating interpersonal relationships is that the way to let a person give full play to his ability is appreciation and encouragement. Sincere praise can get results, but criticism and ridicule will make things worse.

14, be able to express your wishes in tone, and don't be unpredictable. Some people think that ambiguity is a skill, but it is actually quite clumsy. People who really know how to use entertainment technology will open their positions quickly.

15. Keep a secret. If a person can't keep a secret, he will find many mistakes anyway. Don't talk too much, try to get others to talk more.

16, relax and entertain yourself. Don't waste time on unnecessary troubles. You can use other people's happiness to be happy for yourself, care about others and forget your existence. Do good deeds every day and make people around you laugh because of your good deeds.

17, smile and accept what has happened, and dare to face the unchangeable facts.

18. Immature people can always regard their unique places as defects and obstacles, and then expect that they can get special treatment. Mature people are not. They first realize their differences, and then see whether to accept or improve.

19. Turn belief into action, people will not fall down because of lack of confidence, but we can't turn belief into action and persist regardless.

20, looking for beautiful scenery, thinking about happy things, the mood will naturally become happy.

2 1, don't expect returns in advance: instead of worrying about ingratitude, don't expect returns in advance; The only way to get happiness is not to expect others' gratitude, but to get happiness in the process of giving; The heart of gratitude is cultivated, so to let children know how to be grateful, they must be taught to cultivate the concept of gratitude.

22. Improve bad work habits and its four aspects: only put the documents being processed on the desk; Start with important work; When you encounter problems, try to solve them on the spot, especially when you have enough information, you need to take immediate action; Learn to organize, authorize and supervise.

23. Among all communication skills, the most important one is the ability to listen. The ability to speak loudly, have a loud voice, be proficient in many languages and even write is not more important than listening.

24. My motto is: first of all, honesty; Second, diligence; Third, specialization.

25. A person who doesn't pay attention to small things will never achieve great things.

26. Being modest on the road of life means being broad, overcoming all difficulties and removing all entanglements.

If we want to make friends, we must do something for others first, which requires time, energy, consideration and dedication.

27. Only 15% of a person's career success is due to his professional skills, and the other 85% must be tolerant of interpersonal relationships and external skills. Soft and hard are relative. Professional skills are hard skills, and communicative skills that are good at dealing with interpersonal relationships are soft skills.

28. move towards a certain goal? Pool? Never give up halfway? Gas? What do these two add up to? Ambition? . This is the success or failure of all undertakings.

29. Today is so precious that it is not worth wasting for painful troubles and regrets. Keep your chin up and keep an open mind, just like a sparkling water hole in the spring. Seize today, because it is gone forever.

30. The best way to forgive the enemy and forget it is to appeal to a concept that transcends us. When we are obsessed with the pursuit of ideals, all other humiliations are nothing.

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