I once saw Balzac, a great French writer, famously saying about "Desire", "People who are pure in heart and lack desires have a clear luster between their skin, which shows their physical and mental health". China ancient scholar Jie Kang also famously said, "Qing Xu Song Tai, less private desire. Broad-minded without worry, silent without thinking ",it seems that everyone opposes people's desire, and" desire "is like a scourge. Therefore, parents and even officials in China earnestly teach their children and subordinates: "People need less desire to be happy all their lives".

No one in China really teaches their children that they should have desires and strong desires. If any parents teach their children to have desires, they must be deviant. It is said that "the dragon gives birth to the dragon, the phoenix gives birth to the phoenix, and the son of the mouse makes a hole", which means that it is a sin to have desire, and if you teach future generations to have desire, they will become "villains".

Touch your heart and ask yourself, "Do I have desires?" But anyone who says he has no desire must be a liar, or at least a hypocrite, because he doesn't speak the truth.

in winter, it is too cold. One morning, I got out of bed lazily and went downstairs to do morning exercises. Suddenly, I heard the fragrance floating from the top of my head. I looked up, but on the withered and embarrassed branches of Chimonanthus praecox, there were many flowers and bones, some of which were already blooming, yellow, tender, but gorgeous .............................................................................................................................

flowers also have a strong desire to grow and express themselves!

if there is no desire, how can that innate desire crush the tight bark so violently and sprout tender flower buds in the cold winter?

I suddenly realized that everything in the world has desires. Moreover, the stronger the desire, the stronger the viability; The stronger the desire, the stronger the success rate.

Jia Pingwa said in Sitting for a while: "Desire makes people live a unique life". He advocated that people should have desires, and it is precisely because people have desires that they can live a distinctive life. With different desires, everyone's state of existence is completely different.

The body of wealthy businessmen and tycoons can best reflect their desires. The initial desire for money makes them try their best to make friends with all kinds of people, strive for an indescribable road to success, and establish their own money association country, of course, their own industrial empire. Their lives are bloody and oily, of course, and there are also tears ...

The body of high officials and talents can also best reflect their great desires. This desire drives them to forget to find a place to struggle: reading,

increasing knowledge, working, netting, buttering up, humbling themselves ... Finally, they become "people's masters", still look up to the "people's masters" on their heads, and at the same time enjoy the impression of the people below them. In the process of

looking up and being looked up, naturally, many things that are beneficial to society and may also be harmful to society have been done. Anyway, they succeeded, and the mother of success is: desire.

From childhood to adulthood, we are all hearing "ideals" and "beliefs", which are the power sources to inspire people to make progress. In fact, ideals, beliefs and desires should be contained in the same way, and their difference lies in the part of speech.

Ideal and belief are commendatory terms, while desire is derogatory.

Ideals and beliefs have risen from materialized desires to metaphysical world outlook, outlook on life and values, while desires are in a metaphysical biological nature.

Is there a distinction between good and evil between ideals and beliefs? I don't think so. However, many people will say yes. However, the good and evil of ideals and beliefs depends on the regime. The ideals and beliefs of different regimes are different, which means that the ideals and beliefs of the other regime are evil and good.

are there good and evil desires? There is no such thing. Desire is the most primitive and basic instinct of all animals in the world. How can there be good and evil? This is like China's ancient philosophy, which often discusses whether beginning of life is "good in nature" or "inherent vice". The key to the distinction between good and evil is to look at the social principles. Under certain circumstances, your goodness will be considered as evil, and his evil will be considered as "good". Therefore, everything depends on the development of society.

that's the artificial distinction between "advanced" and "low-level".

even if the ideal is defined as "advanced spiritual pursuit", it is also promoted by the desire defined as "low level".

Ma Yun became the "Father Ma" once admired by thousands of people, which was promoted by the desire of "being superior to others". Ma Yun became a former "street rat" because he didn't control his desire well, and his desire was excessively inflated, and he finally fell under the "lip service" that he wanted to change the so-called "ideal" of state-owned banks.

Looking at the history and reality, we must admit that desire makes people live a unique life.

the living conditions of all kinds of people around us and far away are determined by their desires: love and dissatisfaction are the power source of success, and they will work hard because of their unremitting pursuit of love (people, money, life and status).

people must have desires and strong desires.

the key is: control your desires!