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There will always be a period of confusion in life, like a dark night where you can’t see your fingers, you can’t see where you are coming from, and you can’t find where you are going.
The future and hope are shrouded in darkness, and I am confused but unable to do anything. I want to change the status quo, but I don’t know where to start.
My heart always yearns for the place where the light is, but I just can’t get out of this chaotic place that traps me.
That time was bitter, difficult, and painful, but it was also full of opportunities and challenges.
When you feel confused, if you want to get out of the predicament, you must not only extract the essence from the principles and find a way that suits you, but also put your words into action.
The reason for confusion is not that you can’t, but that you dare not.
You are afraid, maybe you are afraid of failure and losing everything you have, or maybe you are afraid that you will make a wrong choice and embark on a difficult path.
In short, you dare not take the first step.
There are worries in my heart, but no action in my body. Everything is just my fantasy. Facing the unbearable things in front of me, I want to change, but the reality is that it is ruined.
Over time, the confusion will not dissipate, but will be deeply rooted in your heart.
If you really have nothing to do, it is better to listen to Mr. Yang Jiang’s motto and read between the lines to find the strength to support you in getting rid of the current situation.
"There is a kind of open-mindedness, which is called accepting the impermanence of life."
Most people living in this world are running around for life every day, but they can still only become unknown members of this world.
Countless efforts and sweat still cannot bring you the life you want. Even though you try your best to change, you still cannot get rid of the control of fate.
Are their efforts not enough? No, it's not, because life is like a wild horse that runs wild and is not under anyone's control.
Good people may not necessarily be rewarded, and bad people may not be punished as they deserve. All wishes are just words people use to comfort themselves and others.
Those beautiful thoughts are not wrong, but a few words can't change anything. When the situation is a foregone conclusion, whether it is regret or regret, it has no effect on changing the status quo.
Time will not stop because of a person's sadness. Life must continue despite crying and pain.
Even if my heart is full of sorrow, I still have to face every sunrise that will eventually come.
Whether it is with a new attitude or a sad face, life has to go on. Too much struggle will only prolong the depression in the heart and keep the wounds in the heart from scabbing for a long time.
There are too many unexpected things in life that cannot be predicted and cannot be prevented in advance.
The world is impermanent and fate is unreasonable. Rather than struggling needlessly, it is better to let nature take its course and live a good life.
Later on, you will always understand that life is impermanent and everything that happens to you is destined. Those accidents are your disaster in this life and you cannot escape it.
Anyway, letting go of being unable to control life, whether the next second will be painful or happy is actually not that important.
Instead of worrying about the unknown future, focus on the present. Do what you want to do, do what you can do, no matter what happens in the future, at least for this moment, for the present, you have no regrets.
Life is full of ups and downs. Unpredictable storms are disasters on the road of life, but they are also opportunities to fight back.
If difficulties cannot knock you down, you will become braver and stronger after rebirth.
Life does not always mean that everything you wish for comes true. It is unrealistic to seek the best result in everything. When you feel helpless, confused, and unable to see the hope of life, it is precisely when you are most disappointed. Good growth opportunities.
If things go smoothly for too long, people will lose their sense of worry, just like a frog in warm water, which is destined to not have a good outcome.
I am confused because I still have hope in my heart, but I am just afraid of change. But you always have to take the first step and step out of your comfort zone to completely break this curse and find your own direction.
Staying where you are, thinking about it over and over again, and then giving up again and again, you will always feel confused.
Life is impermanent, and it often brings hardships and tests to people, not because they deliberately make things difficult for you, but because they hope you can become a better version of yourself.
Calm down and ask yourself, what kind of person are you, what kind of person do you want to be, and you have the answer in your heart. Don’t worry about the final result, just move in that direction.
It doesn’t matter if you make a mistake, there is always a chance to start over. Choosing the wrong direction is not a failure. Staying where you are and not wanting to change is the biggest failure.
There will be a solution to all the trials and tribulations life throws at you, and the answer lies in your heart.
Listen to yourself, understand yourself, and accept everything that happens now. Don’t complain, don’t complain, don’t be a coward, and don’t be a person who can only think about things. Accept what fate has to offer. Make arrangements, follow the voice of your heart to find a way out in life, time will always give you the answer.
When you feel confused, please remember Mr. Yang Jiang’s life motto: There is a kind of open-mindedness, which is called accepting the impermanence of life.
For the rest of your life, just accept everything in life. Give and accept destiny.