If a person lacks sensitivity in interpersonal communication, the most intuitive performance is that he has no discretion in doing things, doesn't know the weight of his speech, doesn't understand other people's hints, and even doesn't understand a high-level joke.
In A Brief History of the Future, Herari put forward a formula: knowledge = experience × sensitivity.
Herali said that in this modern age without religious belief, if you want to find the meaning of life, you must have experience and sensitivity. Herari said that sensitivity means that you have to gain experience from experience and transform yourself with experience. You can have a deeper understanding of the world through constant experience and eventually become a better person.
Sensitivity is the self-cultivation of humanists.
Sensitivity can be learned.
If you do something wrong, you can make a self-summary after realizing the serious consequences, and you will be particularly sensitive and do things in a measured way next time you encounter similar things.
We need "deliberate practice" here.
Is sensitivity too high a good thing?
Not exactly.
Some people are sensitive. If someone casually said a word, he thought it was a hint. If someone plays a casual joke, he may get angry. I think some information is best ignored and there is no need to over-interpret it.
You must learn another skill while improving your sensitivity and ignore it.
It is passive neglect to see it but pretend not to see it. Don't look at that aspect at all, that's active neglect. To have such a degree of neglect, we must know what is important and what is not. We should only be sensitive to important things and relax our sensitivity to unimportant things.
So what's important and what's not?
Thinking about things and thinking about ideas is the application of advanced places. Eleanor Roosevelt, the wife of President franklin roosevelt, famously said, "Great minds talk about ideas, medium minds talk about events, and weak minds talk about people."
There is a famous story that Bingji, the prime minister of the Western Han Dynasty, visited a place and met someone fighting in the street. He turned a blind eye and saw a cow that seemed to be sick, but he checked the cow's condition carefully.
The subordinate asked him why he was concerned about such a trivial matter as the cow's illness and didn't fight.
The prime minister said that fighting is a matter for local officials, and "the prime minister doesn't care about trivial matters", but if the cow is sick, it means that the climate may be abnormal this year, which is the big deal.
If you want to get this kind of kung fu, you have to accumulate more practical experience, read more books and learn more about the world.