2. Loneliness comes from love, and people without love will not be lonely. Perhaps loneliness is the most meaningful gift of love. People who receive this gift have learned to love themselves and understand other lonely souls and the deep love hidden in them, thus establishing a precious spiritual world for themselves.
3. I always believe that all noble feelings are ashamed to express themselves, and all profound experiences are poor at words.
4. Love often takes people away, leaving an empty body, and then leaves. Therefore, smart people are always wary of love, think twice before you act, or even simply not.
5. Only what you are willing to die for can you live by it.
6. Life dies peacefully, without sound, waves or even ripples. How I hate this flat river bed, it absorbs any feeling. Suddenly, encountering obstacles, the rocks rose, and the wind was blowing, throwing up waves. Am I alive? Yes, that's when I feel alive.
7. The lowest level of life is ordinary, followed by extraordinary and refined, and the highest level is ordinary.
8. People's most precious things are life and mind. If you take good care of your life and settle your heart, your life will be complete.
9. A mediocre soul has no connotation worthy of being understood by others, so it won't feel really lonely. Loneliness is a soul worthy of understanding, seeking understanding but not getting it. It is tragic. Boredom is an empty mind seeking recreation but not getting it. It is comic. Loneliness is to seek the warmth of ordinary people, but it is not available. It is neutral. However, people often confuse them and even pretend to be lonely with boredom.
1. Men are lonely and create culture in loneliness. Women are gregarious and spread culture in gregarious.
11. Love means feeling distressed for no reason and tolerating without preconditions.
12. What an ordinary and unique life everyone is. Originally, there was no name, but it was touching.
13. I don't believe that one can only love once in one's life, nor do I believe that one must love many times in one's life. The number of times doesn't matter. The capacity of love is the capacity of a person's mind: you are a deep valley, once love is like a river, many times love is like many times waves; You are a shoal, once love is just a trickle, and many times love is just many bubbles.
14. As soon as people value opportunities, they will inevitably be dominated by them.
15. Being alone is really a test. It can be used to measure the depth of a person's soul and how he really feels about himself. A person who doesn't even love himself, I'm sure he won't be of much value to others, and he can't have high-quality social interaction. The quality of all communication depends on the quality of the participants themselves. Only in two people with rich souls can there be truly touching love and friendship.
16, a person whose soul has awakened, you won't laugh at and hurt others, because you know, in fact, others are just the most sensitive you attached to another body.
17. Don't tell me: Suffering purifies the soul, while tragedy ennobles people. In silence, how many sensitive hearts have been dulled by suffering, and how many frustrated heroes have been destroyed by tragedy. Why use the vivid pictures on the stage to cover up the silence in life!
18. It is rude for you to possess a woman's * *, but it is even more terrible for you not to possess it in the future. The former only violated her sense of shame, while the latter violated her self-esteem.
19. From the perspective of the vast universe, each of us is indeed a helpless orphan, who came into the world by accident and inevitably left. It is precisely because of this fundamental lonely situation that there is the value and reason of love. Everyone is an orphan, so everyone longs for love and pain.
2. Life is purely accidental, so every life must be attached to another life, live alone and walk together. Life is purely accidental, so every life does not belong to another life, like a gust of wind, without attachment.
21. I only want to keep the true colors of a life, and the innocence of being able to listen to other lives quietly makes other lives willing to listen quietly. The happiness in this is far from being comparable to flashy and fame.
22. There are two kinds of people, one has a past, and the other has no past. People with past events love life and deeply regret the passage of time, so they cherish all their experiences in the barn of their hearts with a special love. A man who has no past cares nothing about the passage of time. This numbness makes him despise everything. Everything he has experienced is like a passing smoke, drifting away with the wind, leaving nothing behind.
23, the young mind should not be as still as water, and the waves can't afford it. The world belongs to young people, and it is a necessary experience in life to travel to the vast world while young.
24. I don't know what love is. I only know that if that face doesn't make you feel a kind of sweet melancholy, a kind of attachment sorrow, then you certainly don't have love.
25. Reading is talking with great souls in history, so as to "take for yourself" the spiritual wealth created by human beings. Writing is talking with one's own soul, so as to turn external life experiences into internal spiritual wealth. Faith is talking with God in your heart, so as to accumulate "the wealth in heaven". These are three indispensable conversations in life, and all three conversations are carried out in solitude.
26. Almost all people call the unattainable realm they yearn for "happiness".
27. People who have never been lovelorn don't understand love, and those who have never been frustrated don't understand life.
28, the best state of life is rich and quiet.
29. The reason why melodramatic is terrible is that it is mediocre but insists on pretending to be unique, so it is dishonest mediocrity.
3. There must be two selves in me. An active person wants to try everything and experience everything. The other is quiet, examining and digesting everything.
31. If you want peace, get married; If you want to be free, you should be single.
32. Time flies and the world is noisy. I should be on my own guard. It is not easy to keep a childlike interest and leisure in my life journey. If one day I just bury myself in all kinds of affairs in my life, and I am no longer interested in watching the scenery along the way by the window and listening to my inner music, then I will be really old-fashioned, and that will disappoint my beautiful trip.
33. People often regard communication as a kind of ability, but ignore that solitude is also a kind of ability, and it is more important than communication in a certain sense. If being unsociable is a weakness of personality, then being intolerant of loneliness is simply a defect of the soul.
34. Everyone's eyes are open, but that doesn't mean everyone is looking at the world. Many people hardly look with their own eyes. They only listen to what others say, and the world they see is always what others say.
35. If I were a woman, I would be happy to make friends with artists and listen to them talk about their works, complain and talk crazy. But I will never marry him. Reading artists' works is enjoyment, but living with artists is suffering. Most artists' love ends in misfortune, and the responsibility is never on women. There is hell in his heart, and no one can lead him to heaven.
36. All noble feelings are ashamed to express themselves, and all profound experiences are poor at words. People who are deeply saddened will abuse their fate with laughter and cover up their sadness with smiles. A clown may know more about the sadness of life than a hero.
37. We walked side by side in the dark and walked on our respective pilgrimage paths.
38, love is distressed. You can like many people, but only one is distressed.
39. Life is short. However, in a short life, there are many times you have to endure, endure them and flow slowly, until finally there is another stone of events to stir up the waves of life.
4. I don't feel my existence when I am with people who are too strong. With people who are too weak, I will only feel my own existence. Only when I am close to the strong and weak, can I feel the existence of two people at the same time, and there are infinite possibilities between the two points.
41. It may be said that a person's experience of loneliness is directly proportional to his experience of love, and the depth of his loneliness roughly determines his love capacity. On the other hand, the same is true. Isn't the unfathomable loneliness of those great souls in the history of human thought and art derived from the boundless love that can't be satisfied by limited worldly things?
42. People who were very close to each other were separated from each other, and time made them sadly alienated. Once they met, language could not wait to measure the distance of alienation. People seem to have become accustomed to this, and the ruthlessness of life is nothing more than this.
43. Don't care too much about some people. The more you care, the more humble you are.
44. If you feel estranged, the premise should be that you have the desire to communicate. You won't feel estranged with those you didn't expect to communicate with.
45, love is demanding, because demanding is short; Friendship is tolerant because it lasts for a long time.
46. The external eyes see the phenomenon and the internal eyes see the essence. Many times, our inner eyes are closed. So, we see the benefits, but we can't see the truth, see everything, but we can't see beauty, see the world, but we can't see God. Our days are full, our lives are empty, our minds are full, but our hearts are empty.
47. As for interpersonal relationships, I have gradually summed up a principle that is most in line with my temperament, that is, mutual respect, intimacy and closeness. I believe that all good friendships are formed naturally, not deliberately. I also believe that even a good friend should have a distance, and too lively friendship is often empty.
48. Every time I go to a strange city, my habit is to walk around. My curiosity drives me to explore the busy streets and lonely corners here. On the way, it is inevitable to get lost temporarily, but you must be sure and confident that you can remember the route back to your residence, otherwise you will feel insecure. I think life is the same.
49. When I came to the world, I was attracted and intoxicated by a few hearts. I had no time to be satisfied or bored, and I left in a hurry, leaving a little confusion in the world.
5. People with extroverted personalities tend to get many friends, but there are always few true friends. Introverts are lonely, and once they get friends, it is often true.
51. Loneliness and noise are unbearable. If I have to endure it, I would rather choose loneliness.
52. Love is not only an adventure in the opposite sex world, which brings surprises of discovery, but also a settlement around a certain opposite sex, which brings peace to the home. But exploration is not curiosity, and settlement is not possession. Rather, good love is free and easy for both parties to take freedom as the highest gift, and never abuse this freedom.
53. Good love is resilient and can be pulled away, but it can't stop. Lovers do not bind each other, which is a sign of their confidence in love. No one restricts anyone, and in the end, no one can live without anyone. This is true love.
54. People have three states in loneliness. One is nervous, confused, careless, and bent on escaping from loneliness. Second, gradually get used to loneliness, settle down, establish the order of life, and use reading, writing or other affairs to drive out loneliness. Third, loneliness itself becomes a poetic soil, an opportunity for creation, which induces deep thinking and experience about existence, life and self.
55. As long as a person knows what he really wants and finds the life that suits him best, all the excitement and excitement of the outside world really become irrelevant to him. Your body runs around the world as much as possible, and your mood can fluctuate in the world of mortals. The key is that your spirit must have a quiet core. With this core, you can become the master of your rushing body and ups and downs.
56. When another life, a life that is too strange to even know its name, finds your life far away but so close, and sends an unrequited response to your life through secular utilitarianism and the appearance of culture, isn't this a touching fortune in life?
57. When everyone is born into this world, there must be a most suitable position for him, just waiting for him to claim it one day. Whether a position is the most suitable for him should ask his life and soul to see if they are happy.
58. Loneliness is human destiny, which is based on the fact that each of us is an accidental existence in this world. We have come from nothing and have to return to nothing, and nothing can change our destiny.
59. I am on my own road. Success and failure, happiness and difficulties have all been reduced to very secondary things. The most important thing is the road itself.
6. People will always be children, and no one will grow up. Some people keep the child's mind, while others keep the child's brain. In the end, you are either naive or senile.
61. Sincerity will be ridiculous if you don't talk about the object and the sense of proportion. Sincerity is played with, and its embarrassment is no less than hypocrisy being exposed.
62. I am not sociable by nature. On most occasions, I either find the other person boring or I am afraid that the other person will find me boring. But I don't want to put up with each other's boredom, and I don't want to make myself look interesting. That's too tired. I am the most relaxed when I am alone, because I don't feel bored. Even if I am bored, I will bear it myself, without involving others and without feeling uneasy.
63. Being understood is lucky, but not being understood is not necessarily unfortunate. A person who places his own value entirely on the understanding of others is often worthless.
64. A genius who is unlucky will become a mediocrity, and a mediocrity can't become a genius no matter how lucky he is.
65. If you want something too much, you will see it as big, even as big as the whole world, occupying all your thoughts. My advice is that in the end, whether you get what you want or not, you should jump out of it in time and truly see its true position in the whole world, that is, its insignificance in infinite time and space. In this way, you won't get carried away if you get it, and you won't be miserable if you don't get it.
66. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you; Do to others what you want.
67. Any good enjoyment of life depends on a clear heart. When a heart becomes turbid in the inferior excitement, it has no ability to enjoy silence or real carnival.
68. There is one thing in the world that is more loyal to you than anything else, and that is your experience, your feelings and thoughts in the experience. They only belong to you and cannot be transferred to anyone else, but as long as you cherish them, they will be your most reliable wealth, and no one can take them away. However, if you don't cherish it, it will be lost with the years and can't be found anywhere in the world.
69. Writing has never been to influence the world, but only to settle down.
7. To make a long-term marriage, the general principles are intimacy and distance, openness and moderation. The best state is that both sides do not restrict each other's freedom with trust, and at the same time they do not abuse their freedom with cherish.
71. The world is my food.