Dad never liked my husband, but I insisted, and I married him in their opposition.
After all, my family loves my daughter. After marriage, my father gradually accepted him, but they can't talk together, and my husband doesn't want to accommodate my father. Alas, sometimes it's hard to get caught between them.
Later, I asked my dad why he didn't like this son-in-law. Dad said, "Who do you see with others, always shaking his legs, which makes people upset". I feel that he is unreliable. There used to be an old saying that "men are poor and women are cheap", and I am afraid that you will suffer with him.
I really didn't pay attention to what Dad said. When I got home, I sat with him and watched TV. His legs kept shaking. I asked him why, but he said he didn't know, so he got used to it.
I asked him if he was nervous, or if he didn't do something well. He shook his head, sometimes it was normal, but after a while, he began to shake and made me dizzy.
I'm really a thick-line person. I've never paid attention to his actions before, but I just feel that he doesn't like to talk, and he is a very deep person. His home is around our county, and the family conditions are not very good. I am an only child, the baby of my parents. My father is a small leader of the unit, and my mother works in a hospital, and the family conditions are ok.
Maybe when we were in love, he had a sense of inferiority, but I never disliked him. He has been working hard to make progress, which I just appreciate, but my father said that even if he was unreliable, shaking his legs all the time made people feel insecure and dishonest.
I laughed at my dad for getting so many words of wisdom. We were married for two years and there was no problem. Dad just shook his head and said, Who knows what will happen later? Keep an eye on yourself.
Dad's words really made me listen. It's not that I doubt him, but that watching his actions really made me feel a little bad. But he still does that. He likes to shake his legs after sitting for a while. I can't help but remind him that he is still angry and says, "Are you looking down on me and bothering me?" Alas!
suddenly, one day, my friend called me and asked where my husband was. I said he was on a business trip. He went there yesterday. A friend sent me a photo. My husband walked forward with a beautiful woman in his arms. I bought him clothes. Although it was his back, I could see at a glance that it was him.
My friend told me to keep quiet and make plans quickly. Your husband is cheating on me. Don't show his cards to him yet. Please recall his unusual behavior recently.
when I think about it, he loves to travel in recent months. I have never doubted him. He always leaves on Friday afternoon and comes back on Sunday or Monday. Since my father told me that he was unreliable, our wages have been separated. I pay for all the money at home, and he pays for friends outside to socialize and get married. I haven't calculated it carefully. His salary is higher than mine. Does he use it to raise a mistress?
I hung up with my friend, and I immediately called my husband. He said that he was discussing the contract with the client, and he would tell me later. But I waited for 3 minutes and didn't see him call back. I see, he is busy with other people's love affairs, and he has forgotten my words long ago, and he has paid no attention to me in his heart.
I only have photos sent by my friends. What should I do? With this in mind, I quickly called my friend and asked her to help me follow my husband. Fortunately, they didn't know each other, but they just went to the scene when they got married. She said that they were going in the same direction, and she recorded a video of them kissing their faces, but they were all in the back.
I said that's ok. I mainly want to check their room records. When I was worried, my friend whispered: We actually stayed in a hotel, and you can check it then. After that, I sent a picture of my husband and that woman entering the hotel intimately.
A day later, when he came home, I watched him quietly, and he was no different from usual. I really don't understand that a man can talk and laugh with his wife as if nothing had happened. I really admire him.
I watched TV and saw him sitting on one side. Soon my legs began to shake, and even the sofa where we were sitting began to move. The more I watched it, the more annoyed I became. I slowly rubbed his heart. When he was shaking, I felt that he was having a fierce ideological struggle. Several times I talked to him, he was absent-minded. I really understand that people who shake their legs are really unreliable, have unstable hearts and feelings, and those who are not focused on their ideas really need to think about it.
He kept shaking his legs, which he had never noticed. I began to hate his move. Once I found out that he was doing something wrong to me, I thought he was planning something, which made me feel bad. What my father said also reminded me that he was really unreliable.
But I don't want to be cheated by him. He can muddle along like this, but I can't. If I didn't know I might still rely on him and trust him, now that I know, I feel I can't stay for a day. I am a straightforward person, and I can't beat around the bush. I can't stand this blatant betrayal, so I sent him a photo of him hugging a woman. He tried his best to explain to me that this was just a customer, and he just took part in accidental amusement because of his work relationship.
I sneer. This is just a customer. It seems that there are many such customers. He spread his hand and shook his head. It's not what you think. I'm not sorry for you. Listening to his sophistry, I am really speechless. What does a man think if he betrays his wife and doesn't get divorced?
because there is still love? I don't believe that if you love this family and your wife, it is impossible to let your spirit and soul run away. I have my own bottom line. It is not impossible to get along with the opposite sex, but I should pay attention to my discretion. Holding hands and kissing like this is beyond my boundaries. I insist on divorce. Even if you are not cheating, I can't accept such a thing.
I believe you all know what happened afterwards. We divorced, and he moved out of our house. My parents bought this house, and he decorated it at that time. He left without saying anything. I'm really sad.
No wonder Dad said he was unreliable. I was really blind and didn't see the other side of him. Fortunately, we have only been married for two years and have no children. Otherwise, the future life will definitely be more difficult.
What do you think of people who shake their legs? Is it really unreliable? Welcome to discuss messages!